Why do you say that women should not be too strong when they are young, or they will be miserable in their later years?

I don't know if you have ever thought about what a person who is too strong at home relies on.

I think it is only because of the love and tolerance of her family that she is working hard and pushing her luck. Although one's own personality is on the one hand, it is often based on people.

Or, because she is young and financially independent, she feels that she doesn't have to count on anyone.

Then you will become unscrupulous, do whatever you want, and have no scruples. To put it bluntly, you are too conceited and take yourself seriously, which always leads to a superior appearance.

Yes, you are young, financially independent, have your own friends and colleagues, and don't worry about your chilling family.

But you should know that when you reach a certain age, you will gradually withdraw from the big stage in front of you. At that time, the only person who could accompany you was your lover.

When you are young, once you freeze your lover's heart, when you are old, you can only put up with his cold attitude.

Later it was really a small world for two people. When your lover is not around, the loneliness you feel will slowly devour you.

Young people are used to accumulate feelings. Learn to leave a retreat for yourself, and there will be warm days when you are old.

Neighbor Liu Po heard from her family that she and her husband had been at war for at least ten years. Yes, during the decade of the Cold War, I couldn't believe it at first. How much hatred does a couple have to have to live apart for ten years and ignore each other!

In the past ten years, although husband and wife live under the same roof, they live their own lives.

No one eats each other's cooking, no one wears each other's washing, and each cleans his own room. Even if the other party is sick and hospitalized, in serious cases, the other party will not visit and take care of the hospital.

The sick one would rather die than be taken care of by the other. Relationships are so stiff that there is no room for relaxation.

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Liu Po's husband has a good reputation among his neighbors. He is simple, honest, loyal and trustworthy. If anyone has anything, he will help very enthusiastically.

However, I have lived under the control of Liu Po all my life. Liu Po was not only strong when she was young, but also strong now. No one is allowed to think that he is the emperor's father against his will. Any decision is right and everyone else is wrong.

There is no reason to talk to people at all. Self-centeredness, sometimes that aggressive attitude, is very terrible.

Spitting everywhere is even more unreasonable, and I can't wait for people to kneel down and admit their mistakes and ensure that they will always be obedient to themselves.

My husband has been so negative about Nuo Nuo all his life. When he was young, he was walking on thin ice, without any dignity and self. Suffering humiliation is just to maintain that family.

By the time he is almost 50 years old, he may have given up completely, so his husband is unwilling to give in to Liu Po again, and Liu Po will certainly not bow his head.

With such a mother, it is not difficult to guess what kind of personality the child will have. Liu Po's son is very weak and introverted, and has no opinion. It was Liu Po who arranged this marriage.

I have to say that Liu Popo has a good eye and chose a virtuous and quiet daughter-in-law for her son. It's just that Liu Po is too controlling, and her daughter-in-law is not satisfied with being so sensible and loves to bully others, so she is picky about her daughter-in-law and deliberately makes things difficult.

Even if the daughter-in-law was forced to that extent, she never contradicted Liu Po once, and then she saw the form clearly and left.

What I want to say is that when her son remarried, Liu Po thought the new wife was a soft persimmon. As a result, in those years, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fought each other, and the new daughter-in-law simply won Liu Po.

Even now, although Liu Po is strong, she will not talk much in front of her new daughter-in-law, because she knows very well that her daughter-in-law is more powerful than herself.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was so stiff in the early years, but now there is no connection at all. Even on holidays, a son can't be his daughter-in-law's home, and her daughter-in-law doesn't want to come, and no one dares to talk.

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Now, Liu Po really lives alone, and her life in her later years is extremely bleak. She ruined not only her own life, but also the lives of her husband and son.

Feelings are meant to be, son? Inherit? I lost my father's marriage mode, continued to endure the strength of my wife and lived a dark life. The weakness of a son is much more serious than that of his father.

Psychologist and writer Susan? Come forward to say:

The toxic family system is like a serial rear-end collision on the expressway, and its bad influence will be passed down from generation to generation. This system was not invented by your parents, but a set of accumulated feelings, rules, exchanges and ideas that you inherited from your ancestors. ?

Remind women not to be too strong when they are young, or they will be miserable in their later years!

Once you are too strong, you will definitely upset the balance of your family. In this world, everything runs according to certain rules, which cannot be broken, otherwise it will destroy the feng shui at home.

Strong women often ruin the happiness and blessings of the next three generations.

People's emotions and thoughts are uncontrollable and uncontrollable. Otherwise, it is equivalent to depriving a person of his right to be a man. Such behavior is quite cruel and heartless.

As the hostess of a family, your personality directly affects the temperature of the family and also determines the future of the children. Subtle is the cultivation of children's character.

Don't think you are very powerful. A truly powerful person is tough, kind, calm and never aggressive.

Beethoven also said:? I don't admit that there are other signs of superiority in the world besides kindness. ?

Finally, strength will only convince people orally, and will never be truly recognized by others. The sincere respect of others for you will only come from your inner quality, kindness and tolerance, and serving others with virtue!