When you are a human being, talk about fate and fortune. Never look down on others. Classic quotations

When you are a person, you should pay attention to fate and luck, and never look down on others.

A truly elegant lady never shows off everything she owns. She does not tell others what books she has read, where she has been, how many clothes she has, and what jewelry she has bought. No inferiority complex.

No matter how careful something is, it will be wrong to overthink it.

Due to age, experience and other reasons, we may have made some irreparable mistakes when we were young, took some unavoidable detours, and experienced some unbearable setbacks. If we use "sunk costs" "" concept to understand these things, as long as we learn from these mistakes, detours and setbacks, adjust the course, face a new beginning, and make our road wider and wider, we may win a new kind of A more positive life.

Don’t be selfish and don’t expect to have too much. Have the courage to safeguard your own rights and interests. Be friendly and polite to those around you. The most reliable way to pursue happiness is to have a mentality of surpassing others. The feeling of believing that you are better than others is very important.

You have the right to be angry, but you should not trample on the dignity of others; you have the right to fail, but you should not give up on yourself; you have the right to strive for success, but not at the expense of others; you have the right to demand disputes , but revenge should not be used as a means; you have the right to ask for a better life, but you should not use today's deception to pick up tomorrow's happiness.

Smiling away in the face of failure and setbacks is a kind of optimism and self-confidence; smiling away in the face of misunderstanding and hatred is a kind of calmness and tolerance; smiling away in the face of praise and encouragement is a kind of humility Being awake; facing troubles and sorrows has passed away, which is a kind of peace and relief. Failures and setbacks, misunderstandings and hatred, troubles and sorrows are all temporary, as long as you don't let them influence you. The sun always comes after the storm. Don't miss the broken old dreams, don't worry about the gains and losses in life. Send away the unpleasant clouds with a smile. Don't let them cover your eyes. Don't deny tomorrow's happiness because of today's pain. Since everything is temporary, why don’t we just laugh it off and start over?

There is nothing more precious in the world than friendship, family affection, and love. They are priceless and cannot be bought with gold. When we are alive, we should remember those who have helped us in times of difficulty and comforted us in times of pain.

The best and most precious book, after reading it, will bring you to a new realm. Such books will arouse in us new, sublime consciousness, strong longings, pure emotions. Such a book will push us forward, and will also drive the people around us; such a book will wake us up from our slumber, get us out of the quagmire of confusion, and lead us on to a life of pioneering life.

A person should try his best to tap all his potential to realize his dreams. His efforts may fail, but giving up means that you cannot succeed at all.

Excerpts from beautiful sentences:

1. It was a summer that had not changed for many years. It was like an unknown light year and an unknown season. The large dark green shades covered some of the slanting sunlight. The setting sun makes the ground seem to alternate between darkness and light. It turns out that summer has already quietly arrived.

2. Who said that flowers will eventually bloom and fall? Countless flowers bloom in summer, and the sadness passes by the wind in winter. We have walked through thousands of rivers before we can reach the other shore in our hearts; we have gone through countless winds and rains before we can reach the end point on the other shore. In the end, all the moments turned into nothingness.

3. Those memories that belong to us are slowly fading, and the summer with our names engraved on them gradually blooms and smudges the light-colored sky.

4. Legend has it that the North Star always points to the north, but I can't see that bright planet, and it can't point to the direction I want to go. Legend has it that the Tropic of Capricorn is on the other side of the world, but that line is not clearly planned and cannot lead those back home. The southern light is the coupling, and the coupling is divided between the north and the south.

5. If there really is such a doomsday, will you escape alone, or will you hold my hand and wait for the great death together? If there really is such a day, I am willing, I I want to walk with you through all these sorrows and sorrows.

6. Those memories, quietly hovering in the sky, lingering, telling our past; those beautiful things, sleeping silently in the bottom of the heart, spreading, telling each other's longing. In this never-ending summer, everything will turn into nothing and disappear. Now we have a past that we can no longer go back to, and a future that we no longer long for. Do we have to intersect with happiness after all? It turns out that I am still a person who longs for happiness after all.

7. The once dull years began to turn dark, the world turned upside down, the good times in the past began to become ridiculous, and the earth cracked again. The world began to become desolate, and the world began to be illusory. You appeared in front of me with a refreshing look, at the crossroads of that age.

At that time, were you still you?

8. All the songs were sung again in an instant, and all things were thought of again in an instant. Those who once loved us have never left. Who starts to remember again, who starts to sing again, those things that have touched us will come back at a certain moment.

9. When the last note sounded, longing came to a rest, and no matter how beautiful the sentence was, it also came to an end. However, this does not herald the end, but represents another wonderful continuation.

10. Happiness is hidden in a small corner. Every piece of happiness is waiting for its owner to discover its existence. Happiness has been waiting, but people foolishly thought that they were waiting for happiness to visit. So in the end you just miss out on happiness.

