How can people change themselves?

Change yourself by accepting yourself. In fact, there is nothing wrong with extroversion and introversion, and there is no strict definition in between. Changing yourself is easier said than done. Everyone has his own personality and has formed a way and method to treat things.

First, you should change your attitude towards things. Your attitude has changed, just like you in the mirror. He will treat you as you treat him. So what do you want to do with yourself in the mirror? I think everyone will treat themselves with a bright smile. We treat things in the same way. If you want to accept new things, new things will accept you. If you want to change things, things will change you. The two complement each other, and the key is to change your attitude.

Secondly, if you change your thinking and behavior patterns and change your attitude towards things, then your thinking and behavior patterns should also change. Only in this way can you completely change yourself, and you can control and dominate things instead of being dominated by the material environment.

Finally, to change ourselves, we should constantly absorb all aspects of knowledge and improve our self-cultivation and quality. Only when we have rich knowledge in all aspects can we look at problems better, find problems and solve them, and understand that we will get different results from different angles until we find the constancy of things and tell us that there is no right or wrong.

To change the status quo, start by changing yourself. In fact, it is really difficult to change yourself, because the average person's personality is unbreakable, and it is normal that you can't change it. Don't be disappointed or discouraged. Step by step.

As for the change of habits, of course, it is to adapt to the needs of the environment, which is much easier than changing personality. There are two ways to change habits: active and passive. It is best to be able to change yourself voluntarily. Such people should first be good at observing, but also be diligent in learning and asking questions. He can change his thinking according to the change of environment. When his thinking changes, so does his behavior. However, there are not many such people. Most people have to change themselves passively, that is, they will change after they know that their original behavior is not feasible. There are also two situations. One is to take the initiative to change after suffering, the other is to change once after suffering and change again after suffering until it is changed or eliminated.

For ordinary animals, because of their limited thinking ability, changing a habit requires a lot of passive bearing, and even faces the natural survival of the fittest. In other words, they change their habits with the help of external forces. If there is no external force, they will keep their original habits unchanged. As a person, you should learn to think, plan ahead and adapt to the environment actively. Of course, the reason why we say "should" is because many people don't want to change themselves because they are lazy and muddle along. This negative attitude towards life needs us to change. This requires us to be a conscientious person. First, we should understand that the world is in motion, and the environment is changing at any time, changing with the change of region and time. Therefore, we should always adjust ourselves and change our inherent habits. Second, to change habits, we must first change our thinking. All habits are caused by fixed thinking. Only when your thinking changes will your behavior change. Third, the process of changing thinking requires behavior reinforcement, that is, practice.