Can immediate relatives not pay condolences to a loved one who dies?

Generally, immediate family members should attend condolence activities until burial. But if you are in rural areas, the situation may be somewhat special. According to rural customs, when a relative dies and is buried, those who conflict with the deceased's "birth and birth horoscope" need to avoid it (there are fortune tellers who specialize in Feng Shui or life and death horoscopes, and they will warn relatives). It doesn't matter if you don't believe it. In other cases, when a loved one dies, immediate family members should go to the scene to offer condolences to express the grief of the living to the deceased.