11. The lost beauty is like those drifting cherry blossoms, beautiful, fragile, and so unforgettable. The sunshine seems to have reviewed our sorrow, slowly waking up all the sleeping past. Our time seems to be the sand in the hourglass.

12. Time is passing quietly, and years are passing by in a hurry; time flies infinitely, time will not be repeated, and memories will always become yesterday.

13. That is our increasingly confused road. Stepping into our uncertain future, I am still thinking about what you once said to me. My eyes slowly cover the past, and the birds begin to fly. Singing slowly, the tide slowly overflowed the sadness, and it came to the end without making a sound.

14. We are all dolls at both ends of memory, slowly entangled by invisible thin threads; we are all trees on both sides of the road, standing silently on those sorrows. In those trembling days, those days that are gone, we all have to tell ourselves to live humbly.

15. Some forgotten things become destined ties, and then push people into the abyss. In fact, I have always been afraid of being sad. Yet sadness flowed mercilessly through my blood.

16. Carefully pick up the broken pieces and piece them together. Can they still be restored?

These are the sentences I excerpted from the work "The Last Summer" that I read far and near. Because these sentences touched a certain chord in us, I excerpted them and put them on the blog to share with them. Let’s share everything about youth together! Zhang Ailing’s classic quotations about women

1. After a man completely understands a woman, he will not love her.

2. When you fall in love with someone, you are always a little afraid, afraid of getting him; afraid of losing him.

3. Kind people will always suffer. The burden of sorrow seems to be innate, so they can only be patient.

4. Deep affection is a burden that I cannot bear, and love words are just lies that come true accidentally.

5. I love you, and for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything - including you.

6. Small sorrows and difficulties can develop a serious outlook on life.

7. Women...women talk about men, miss men, and complain about men all their lives, forever and ever.

8. Useless women are the most powerful women.

9. The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love also loves you.

10. A broad bond between life and death - being happy with your son, holding your hand, and growing old together with your son is the saddest poem... Life, death and separation are all major events that are not under our control. . Compared with the power of the outside world, how small we humans are, how small! But we insist on saying: ‘I will always be with you, and we will never leave you for the rest of our lives’. ——As if we ourselves are in charge.

11. When I hear something that is obviously irrelevant, I will think of you several times in my mind.

12. When you die, my story ends, but when I die, your story is still long.

13. Are you young? It doesn't matter, you will be old in two years

14. For people after the age of thirty, ten or eight years is just a matter of time; but for young people, three to five years It can be a lifetime.

15. I love you, what does it have to do with you? No matter how weird it is, it can’t be blamed on you.

16. Among thousands of people, meet the person you want to meet. For millions of years, in the endless wilderness of time, there is neither a step early nor a step late. When we meet, we can only say softly: "Oh, are you here too?"

17. Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red one will become a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, while the white one will remain "the bright moonlight in front of the window"; marry a white rose, and the white one will become a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one will become A cinnabar mole on the heart.

18. I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world. No matter when or where you are, you know that there is always such a person.

19. Love is not complicated at first. It only takes three words to come and go. It’s not “I love you, I hate you,” or “Forget it. How are you? I’m sorry.

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20. Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness. It is because of expectations that we are disappointed. Because there is love, we have expectations, so even if we are disappointed, it is also a kind of happiness, although this kind of happiness is a bit painful

21. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, I wouldn’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn’t lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I wouldn’t be in pain if I could. How wonderful it would be if I didn’t love you.

22. We can never go back!

23. If emotions and years can be gently torn into pieces and thrown into the sea, Then, I am willing to be silent at the bottom of the sea. I love to hear your words, but I don’t understand. You want to see my silence, but you don’t understand.

24. You ask me if I love you more. It's worth it. In fact, you should know that love doesn't matter whether it's worth it or not.

25. I like money because I have never suffered from money and I don't know the disadvantages of money. I only know the benefits of money.

26. Being able to love someone enough to ask for pocket money is a strict test.

27. For those who cannot speak, clothes are a language. Carry a pocket drama with you

28. There is always time and opportunity for things to be done; there are always excuses for things not to be done.

29. If you. If you don't tease a woman, she will say you are not a man; if you tease her, she will say you are not a classy person.

30. Memories are always melancholy, which makes people feel: it's a pity that it's over. It still makes me sad to think about it.

31. A close friend is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful part of our nature.

32. Doing something for others is a bit of a blessing. Resentment, life is interesting, otherwise it will be too empty.

33. Books are the best friends.

The only drawback is that it makes me more myopic, but it's still worth it.

34. A person can best show the noble qualities of his nature when he is in love. This is why romance novels are always popular - both at home and abroad.

