Why can't the new grave be erected for three years?

1, because the monument will move the grave, this will definitely move, so it is impossible to erect a monument. Another point is that these three years are also used as a test, that is, to see if the family is smooth in these three years. If the family is prosperous at once, don't erect a monument, because you may have changed your position, and prosperity may destroy Feng Shui. If these three years are very bad, then there may be something wrong with the feng shui in this place. Secondly, there may be a problem with the orientation. If there is a problem with feng shui, you can consider moving the grave. If there is a problem with the orientation, a monument can be erected.

2. The time to erect the monument can be the anniversary of the death of the elderly, or the traditional Tomb-Sweeping Day and October 1st. In my previous life, it was stipulated that Tomb-Sweeping Day should add soil, erect monuments and plant trees on the graves before and after each year, and all matters concerning haunted houses would be written off. Therefore, in order to make everything go smoothly, people gathered all the things about haunted houses in Tomb-Sweeping Day. It should be noted that the leap month can not only set up a monument, but also go to the grave and break ground.