Are you a gentleman? !
What is the easiest topic for men to break the ice when they are together?
It’s about picking up girls!
Whether he is a well-dressed scholar or a model entrepreneur, a gentleman on stage or a suave person off stage, the more successful he is, the more rogue he becomes.
Last year, I went to Xi'an and traveled with Mr. Duan of Shenzhen Company. He believed in Feng Shui and specialized in energy science. He told us that the higher a person's achievements and energy are, the more women he needs.
In the same way, the higher a woman’s achievements and energy are, the more men she needs. This is a balancing principle.
When I first heard it, it was a fallacy.
After thinking about it later, I realized that there is some truth to it...
Maybe everyone is a gentleman, and I am a real villain. Anyway, I am lustful. If I have an affair, I believe it. I have no resistance. One day, when I have resistance, I will suffer from the same disease as Liu Xiahui.
Sometimes, I hate myself. Why am I such a person?
I only like my sister, not men. It would be great if I liked men. I would find a man to support me and I would be a pretty boy.
Hey, in the next life!
Last night, a strange netizen left me a message: Someone is teasing you, saying that you are very lecherous and have dated many girls.
I said, really? You have to thank him for me and praise me in this way.
Unfamiliar netizen: XX is not a thing, he always criticizes you...
I said, thank you, but please don’t pass on this information in the future. This is all negative energy, no People like a snitch, and I hope you and I will grow up together.
On the Internet, including in Moments, when you say anything, it no longer belongs to you.
Everyone will interpret it based on their own values, or go off topic, or twist it, or complain about it, or tease it, and perform different interpretations from various angles.
Don't be obsessed with how different the information others read is from yours. You just provide an opportunity for everyone to read themselves.
If you take it seriously...
You will be very tired...
After my son was born, I always warned myself to Try to be a role model for your son, because Brother Kai said that you and your wife are the best men and women in your son's eyes. Your values and attitude towards life will directly determine your child's future personality.
However, sometimes I can’t control myself. I will work hard to cultivate myself and not just follow through on empty words.
In the past, in my hometown, I liked raising dogs, and I only kept male dogs.
I discovered a phenomenon. As long as a male dog encounters a little female dog, he will chase her and tease her.
I am thinking that this may be the nature of animals. Human beings are also animals in nature and should have similar attributes. Why are some people indulgent and others reserved?
The superficial reason is self-control, and the fundamental reason is environmental factors. If you are a very good man, you cannot only attract your wife, you will attract a group of people, and you can reject one. , you can refuse ten, can you refuse a hundred?
Women are the same way. Everyone has their own weight. As long as there are enough weights, the scale will lose weight.
Okay, let’s just treat it as a fallacy.
We also discussed this point of view during our class reunion. I was the lead defense party at that time, and I had 6 supporters. The person who challenged me was Teacher Zhang, a university teacher. Her point of view was Yes, is there no pure love? Everlasting love? Is this society in such chaos? Aren't there any serious men? Do good men always cheat?
In a certain MBA class, the teacher asked, who has ever seen a young lady?
All the men raised their hands!
Is such a man unreliable?
Let me tell you my own experience, why did I get married?
Just for the sake of freshness, I just want to know what it feels like to get a marriage certificate.
So, in a haze, we got married.
After getting married, I found that this was not the case. Marriage was very binding. I was resistant and didn’t like being tied down.
At this time, when I met a beautiful woman again, my mentality was to rely on myself. I finally found my soulmate, and finally found where I belonged. I even wanted to start over again. I also had a divorce with my wife, but it was just My wife proposed it.
Later, my son was born. In the first year, my heart still didn’t come back and I was still charming. When my son called me daddy, I matured instantly. He was my copy. Like me, the blood of our family flows, and I have the responsibility of being a father.
At this time, I felt at ease and my family relationship was very stable. My wife mainly focused on her son, and I was responsible for making money outside. I would occasionally have romantic encounters, but my mentality was different. First, I wanted to Respect others, and secondly, respect yourself, including your family.
A prodigal son like me is more stable for my family, because I will not be tempted by money or beauty. No matter how beautiful my sister is, it is difficult to impress me. Occasionally, my wife will complain. , let’s change it.
Every time I go home, my wife will tease me: Xiao Weizi, have you teased your little sister?
I said, I am getting old too fast recently, my hair is too thin, I don’t have the money to do it anymore!
Actually, the main reason is that my current life is too monotonous.
Now that I have a concept of home, whether I am on a business trip or after get off work, the first thing I think of is going home.
What is home?
Now in my concept, home is my root. Especially every time I go back to my hometown, I feel more deeply. There is the land passed down from generation to generation, our unique living customs, and our large courtyard with a separate courtyard. I have healthy and happy parents...
The bad traits of rural areas are particularly heavy on me.
Living in a building or a hotel, I have no sense of security. It always feels like living in a cage. I like to be in a single house, clean and leisurely, and have my own space.
My neighbors all praise me, saying that I have a good discipline and come home on time after get off work...
Let's get back to the topic.
At first, I thought I was very different and liked women. Later, after getting in touch with them more, I realized, damn, they are the same kind of thing, but they are just pretending to be good.
When those celebrities are with me, all they talk about is their experience in picking up girls, but they all have better images than me because they disguise themselves well and bring their wives to attend events and so on!
I feel more and more now that it is easy to be infected when spending all day with a group of entrepreneurs, because their thinking patterns are different, their attitudes towards life are different, they are simpler, sunnier and more innocent .
Yesterday, my wife asked me to watch "Happy Comedian" together and said it was too funny. A passing glance.
It was difficult for me to accept these comedy variety shows in the past. I always thought that I was a gentleman, watching "Post-80s Talk Show" and "Xiaosong Qitan" and the like. Classify these programs into the vulgar category.
You may not know it by looking at it, but actually being funny is also an art.
Why are all the disciples of this mountain so popular?
It interprets the side of people who like to pretend. It seems vulgar on the surface, but it is actually everyone’s nature...
There is a joke in the middle, I forgot who said it, but it is said to be true.
There was a college performance exam one year, and the examiner said to all the candidates: "Which of you can use the most special method to make me remember you in the shortest time?"
A student came up, bang, a big mouth...
Talking, laughing, in short, be a positive person, lustful is a real man!