What kind of marriage is good Feng Shui?
I think emotional marriage has nothing to do with Feng Shui. What really affects the emotional relationship between two people is the problems they encounter in the process of getting along. Can they be properly resolved? Can they understand each other and support each other when they encounter difficulties?
Conditions that really affect emotional marriage
1. Three views
In addition to the exchange of objects, the most important thing in interpersonal communication is the exchange of ideas. Only when the three views are the same can we communicate well and have in-depth exchanges, and can we get along well and get along for a long time. This is true in relationships, and even more so in marriage. Men and women in marriage are together all day long. They have different views and poor communication. Misunderstandings are easy to occur and conflicts occur frequently. It is difficult to imagine that harmony and long-term harmony will occur. The three views are consistent, they have the same language, communication is easy and in-depth, they appreciate each other, and they get along harmoniously and long-term. Most couples who grow old together in love have consistent and similar views. Therefore, men and women who are preparing to get married must first consider whether the three views of both parties are consistent. If they are together, they will continue, otherwise they will separate. The three views are consistent, which is the prerequisite for men and women to continue to interact. The three views are inconsistent, the process is tortuous, the ending is tragic, both parties are injured, why bother?
2. Personality
When men and women stay together for a long time, happiness is the main theme. When people interact with each other, they need to have good tempers. If their personalities are not compatible and they dislike each other, their interactions will be superficial. How can you fall in love without going deep? If they are incompatible and torture each other, the marriage will be unsustainable. Falling in love will make you feel comfortable, and marriage will make you happy. The prerequisite is that you have the same personality, the right eyes, and the right temperament. Who can bear the roar of the lion from Hedong? Grinding and chirping can also make people angry and anxious. Without the theme of happiness, marriage and love are a painful nightmare and boring. Personality determines the style of interaction between men and women. Only when they are complementary and complementary can they be harmonious and lasting.
3. Quality level
Humanistic factors such as knowledge, experience, and tutoring are influenced and internalized to form a person's comprehensive quality. There are high and low levels of human quality. Different quality levels have different pursuits, lifestyles, and priorities in life. When people with widely different qualities get together, everything needs to be adjusted and adapted again. It is necessary to change not only others, but also oneself, which is tiring for others and makes marriage become torture and lose the sweetness. When people from different worlds come together, it's a novelty at first, and then they treat each other as monsters, fighting and conquering each other. Will there be any good results from this? Different levels, different worlds, time travel is just a dream. If people have similar or identical qualities, it will be easier to get along with them. If they don't dislike each other, they can join hands and live in harmony and happiness till the end of their lives.