Is it really good for couples who don't quarrel?

not good. Quarrel or noisy cold war is an essential part of many marriages, and they are also part of marriage. It is not impossible to forcibly remove them from marriage. Only the consequence of this is that the marriage is no longer complete.

I have met several such couples. Their feelings are neither salty nor light. They are all middle-aged, and their children have already married. It is really not necessary to say that they have good feelings.

besides not quarreling, these couples have a very special point: they can't discuss. If you want to make a decision on a matter, it is usually one party who has the final say. If the other party thinks that his idea is better, he can only adopt his own idea. The idea put forward before is rejected by one vote, and there is no discussion. Couples who have no room for bargaining are worse than fake couples.

their world is really black and white. What are your specialties? Well, everything is up to you. I won't use my head on this matter. It's up to you to decide. Then at the beginning of the implementation, I complained constantly. This kind of marriage is really tiring. It is better for two people to have a good fight and bargain everything out.

Even in the happiest family, the couple often quarrel about something, and there was a cold war, but they all quarreled at the bedside and at the end of the bed. On the contrary, they can reach an agreement on some things. Only by giving up what they think they can give up and sticking to what they can't give up can the marriage run well in the process of seeking common ground while reserving differences.

Every time a young couple asks me: I want to talk about a love that will never quarrel, never break up and never divorce, I will bring up this question and tell them how I feel in such a marriage and family.

If you have such a couple around you, you will feel uncomfortable if you go to their house, because the cold environment is not a life at all, and I don't know what to describe it.

Therefore, there is nothing wrong with quarreling between the couple and arguing over some differences. At least in this fierce confrontation, the couple have polished their edges and corners more smoothly and have better feelings.