Your blessing is hidden in your words
As the saying goes, a wise word warms a person for three winters, but a bad word hurts someone for six months.
It can be seen that a person’s language hides huge mysteries.
People who can talk can bring warmth to others and at the same time bring blessings back to themselves.
Language is a mirror of the human heart. What people think is first expressed through words. Kind people will never speak harshly or slander others for no reason.
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Never make fun of others to elevate yourself
Hemingway said: "It takes us two years to learn to speak, but a lifetime to learn to shut up."
Why do some people always love to ridicule and belittle others? These people all have a selfish nature. They all try to attack others to maintain their own image.
They do not consider other people's psychological feelings and do not know that verbal violence can have harmful consequences.
You must know that the speaker has no intention, but the listener has intention.
Sometimes, your casual words can hurt the self-esteem of others. This is not advisable.
Not making things difficult for others means not making things difficult for yourself, and not being mean to others is a kind of practice. I am also accumulating moral integrity.
Everyone has their own shortcomings, and everyone also has their own strengths. If you compare your own strengths with the weaknesses of others, of course you will be "better". But apart from some vanity at work, what's the point?
If you use vicious words to others, you will definitely get a corresponding response. When will retribution happen?
Making enemies for yourself with words is the most unworthy thing. They will set up unnecessary obstacles in their own lives.
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A person’s language expression can reveal a person’s accomplishments
Lu Duan was a famous prime minister in the Northern Song Dynasty. He was kind, open-minded, and profound. Be loved by people.
Lu Duan was smart and studious when he was young, and later he was able to become an official in the court. He is an honest official and lives a simple life. During the reign of Emperor Taizong, he was promoted to the rank of Privy Councilor, and soon became a minister of political affairs.
Zhongshu Zhao Pu spoke highly of him at that time, saying that Lu Duan did not pursue fame and fortune, and did not like to show off his appearance, so he was a valuable weapon of the country.
Lu Duan was a humble man and never competed with people of the same level for position, and was always willing to take a lower position.
But Taizong was very fond of him and often talked with him about the sunset.
Lu Duan is a talented person, he is respected by others, generous, likes to joke, does not stick to trivial matters, and does not care about trivial matters, so he is recognized as a bit "confused" by people.
But when it comes to military and national affairs, he is not confused at all.
On one occasion, Li Jiqian disturbed the border, and after deployment, the Song Dynasty army captured his mother.
Taizong discussed with Kou Zhun that Li Jiqian's mother should be executed to frighten Li Jiqian.
But Lu Duan strongly opposed this approach after hearing about it. He wrote to Taizong: "Back then, Xiang Yu wanted to execute Taizu's father and cook him, but Liu Bang said he was willing to get a share of the pie. People who do great things can underestimate family ties. What's more, Li Jiqian is a rebellious person!"
Taizong asked Lu Duan what to do?
Lu Duan said: "You can place her in Yanzhou and send people to serve her. This will also be a check on Li Jiqian. Even if he doesn't surrender, he should be restrained." "
Taizong felt that what Lu Duan said was reasonable, so he did as he said.
Later, Li Jiqian and his mother died one after another, and his son surrendered to the imperial court.
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One of Taizong's worries was finally settled.
This incident made Taizong admire Lu Duan very much and praised Lu Duan for being confused about small things but not at all about big things.
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It can be seen from Lu Duan's behavior that he is a very easy-going person. He can be confused about trivial matters, but he is not confused at all when it comes to major matters related to the country.
Such a person is a very accomplished person, and even today, he is a person worthy of praise.
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Your language is your cultivation and your Feng Shui
What kind of words a person often says will bring about luck. According to the law of attraction of the universe, what kind of sound you make to the universe will be what kind of result the universe will respond to you.
Good deeds will be rewarded with good deeds, and evil deeds will be rewarded with destructive consequences. The same is true with language. If you speak harshly to others all day long, it will be difficult for others to treat you with kindness.
A polite person who treats others kindly will also get spring breeze and rain in return.
Language is an art as well as a weapon. Zhuge Liang can criticize with words and writing, fight against the Confucian scholars, and shut up those who disagree with him. He can scold Wang Lang and make him fall off his horse, and he can make Zhou Lang angry to death and make him sigh. If there is brightness, why should there be beauty? But these can only be used to deal with enemies. We must not speak openly and without any restraint towards the friends around us.
People who can talk are always respected and popular. If a person speaks nicely, it will bring him good luck. Saying kind words often is to accumulate blessings for yourself. Accumulate virtue.