Why can't people face their looks objectively?

Is it really like this article that "not getting married" has something to do with looks? The reporter interviewed Dr. Chen Huanran, a famous plastic surgeon in the Plastic Surgery Hospital of China Academy of Medical Sciences. Dr. Chen made a firm rebuttal.

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An old maid's face is nonsense.

The first aspect of an old maid: small ears, reversed ears and no earlobes.

Dr. Chen: More than 70% of our so-called "face", that is, appearance, is related to DNA. Another 20%~30% of appearance is determined by acquired living habits.

"Small ears, reversed ears and no earlobes" can no longer be called physical defects today. On the contrary, many fashionable "new people", especially some very young girls, deliberately transform their ears into "abnormal ears" without earlobes and ear ridges through plastic surgery. Will you collectively become an "old maid"?

Old maid's face 2: high forehead.

Dr. Chen: The height of the forehead is determined by the frontal bone, and the structure of the frontal bone is often related to the sleeping posture of the baby. China's habit of sleeping on his back is actually harmful. Cause facial bones (mainly frontal bones, upper and lower jaws, temporal bones, etc. ) lose effective control in the growth period and develop to both sides under the action of gravity, which is easy to form the so-called "flat head" and "big cake face".

The reason why westerners have three-dimensional facial contours and full foreheads is because many parents consciously let their children develop the habit of "sleeping on their stomach". This sleeping position makes the baby's soft skull develop forward and backward under the pressure of both sides, and the forehead naturally expands and is full.

If there is a so-called "spinster face", wouldn't it be that many westerners can't get married? In addition, the beauty of "big head photos" is popular now, and Angelina Jolie, Jin Taixi, Lin Chi-ling and other hot stars are the best proof.

Old maid's face 3: broken nose and broken bar.

Dr. Chen: Generally speaking, the nose bridge is obviously sunken, which is mostly caused by trauma, indicating that it is not congenital. The "face" theory is obviously far-fetched.

And "there are obvious lines on the bridge of the nose" is precisely the biggest feature of beautiful women laughing. For example, Asa and Gillian in the popular group "Twins", when they laugh, their noses are covered with many fine lines, which are very cute.

In feudal superstitions, there are many sayings that make a fuss about "nose". Women with irregular noses are often regarded as "husbands" and are greatly degraded.

Old maid's face 4: long eyebrows and long nose.

Dr. Chen: The length of "eyebrows" is often related to the acquired pruning habits. Different faces need different eyebrows. Is a person with long eyebrows an "old maid" who can't get married?

As for the statement that "the nose is too long", it is even less suitable for the actual situation of China people. Because most cities in China are located in temperate zone and subtropical zone, the climate in winter will not be particularly cold, so the nose will not evolve long and straight to resist the cold like the Nordic people.

Most girls in China have bad noses because they are "too short", so why are their noses "too long"?

Expert chat

Good sense of five senses reflects a healthy state of mind.

Chen Huanran said that the reason why the above four faces are associated with an "old maid" may be that the five features on which it relies send an intolerant wrong message to the outside world. For example, a woman with a high forehead often gives people a feeling of being too independent and subjective, while a nose that waits for a while makes people look arrogant and picky. It is this stereotype of the five senses that makes it difficult for people born with this feature to get the opportunity to make friends and miss the opportunity to choose a spouse. In this sense, the appearance of "spinster face" deserves the public to examine their own aesthetic standards and tastes.

Many fortune tellers in China often associate "face" with "fate", and there is a saying that "everything is predestined, and people can do anything". Chen Huanran told reporters that "face" determines "fate" without any scientific basis. In fact, many times, it is precisely "fate" that shapes "face".

In addition to congenital genetic factors, a person's life experience, educational background, environment and his own personality traits will make people form different "faces." Psychologically, it has long been a common practice that "each other is born from the heart", and a good sense of five senses is actually a portrayal of a healthy mentality. Therefore, a person's face is not permanent, and you can be a "heartthrob" if you want.

Excessive pressure gives birth to "psychological hypochondria"

Worried about "depression" when depressed, afraid of suicide; When you are angry and hate that you can't calm down, you suspect that you have "mania", which may endanger society; If you don't like reading, it comes down to "dyslexia"; Feeling inferior after miscalculating the expense report is a kind of "digital phobia" ... Now, more and more white-collar workers like to use psychology to analyze their daily behavior, but their little knowledge of this science makes them accustomed to putting all negative emotions on the table and defining them as "mental illness", and then they either feel inferior and depressed or blindly treat them. Some psychologists have pointed out that this much ado about nothing is called "psychological hypochondria", which is an abnormal release of tension under pressure.

In addition to the above-mentioned physiological reasons, psychologists further pointed out that most patients with "psychological hypochondriacs" lack a sense of security and have a strong sense of self in the life space with excessive competitive pressure, and everything requires perfection. Because the cruel reality is often not "perfect", there will be some desire and impulse to "escape from reality" in my heart. Therefore, when encountering setbacks and failures, we can't face the reality objectively, but blindly rely on and blindly believe in the so-called "psychology" and label our negative emotions, thus appearing as "patients", hoping to gain sympathy and avoid responsibility.

Experts finally pointed out that although this imaginary "mental illness" is "unnecessary", it is equally harmful. People should be objective and calm, and artificially expanding emotional problems for a long time may lead to real "psychological dead ends."

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