35. People waste money because they are unhappy, which is a compensatory effect.

36. I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world. No matter when or where you are, you know that there is always such a person.

37. If memory has a smell, it is the fragrance of camphor, sweet and steady, like clearly remembered music, sweet and melancholy, like forgotten sorrow.

38. For people after the age of thirty, ten or eight years is just a matter of time, but for young people, three to five years can be a lifetime.

39. Generally speaking, people who have lived more than half their lives have some real life experience and some unique insights. They never thought of writing it down, but things changed and it was lost to oblivion.

40. Men do wrong things, but women go all out to plan how to do wrong things. Women don't think much about the future - and also try hard to forget their past - so God knows what they have to think about!

41. When a man longs for a woman’s body, he cares about her soul and lies to himself that he is in love with her soul. Only after occupying her body could he forget her soul.

42. If you really commit suicide, it will be over if you die, but life is more terrifying than death. Life can develop without limit and become worse and worse than originally imagined. The most unbearable state is even more unbearable.

43. Clothes that are too big have a special kind of allure. As you walk, there are ups and downs. Where there are people, people are trembling, and where there are no people, clothes are Trembling, virtual and real, extremely mysterious.

44. Because you understand, you are compassionate.

45. There is no emotion in this world that is not riddled with holes.

46. What is short is life, what is long is suffering.

47. If you like someone, you will humble yourself into the dust and then bloom into flowers.

48. Laugh, and the whole world will laugh with you; cry, and you will cry alone.

49. The huge self and this rotten and beautiful world, the two corpses are tied together back to back. You are falling to me, and I am falling to you, sinking.

50. However, when the wine is in the stomach and the things are in the heart, there always seems to be a layer in between. No matter how much wine you drink, it can't reach your heart. Pay attention to Feng Shui when placing flowers, be careful of bad luck..

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Living room

The living room should be more particular. The varieties that can be used include lucky bamboo and Penglai pine. , cactus, podocarpus, aesculus, palm bamboo, money tree, clivia, ball orchid, orchid, cyclamen, citrus, bird's nest fern, dracaena, etc. These flowers are auspicious things in Feng Shui and contain good luck. , meaning to gather wealth and gain fortune.

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Bedroom

Bedrooms should generally be filled with a quiet, peaceful and warm atmosphere. You can choose cacti, prickly pear, spider plants, roses, tulips and tuberose. , lilies, calla lilies, etc., couples are harmonious under the fragrant flowers, children are quiet, easy to fall asleep, and suitable for rest.

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Study

The study should be filled with the aroma of books, and flowers should be placed in the master's place. You can choose mangosteen, asparagus, lucky bamboo, ivy, etc. These flowers can activate people's thinking and are beneficial to learning. You can also put potted leaves, calamus, etc. on the desk, which can concentrate the mind and prevent sleep.

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Dining room

In addition to being healthy, the dining room also requires neatness and uniformity. Flowers are yellow roses. Yellow carnations and other flowers are mainly orange, which increases appetite and promotes good health.

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Balcony

Appropriate flower varieties should be selected according to sunlight conditions, such as jasmine, chrysanthemum, lotus, crabapple, asparagus, begonia, Holland, Begonia, sunflower, Milan, osmanthus, crab claw orchid, etc. When placing various flowers, the positive ones should be placed close to the sun, and the negative ones should be placed behind them. Each should have its own place.

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Gate

If the gate is opposite to the stairs, fishtail sunflower, palm bamboo, etc. can be placed in the conflicting place to eliminate evil spirits, such as the balcony window If there is evil spirit somewhere, you can use cactus, rose, or jade unicorn to transform it. Potted gourds can also be used to turn evil spirits into evil spirits.

In short, improper indoor greening layout and incorrect selection of flower varieties will have adverse effects on the residents' careers. Flowers can cure diseases, regulate the mind and nourish the mind, and can make a house prosperous and bring people prosperity, but they can also harm people. , kill people, so we must think more about it when arranging indoor flowers. Classic Buddhist quotations about cause and effect

1. Emotional attachment is the cause of suffering. Only when you let go of emotional attachment can you feel free.

2. Letting go is not about muddle along and follow the rules, but to do your best and obey destiny.

3. Don’t be too sure of your own opinions, this way you will have fewer regrets.

4. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.

5. It is shameful for people to cover up their shortcomings by hurting others.

6. People in the world must be responsible for the law. Practitioners must be responsible for cause and effect.

7. When you are poor, use your body to give, such as sweeping the floor, sprinkling water, moving things, etc. This is also a kind of giving.

8. A person who is full of jealousy, is not honest in his heart, and speaks incorrectly cannot be regarded as a person with good facial features.

9. Silently caring for and blessing others is an invisible form of giving.

10. Tell more jokes and deal with things with a humorous attitude, so that life will be easier.

11. The way to get along with others is unlimited tolerance.

12. Don’t deliberately guess what others think. If you don’t have the correct judgment with wisdom and experience, you will usually make mistakes.

