Bad luck is always a precursor to good luck (you can tell at a glance that someone is going to be unlucky)
Have you ever encountered all kinds of unlucky troubles in your life?
I was framed in the workplace and was forced to resign in the end;
I fell into a trap dug by developers and decoration companies when buying a house or renovating it, and my hard-earned money was instantly lost. Water drifts;
When a person reaches middle age, not only does his career decline, but he also encounters betrayal and separation from his relatives...
There is an old saying in China: "One fate, two fortunes, three feng shui... ...." Among them, luck ranks second. You can imagine how significant it is to a person's life!
If you have good luck, everything in life will go smoothly and all your wishes will come true. But if you are unlucky and unlucky, the house leaks and it rains all night, and even drinking cold water can make your teeth choke!
Some people who are so unlucky may find it difficult to turn around again in their lifetime. Therefore, no one wants to be unlucky and have bad luck. So how can we avoid it?
In fact, when people are going to be unlucky, they are not unaware of it at all. There are often these three signs. 01 The first sign: Bad words hurt people
As the saying goes: "Misfortune comes from the mouth", "A kind word warms people for three springs, but bad words hurt people for six months." These all illustrate the influence of language on people. Very big.
Good language makes people feel like a spring breeze, and can bring harmonious interpersonal relationships and a smooth life; bad language is like a sharp knife, which not only easily hurts the people around you, but may also offend villains. , brings disaster.
For example, some people, intentionally or unintentionally, are merciless and always like to expose other people's shortcomings in front of others, poke their sore spots, and put the other person in an embarrassing situation.
Thus hurting the other person's self-esteem and being resented by the other person, it is very likely that one day, the other person will retaliate. This is "trouble comes from the mouth".
There are also some people who always like to say harsh words and never consider the feelings of others. Especially some parents, when faced with their children who do not obey discipline, they often use harsh words to vent their anger.
As a result, in the light case, the parent-child relationship is broken and can never be repaired; in the serious case, the child chooses to run away from home or commit suicide due to verbal violence. This is the misfortune that bad words bring to a family.
What you say is what you think. What you say usually represents what you think, and reflects what is in your heart. It is difficult for a person who often speaks bad words to become a kind person.
The inner evil is expressed through words, which can hurt people invisible. If you are not careful, you will offend others. How could such a person have good luck? Naturally, there will be bad luck and misfortune. 02 The second sign: Acting hastily
Earlier we talked about speaking carefully, now we talk about acting cautiously.
"It is important to be on guard against the smallest things, but it is important to ignore the far-reaching consequences." Don't fail to take precautions just because the harm is small, and don't fail to consider it just because the consequences are long-term. In everything, only by planning before taking action can you be invincible.
People who act rashly often do not make adequate preparations before acting and act rashly. As a result, when problems occurred, they were caught off guard and had to panic to deal with them. As a result, bad luck followed one after another.
Here are a few examples:
For example, if you want to start a business but do not do market research, you are likely to suffer heavy losses;
Again For example, if you never check the weather forecast before going out, you are likely to come back in the rain;
Another example is if you don’t fully understand the other person’s personality, outlook on life, and family of origin before getting married. situation, then after getting married, it is very likely to end in divorce...
Therefore, people who act hastily are bound to have bad luck, and these bad luck can be avoided in the first place. Therefore, the best policy is to think twice before acting.
So, who are the people who act hastily?
The first type of person is impatient and always wants to get things done as soon as possible, but haste makes waste. The more anxious you are, the more likely you are to miss the most critical factors, causing things to go wrong.
In fact, when things go wrong, not only may the time it takes to solve the problem be longer than the time it takes to think carefully before taking action, but it will also bring about negative emotional experiences.
There is also a type of people who are lazy by nature and do not want to use their brains. They always like to think step by step and are unwilling to plan and consider in advance. This kind of person must first change his lazy mentality, otherwise, he will always be plagued by bad luck.
Finally, there is another kind of person who has bad habits. As long as such people cultivate the habit of thinking first and then acting, they can easily help themselves change their bad luck.
Therefore, if you want to act cautiously, not act hastily, and think before you act when encountering problems, you can only make up your mind to change your impatient or lazy personality and develop good habits. Otherwise, bad luck will inevitably come your way. 03 The third sign: Wrong intentions
If you want to avoid bad luck, it is not enough to be careful in your words and deeds. You also need to have a correct heart.
People with evil intentions are often those who take their own interests very seriously. They usually behave as if they are narrow-minded, do not like other people's kindness, love to expose others' shortcomings, are mercenary, duplicitous, hypocritical, Passing the buck and so on.
But as the saying goes, "Those who do many evil deeds will be punished by themselves." "If you often walk by the river, how can your shoes not get wet?" People with evil intentions will be punished sooner or later if they do too many bad things. People around you notice it, and you lose your loved ones and friends, and suffer retribution.
"The bustling world is all for profit; the hustle and bustle in the world is for profit." "Birds die for food, and humans die for wealth." Originally, chasing fame and fortune was a normal thing in the world.
However, if you harm the interests of others in order to maximize your own interests, or even harm others, it is the behavior of people with evil intentions.
Such people, because they have been calculating for a long time, spend a lot of time and energy on things that are detrimental to their morality. As time goes by, the appearance becomes sinister, and the body and spirit will also suffer backlash. When the evil deeds are exposed one by one, people will avoid them one after another, and it is not surprising that bad luck continues one after another.
Therefore, if a person's heart is not right, it can be predicted that his future will go downhill. If you want to avoid bad luck and have a prosperous career, you must have a right heart.
Although people with evil intentions may gain considerable benefits in the short term through their own calculations, all gains will be lost in the end and they will never achieve great things.
On the contrary, a person with an upright heart is magnanimous, always considers others, and is unwilling to do things that benefit himself or herself at the expense of others. Only take the benefits you deserve. If things go on like this, more and more virtuous and outstanding people will gather around you, and your career luck will get better and better.
In short, whether a person will be unlucky and prone to bad luck can be determined at a glance through the above three signs.
In other words, if you don’t want to be unlucky in the future, you must avoid becoming these three types of people, and work hard to learn to be a person who is cautious in words and deeds and has a good heart.
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