"A Record of Heilongjiang" said: "It is said that the bride is blessed when she enters the bridal chamber and sits on the wall of the kang. In the evening, men and women gather in the new house to accompany the couple to eat longevity noodles. Rosty Yi, still banquets for relatives and friends, brides pay homage in turn, relatives and friends give, and money and things are different. " Linxia Hui people invite media, order tea, pay bride price and get married. Young men and women of this nationality don't look at auspicious days when they get married. Generally speaking, it is the day before Muslim main anesthesia day or main anesthesia day and the two days of the lunar calendar. One or two days before the wedding, the man brought a sheep, 100 kilograms of rice, half a catty of steamed bread and some sesame oil to the woman's house. This is called grabbing a gift, which means to reassure the woman's family and ensure that after the girl goes through the door, there will be a good time to compete for honey. The woman's family should make preparations as soon as possible after accepting the ceremony of urging marriage. On the morning of the wedding, if the woman lives far away, she should leave early to pick up the car, mainly for fear of meeting pregnant women and for good luck. On the wedding day, the husband's family will also invite a newly-married new wife to visit the bride and bring some walnuts and other things when they leave. When they arrive at the woman's house, they will first scatter walnuts and other things into the yard and go to the guest house for dinner when people are not looking. After that, accompany the bride to the car. The woman's family usually holds a banquet for relatives, friends and neighbors on the first day of marriage. People who come here usually send clothes, socks, shoes, towels, cloth and money to the bride. Hui people call it a stuffing box. On the morning of the wedding, the girl will have a big bath, called "leaving mother water". To twist your face, twist the hair off your face with a cross line. Wear a red cotton-padded jacket after dressing, even in hot summer. This is called "kindness", which mainly pays attention to good luck. If you dress too thinly, it will be considered "fickle". You should wear a red silk or a red scarf on your head to cover the bride's face tightly. Then invite a few close neighbors, relatives and friends, old and young, husband and wife in harmony, and people with children to see them off. Hui people are also called "feasts". On the way to see the bride off, if you meet other married people, brides should exchange belts with each other to prevent "rushing to celebrate".
When the pickup truck is approaching the man's door, the groom should greet his brother-in-law, bypass the pickup truck and deliberately touch the car. It's called "running into the bride". When you arrive at the gate, people who congratulate you on your happy wedding will automatically line up in two lines to greet the bride and the guests who are off, and say hello to the guests. Then arrange for the guests to have tea and sit in the guest house first. The man's house should also be covered with a red blanket or blanket from the entrance of the new house to the gate. If there are no conditions, the bride's brother or uncle will carry the bride into the bridal chamber. In any case, the bride's shoes must not be dirty. At the same time, the bride's dowry and box were also carried into the table in the yard. After the man's family gives money for unpacking or building curtains, the woman's family will accompany the bride's sister-in-law or groom to uncover the "towel" on the bride's head.