13. To understand a person, you only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, and you can know whether he is sincere.

14. The truth of life is just hidden in the dull.

15. If you don’t take a shower, the perfume will not smell good if you apply it hard. Fame and honor come from true talent and learning. Virtues are naturally fragrant.

16. Instead of rejecting the fact that it has already happened, you might as well accept it. This is called accepting fate.

17. Buddhas and Bodhisattvas only bless those who are willing to help themselves.

18. Adversity is a necessary process for growth. Those who have the courage to accept adversity will grow stronger day by day.

19. You have to thank the person who told you about your shortcomings.

20. People who can think of others will never be lonely.

21. If you can discover your own shortcomings as accurately as you can see the shortcomings of others, then your life will be extraordinary.

22. To forgive others is to leave space in your heart for recovery.

23. Time will pass, let time flow away your worries!

24. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be very painful.

25. There is no cure for people who always distort the good intentions of others.

26. People are not bad, they are just habits. Everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a Taoist heart, forgive him if you can, and don't regard him as a bad person.

27. If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?

28. In fact, people who love beauty just fall in love with themselves.

28. There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. When you talk a lot, others will criticize you. When you talk little, others will criticize you. When you are silent, others will still criticize you. There is no one in this world who is not criticized.

29. Those who praise us and praise us are not famous teachers. Those who can speak to us and instruct us are good teachers. Only with them can we make progress. 91. Everything you have now will become the property of others when you die, so why not give it to those who really need it now?

30. Practicing for praise is like a fragrant flower that has been trampled on.

31. Living a day in vain, doing nothing, is like committing the crime of theft.

32. Those who can push themselves down are the real nobility.

33. To make friends with others means not to hurt anyone.

34. Silence is the best answer to slander.

35. To be respectful to others is to dignify yourself.

36. If you have a selfless love, you have everything.

37. Hatred can never resolve hatred, only compassion can resolve hatred. This is the eternal truth.

38. It is better for you to accept your fate than to complain. Regarding the unchangeable facts, you have no better way than to accept your fate. All potential laws are like dreams, bubbles, lightning, or dew.

39. It should be observed in this way that all phenomena arise due to causes and conditions. I say that they are caused by causes and conditions. When the causes and conditions are exhausted, they cease to exist. I say so.

40. This exists, therefore that exists, this arises, therefore that arises; this has no cause, that does not exist, this dies, therefore that dies.

41. All actions are impermanent, and what is alive must come to an end. If there is no birth, there will be no death. This death is the most blissful.

42. All appearances are false. If you see that all forms are non-identical, you will see the Tathagata.

43. All conditioned methods. Like a dream bubble. Like dew and like electricity.

44. There is no difference in the nature of return to origin, and there are many conveniences.

45. All the evil deeds I have done in the past were all caused by beginningless greed and ignorance, arising from body, speech and mind. I now repent of all of them.

46. If someone commits a serious crime, he will be deeply guilty of it; if he repented and did not commit any crime, he would be able to eradicate the root cause.

47. Be aware of the impermanence of the world. The country is fragile. The four great emptinesses of suffering. The five yins have no self. Birth and death mutation. Hypocrisy has no owner. The heart is the source of evil. The shape is sin. Observe this. Fading away from life and death.

48. There is a cause and a predestined relationship to gather in the world; there is a cause and a predestined destiny to gather in the world;

49. The Buddha told Ananda. You have often heard that I, Vinaya, expounded the meaning of practicing the three principles. The so-called taking heart is the precept. Because of precepts, concentration arises. Because of determination, wisdom comes. This is called the Three-No-Leakage Learning.

50. It takes five hundred years of looking back at the past life to pass by this life.

51. There is no Bodhi tree, and there is no stand in the mirror. There is nothing in the world, so how can it be stained with dust!

52. Put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha immediately.

53. Saving one life is better than building a seven-level pagoda.

54. One thought of foolishness is the end of Prajna, and one thought of wisdom is the birth of Prajna.

55. There are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness, death, separation from love, long-term resentment, not being able to ask for something, not being able to let go.

56. Fate is created by oneself, and appearance is born from the heart. Everything in the world is transformed. If the heart does not move, everything will not move. If the heart does not change, everything will not change.

57. Face it with a smile and don’t complain. Leisurely, casual, casual, casual. What is destined to change your life is only when that flower blooms a hundred years later.

58. Sow the cause and reap the fruit. Everything is created by the mind.

59. Parting with love, meeting with hatred, letting go and returning home, nothing like this. It's nothing but empty flowers and illusion.

60. From love comes sorrow, from love comes fear. If you are separated from love, there will be no worries and no fear.