If you don’t support me, I’ll go to the police station and sue you! My mother-in-law in the countryside is acting aggressively, what should I do?

In the eyes of many mothers-in-law, it is only natural for their daughter-in-law to provide for themselves in old age. But is this really the case?

In fact, the daughter-in-law has no obligation to provide for her mother-in-law in her old age. Only her mother-in-law's son has the obligation to provide for her in her old age. The daughter-in-law's support for her mother-in-law depends on affection. If there is no affection between the two parties at all, then she should be entitled to not provide for her mother-in-law in her old age.

In other words, it is my duty not to support you in old age, but it is my duty to support you in old age. It's that simple.

But there are always some mothers-in-law who feel that their daughter-in-law must provide for themselves in old age. This kind of mother-in-law may have some cognitive biases, or the environment she lives in is like that, so she formed this idea.

Because of this kind of thinking, you may have differences with your daughter-in-law, which may lead to conflicts. Many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are caused by this.

A friend I know doesn’t understand her mother-in-law’s thoughts. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, a daughter-in-law who marries her son is a member of her own family. She will not return to her parents' family if she can, and she must work hard and support her in her old age.

It was because of this idea that the friend and his mother-in-law had a very unhappy relationship. This also illustrates the truth that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should never be allowed to live together for a long time, because it can easily lead to conflicts.

Amei never expected that he would be able to enter the police station in his lifetime. This person was in great disgrace.

Amei received a call that day, and it turned out to be a call from the police at the police station, saying that someone was suing her and asking her to go to the police station to explain the situation. Amei went there with a worried heart. After entering, she couldn't help but became furious because the person who sued her was none other than her mother-in-law.

Amei gritted her teeth with hatred when she mentioned her mother-in-law. Ever since she married her husband Yu Bin, she and her mother-in-law have been at odds with each other, with frequent conflicts. Amei still gets angry when thinking about what her mother-in-law did back then.

When Amei and Yu Bin got married, Yu Bin was still a poor boy with nothing. Yu Bin's family was from an average background, and his parents were both farmers. But Yu Bin is a very motivated man. He works hard just to change his destiny.

Amei also admired his perseverance and enterprising spirit, so she agreed to marry him. Because Amei feels that even if Yu Bin has nothing now, he is a potential stock and will definitely succeed in the future.

But something happened during the wedding. Originally, Yu Bin promised to give Amei a gift of 50,000 yuan. But when Yu Bin's mother found out about this, she didn't agree at all. She also said that the two were in a free love relationship and did not need a bride price.

Actually, Amei doesn’t care about these betrothal gifts at all. Even if she asks for a betrothal gift, she will control it by herself, and her parents will not ask for the money at all. But the mother-in-law actually went to Amei's house to make trouble with her parents, saying that marriage was a matter between two children and that adults should not interfere. The implication is that this bride price is what Amei’s parents want.

Amei and her parents were so angry that they said directly: If you marry into such a family, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be unbearable for you in the future!

Unfortunately, Amei loved Yu Bin very much at that time. She convinced her parents and married Yu Bin.

The married life was originally peaceful, but within half a year, Yu Bin's mother insisted on coming to the city, saying she wanted to enjoy the blessings. The couple had no choice but to agree.

But the arrival of her mother-in-law made Amei extremely painful.

The living habits of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are fundamentally different, so they have many differences and frequent conflicts when they get along. My mother-in-law is a typical rural woman with little education. She is also stingy and greedy for petty gains. Amei really can't get along with her.

The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is getting deeper and deeper, which makes Amei feel very painful. It was at this time that she became pregnant.

Yu Bin meant to ask his mother to take care of the pregnant Amei. Unexpectedly, when his mother-in-law heard that she had to take care of her daughter-in-law, she refused directly and quickly returned to her hometown. This made Amei very angry.

From the time Amei was pregnant to the time after giving birth, her mother-in-law didn't come here a few times. Every time she came, she went home on the same day and didn't want to take care of Amei and the child at all.

Amei was speechless towards her mother-in-law, and secretly hated her in her heart.

During those days, Amei was working and taking care of her children at the same time. She was very tired every day. Yu Bin begged his mother many times, but was rejected. The mother-in-law also said to Amei: "You city people are so delicate, and you need someone to take care of you when you give birth to a child. When I gave birth to my son, I was working in the fields within a month. And you, a junior, let me, an elder, Wait, you are not afraid of losing your life!"

Amei became even more angry with her mother-in-law. Since then, Amei has never been to her husband's house again, even if Yu Bin begged her, she would not go.

After so many years of marriage, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have always had a bad relationship, and they would quarrel when they meet. As her mother-in-law grew older and her health became worse than before, the care of her mother-in-law fell on Yu Bin.

But Amei said directly: It is impossible for me to provide for your mother in her old age. If you want to provide for your mother in her old age, I will not stop you.

Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law found out about this and actually went to Amei and said: "Let me tell you, it is only natural for a daughter-in-law to provide for her mother-in-law in her old age. You don't want to provide for me in her old age? Don't worry, I will sue you!"

Amei looked at her mother-in-law, who was arrogant and domineering towards her, and was furious. She directly replied: "Where were you when I was pregnant and in confinement? When my son needed someone to take care of him, you Where are you? Now that you have come to care for you, let me tell you, I can’t provide care for you. Just go and dream!”

When my mother-in-law heard what Amei said, she immediately acted like a rural shrew. Come, lie down on the ground and roll around. But Amei was not moved at all.

My mother-in-law actually went to the police station to sue her. Amei went to the police station to explain the situation, and Yu Bin also went there. After the matter was explained clearly, several people left the police station.

Amei felt that she had almost lost all her face in this life, so she had a quarrel with her mother-in-law on the way. And asked Yu Bin to send her back to her hometown quickly.

Because of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Amei’s married life has always been full of problems. Like many couples affected by the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Amei and Yu Bin did not know how to resolve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so they allowed it to affect their marriage.

In fact, husband and wife must work together to resolve conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Only in this way can the conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be resolved and the marriage return to its former glory.