Buddha talks about marriage

The Buddha said that the cause of premature death of one spouse and the reason for becoming a widow. The Buddha said that although most couples can still stay together for a long time in life, there are also many people who lose their husbands due to illness, accidents, etc. , makes a woman become a widow. From a Buddhist point of view, this is all caused by cause and effect. The Buddha said that the premature death of a husband and wife is caused by cause and effect. What does the Buddha say about the reasons for becoming a widow? Let’s take a look.

The Buddha said that the cause and effect of premature death of a husband and wife is because they owed their husband in the previous life, so they will be widowed in this life; in addition, if they owed love debts in the past, they need to be repaid one by one in this life. This may cause a girl to lose her husband along the way and end up living alone for the rest of her life. After all, Buddhist scriptures emphasize the cycle of cause and effect, so there still needs to be harmony between husband and wife.

However, the death of the husband cannot be entirely attributed to the above statement. After all, they are all superstitious legends, and birth, old age, illness, death or accidents are all unpredictable. We can only say that we should take relevant precautions in life and try our best. Avoid accidents; women should not lose their emotional motivation after losing their husbands. They can remarry when they meet the right person. There is no requirement that they must be alone all their lives.

When one spouse dies due to various reasons, the other spouse still needs to adjust his mentality in time. While remembering his lover, he also needs to face life positively, and he can remarry when he meets the right person.

The Buddha said how to know when marriage is coming and why marriage is delayed

Marriage is a problem faced by many young people nowadays, and many people around them in their thirties and forties are still Not being friends or getting married makes my parents very anxious. They also want to know when the fate of their children will come by praying to the Buddha. Here is what the Buddha said about how to know when the fate of marriage has arrived and the reasons why marriage has not come. Let’s understand together. Take a look.

The reason why marriage has not come may be due to the fact that there are more official stars, that is, one's own love luck is better, and also because there are too many choices, which makes oneself dazzled and feel that no one is suitable. It is very suitable, so that your marriage will not come for a long time, and you will lose yourself; secondly, it is related to the birth date. Some people's marriage comes later, so they are anxious and do not come.

But for today's young people, the reason why they have been slow to get married is that first of all, everyone is very independent and feels that living alone is very good if they have the ability to earn money; secondly, current marriages are not It is not very stable, which makes everyone lose confidence and unwilling to enter this stage.

If you want to know whether your marriage has arrived, in fact, you need to pay more attention to your own feelings. When you see a boy or a girl, you have an urge in your heart to be together; Or if you feel very comfortable and talkable with someone for a long time, and then feel very anxious after losing their company, then this may be the person who will accompany you for the rest of your life, and it also means that your marriage has arrived.

The Buddha said that encounters in this life are from previous lives.

Many people believe in fate and think that everyone they meet may be related to previous lives. Later, after hearing the Buddhist content of "Looking back five hundred times in the past life, only to pass by each other in this life", I felt that this sentence was very appropriate. The Buddha said that the encounter in this life is the reunion of the previous life, which means that the two people had unfinished business in the previous life. fate.

The Buddha said that encounters in this life are reunions in previous lives, so the encounter and companionship of husbands and wives, lovers, friends, relatives, etc. are all fate. Only by cherishing fate and getting along well can we gain peace in our lives. If the two people did not owe each other or have any involvement with each other in the previous life, how could they meet in this life? The deeper the bond between the two and the closer the relationship, the closer the relationship was in the past life, and there are more stories in the past life, because the unfinished stories in the previous life continue into this life.

Of course, as for the content in Buddhism that says that two people met in this life because of their fate in the past life, people can believe it, or they can stick to their own opinions and think that the encounter between two people is an encounter, and there is no unfinished fate. There are no past life relationship stories. They feel that each other is just friends, relatives, or classmates. The relationship between the two is pure and they just need to live well in the present. There is no need to involve the past life. They think that there was something destined for the two of them in the past life and they need to make up for it in this life.

Regarding the content of Buddhism, those who believe can continue to practice, while those who do not believe can live a good life.

The Buddha said that people who love each other cannot be together, and people who cannot love each other in this life

Nowadays, many people fall in love freely. Compared with blind dates, there are no restrictions on blind dates, and love is free. It is more relaxed and you can find the person you love. It is relatively happy for two people to love each other. But in real life, some people who love each other are forced to separate and cannot be together. This is very painful. This is also the case at this time. You have to learn to let go, otherwise it will be more painful. The Buddha said that people who love each other cannot be together, and people who cannot love each other in this life cannot be together. What should I do? Let me answer this question in detail below.

The Buddha said that if people who love each other or people who cannot love each other in this life cannot be together, they should do the following:

1. Learn to bless each other, when two people who love each other are determined If you can't be together, you have to learn to bless each other. This is also a better way. Wishing each other happiness can also make the other person let go and not be so sad.

2. Learn to be cruel. The most fearful thing in a relationship is dragging your feet. So when two people just can't be together, don't pester each other, or don't meet, don't mention, don't pay attention, this will make it easier to get over the pain. pain.

3. If you really don’t want to let go of this relationship, you can see clearly that the reason why you can’t be together is because of your parents’ opposition or practical reasons. The two of you can try to work together to eliminate these external interference factors. exclude. After all, it's not easy for two people to fall in love. Of course, if one party has a family, it is recommended to let go. Being a third party is bad and immoral, and you will not be happy in the end.

Feelings are a matter between two people. If each other loves each other, they still have to break through all obstacles and stay with each other when they love each other deeply. This is the happiest thing.