Why do you say that going to your daughter's family after pregnancy will take away her family's good luck?

There is a saying among the people that a married daughter can't have a baby in her mother's house, otherwise she will take all her luck away. In some places, it is even more serious, and even married daughters are not allowed to come back. There was a report before that a woman took her husband to her parents' house for the New Year, but her parents refused, saying that she was afraid of bringing bad luck.

Ms. Wang also encountered such a problem, but it was not her mother who stopped her from going back, but Ms. Wang's grandmother. Ms. Wang has been pregnant for some time. Not long ago, she had a little conflict with her mother-in-law, which made her not want to stay at her mother-in-law's house. Pregnant women have a bad temper, and her husband's family doesn't know how to accommodate them. On the contrary, it must be the husband's family. Ms. Wang's husband is in a dilemma. In the end, she can only listen to Ms. Wang's suggestion and let Ms. Wang go back to her family.

Just as Ms. Wang packed her things and was ready to go home, her grandmother called and said that even if Ms. Wang was not allowed to go back, she would say something like "the water spilled by the married daughter" and "it would bring bad luck for a woman with a big belly to go back to her mother's house", just because she was afraid that Ms. Wang would take away her parents' good luck and let her baby grandson be wronged.

Grandma Wang's thoughts don't last for a while. What makes Ms. Wang angry is that Ms. Wang's mother feels the same way and doesn't want Ms. Wang to go back. The more she thinks about it, the more wronged Ms. Wang is, but pregnant women can't be angry, but how can this situation make her not sad or angry?

My mother-in-law looked like this when she was pregnant. What should I do after confinement? The more she thought about it, the more angry Ms. Wang got up and went to have an abortion. Fortunately, her husband stopped her in time.

This folk view is groundless and has nothing to do with metaphysics. This is the remnant of feudal superstition. Because "good luck" and "good pregnancy" are homophonic, there is a saying that pregnant women will take away the good luck of their families as soon as they meet. In fact, there is no such thing.

Therefore, popular science is really important, because feudal superstition kills people. And for pregnant women, it is definitely better to go to a place where they feel comfortable. Some pregnant women can live more comfortably at their parents' home, while others prefer to stay at their parents' home.

So when you were pregnant, did you live in your husband's house or your mother's house?