The door-to-door son-in-law took the initiative to give money to her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law complained to her daughter: What do you think of his hiding private money?
I have such a boyfriend who is a door-to-door son-in-law When they first talked about marriage, the wife of the man's girlfriend asked the man's girlfriend to go back to her mother's house and take care of her elderly parents together on the grounds that her parents were too old. In order to fulfill his wife, the boyfriend and girlfriend directly agreed to this matter without consulting anyone in the family. After marriage, he followed his wife back to her family and stayed there for development.
However, just yesterday, my boyfriend suddenly sent me a WeChat telling me that he really shouldn't be a door-to-door son-in-law, and now he almost regrets it. I asked him what was wrong, and he began to pour me bitter water. He said that since he went to his wife's house, he has been as filial to his father-in-law as his own parents. His father-in-law was also good to him, washing and cooking for him, and the family was harmonious and beautiful, but the contradiction gradually came out.
Male girlfriends love their wives very much. They get paid every month and only keep pocket money for themselves. Once, to please her mother-in-law, a boyfriend and girlfriend gave her 200 yuan. On the surface, the mother-in-law looked very happy, but secretly told her daughter that her boyfriend and girlfriend had hidden private money, which led to a big quarrel between the couple. Since then, male girlfriends have been very wary of their mother-in-law and dare not give her money casually.
The boyfriend and girlfriend also said that his wife is the eldest daughter and youngest daughter of the family. She divorced a few years ago. She has no job, no income and doesn't care about anything. Therefore, he and his wife are fully responsible for the food, clothing, housing and transportation of the two old people. A year ago, my sister-in-law rented a house near her mother's house, which made my mother-in-law very happy. Every time I have a meal, I have to invite my sister-in-law. It's ok to eat it ten times and eight times, but after eating it for half a year, my boyfriend has a different opinion.
Once my sister-in-law came to dinner, and he deliberately embarrassed her with a black face. Since then, my sister-in-law has been embarrassed to come. Boyfriends and girlfriends say that it's not that he is petty, but that his sister-in-law is too rogue, regardless of his parents. It's really outrageous to go home to eat and drink.
Although my mother-in-law didn't say anything about it, she must be blaming him in her heart. Later, the mother-in-law stopped asking her little daughter to eat, but would leave a bowl of food to hide and secretly send it to her little daughter when her boyfriend was not at home or not paying attention. This kind of thing has been discovered by male girlfriends several times, and I want to expose it every time, but I finally held back. Poor inheritance, maternal love is right or wrong. What can he care about a mother?
However, one thing happened recently, which made male girlfriends really unbearable. A few days ago, my mother-in-law and friends went for a walk in the mountains. When she came back, she suddenly announced that she had taken a fancy to two cemeteries in the mountains. Feng shui is very good, and she wants to buy it for future generations so as not to be taken away by others.
At first, the man's girlfriend felt too abrupt. Two old talents are in their early sixties, and their bodies are also very strong. What kind of hurry is this? Then when they asked about the price, the man's girlfriend couldn't stand it at once. Two cemeteries actually cost 30 thousand yuan, which is not a small sum.
He and his wife are just ordinary wage earners. They have to take care of the elderly and raise children, and they can't save any money at all. Now, they can't help buying two pieces of land the size of a palm at a time. I don't want to buy it even if I have the ability, because his wife's hometown is in the countryside, and her family has a large area of land. Where is the cemetery chosen? Why do you have to spend this money?
When the man's girlfriend told his mother-in-law, her mother-in-law didn't think so. She said that there was no treasure in her hometown, otherwise so many ancestors were buried, why didn't a descendant prosper? Boyfriends and girlfriends think that her mother-in-law's ideas are too conservative, even superstitious. The feng shui of Qin Shihuang's mausoleum is good enough, but Qin Shihuang died only a few years ago. How did the Qin Dynasty perish?
The boyfriend and girlfriend said that if I had known that I was so wronged as a door-to-door son-in-law, I wouldn't have done anything at the beginning. After listening to him pour out his grievances, I realized that not only the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult to handle, but also the relationship between son-in-law and mother-in-law is difficult to handle. In short, men and women have their own difficulties.
I advised my best friend that if he didn't have an adopted son, but the woman married him, he wouldn't have to face his mother-in-law, but his wife would. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled naturally, but if it is not handled well, family conflicts will come out, and then he will have to be in a dilemma between his mother and his wife. No matter which side he supports, he will offend the other side. It's really a pig looking in the mirror-it's not a person inside and outside.
Instead of this, it is better to be a son-in-law at home. Besides, as a man, he can't even solve family conflicts. How can he work hard outside in the future? Finally, under my persuasion, my boyfriend finally let go. He decided not to be angry with his mother-in-law, but to deal with it in a gentle way.