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Two sons and two daughters, if you choose one, which one would you choose?

I am really qualified to answer this question!

If two sons or two daughters let me choose only one, I will naturally choose my daughter without hesitation!

Why?

Just tell me about myself.

My mother's two sons, naturally, can't be nourished in the atmosphere of son preference. She never has any scruples to say, "I have only given birth to these two babies in my life, and I can't wronged either of them." The meaning of words is necessary. It is human nature to make two babies live better and better. Let the children live better, but I am treated as air. Whether my life is good or not seems to have nothing to do with her!

I began to feel indignant and indifferent, so I won't mention what a worrying process is, just say that she is now,

One day, I went (almost once every three days, that is, doing some work, not eating, delivering vegetables or fruits), and my brother was furious with my mother because she was found shopping with fake money. I can't tell where I found it! Mother cried that she had lived enough. If she is not afraid of you (note that you include me, not just my son), go on. If she hadn't been afraid of embarrassing you, I would have jumped into the river! Omitted here,,,

I was surprised and shocked to hear that my mother, who has always been overbearing, powerful and extremely protective of calves, was going to jump into the river. Of course, I immediately scolded my brother. Isn't it fake money? Will you kill yourself? My brother argued that I didn't care about money, I just reminded her to worry about it later! I scolded him a few words, and then scolded my brother with irrefutable arguments. My brother apologized to my mother's face and admitted his mistake. My mother smiled through tears, and this matter was settled!

If I don't train people, I will. I train people, and he has nothing to say!

But give me a warning, it's really not for my mother to decide. My son is my mother's lifeblood, and now my son is forcing my mother to die for a fart. There is no silence here.

Then I can't help feeling sad behind my back.

One day, my cousin came to see me after a long separation and went to see my mother together. Then my sister-in-law suddenly came back and suddenly blamed my mother for saying "Are you a wise man or an old fool"! I understand that mother and son have to bicker, let alone mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. However, in front of my long-lost cousin, I accused my mother and her mother-in-law. When the words came out, the air seemed to condense. My cousin and I looked at each other. I saw my mother's eyes a little flustered and there was a touch of shame on her face. I feel my blood rushing to my head. Fortunately, my wit bypassed me by changing the subject. Or my sister-in-law will pass by. But, is it interesting?

Finally, my mother's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will give her some concessions, such as what concessions, what benefits, and even please her. In front of the whole family, they will find fault with me and scold me, let me get out of the house, go back to my house for a few days and so on. Finally, when I get to my daughter-in-law's heart, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will make up. Then no matter what means, it will eventually be weighed and reconciled by both sides.

So, because of similar things in the past, I closed my mouth and watched a red cloud on my mother's face drift quietly.

Oh! My powerful mother!

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Then after going out, my cousin began to look at me, look at me, and I said whatever you want to say! She threw up a lot! My mother has completely subverted the image she has created in our hearts all her life! 、、、

My sister-in-law is good sister-in-law, but just blame my mother-in-law!

My brother is a good brother, but I gave my mother a few words casually!

If someone thinks it's your brother, you can show your teeth, scold your brother and apologize to your mother. It's sister-in-law Why can't you reprimand her and apologize? You are a coward, too!

That's right! You are absolutely right!

I am a coward!

The first family is the biggest! She is older than me!

The second one is someone else's daughter, isn't it, and it's my turn to be scolded by my sister?

Some people will say that you are a selfish ghost and you don't care if your mother is bullied!

Yes, I really admit it from the heart! I'm still selfish

I have always been a little guilty, only guilty!

Because I have never faced housework and family disputes, I only participated in training and did not participate in training.

Mom doesn't train her daughter-in-law, so I can only accompany her to suffer.

Mother contributed all the light and heat to her son, and she deeply believed that her daughter was an outsider!

Between the above express and implied, I told my mother that I came, especially in front of my brother and sister-in-law. My brother and sister-in-law, you should be extra warm, extra good and extra close to me. I am your foreign aid group and your backstage. They dare not bully you with me!

My mother gave me a look and my nose popped!

Scold,,,

Although we are a family, we basically have Gongdou and Gongdou plans, but my mother seems unwilling and dismissive!

So, if I had a choice, I would choose my daughter and live with her. My daughter will dress me in beautiful clothes, go shopping, eat delicious food and buy beautiful flowers like best friends and sisters.

Some people say you must have a son. Sons are like nuclear weapons. You don't need it at ordinary times, but you must have it!

Yes, you speak very well. Do you think you are really willing to take out your nuclear weapon and bomb it at a critical moment? Just ask you!

Say this, just one sentence is quite suitable for sand sculpture!

No matter children or parents at the critical moment, most of them would rather sacrifice themselves and bomb the enemy as a nuclear weapon! !

Children can't get rid of a "son" ~ "child". Although sons are as good as sons and daughters are as good as daughters, there are essential differences between male animals and female animals!

Do the role of parents first, and then talk about children's filial piety!

You didn't give birth to him to be filial to you, to win him! You spend money to support him, you are willing!

If you pay, you can hire a nanny without having children! Nanny can completely follow your instructions and meaning.

Don't worry about having a son and a daughter. It's all providence. Angels come to you. Just take good care of them.

As for the choice of sons and daughters, this is a false proposition, because sons and daughters have no choice, and no one can have sons if they want to have sons, and daughters if they want to have daughters.

Your son, your daughter, you are happy, they all defected to you!

Do they love you? In fact, far more than you love him!

Most of them are!

I like both sons and daughters.

Two sons and two daughters have only one choice, so be careful. And my choice is two sons, of course, there must be a reason for my choice.

Although I belong to the post-80s generation, I was born in a remote rural area with uncivilized folk customs, so the people there are very feudal, with special preference for boys. The reason is, at best, simple folk customs and at worst, low quality. However, because it is a rural area, there should be no dispute that men are physically superior to women in accumulated work.

Three generations of my family have recruited sons-in-law. In that patriarchal era, it is conceivable that my family had almost no right to speak in the village. In my father's generation, because there were no boys at home, it was difficult for many sons in the same village to build a house. Say that my feng shui is not good, don't be neighbors with my family, or it will affect their family. At that time, my parents had four daughters and were still working hard to have a son.

Some things will never happen to you, and you never know how painful it is. My family has no sons for three generations, and the sadness they have had cannot be explained one by one. Maybe that's why I decided to choose two sons. But in reality, I also gave birth to a son. I feel lucky because I can't have a second child for physical reasons. My four married sisters are all sons. Is this the general trend?

Father's generation, after giving birth to seven daughters, finally ushered in the eighth child and the only brother. However, I thought the good days were coming. Unfortunately, my brother died of illness in 20 1 1. Once again, my family has fallen into a strange circle of no boys. After the parents learned from their mistakes, they came out of the grief of losing their younger brother again and asked Third Sister to recruit a son-in-law.

Fortunately, their first child is also a boy. At this time, when they figured it out, they tried their best to buy a house in the city and settle down, and never had to go back to the countryside again. After bidding farewell to the life facing the loess, my family finally ushered in a qualitative leap.

Now that society is changing, sons seem to be less and less valuable. You will see and hear that you have babies everywhere. Is it a man or a woman? As soon as I hear it's a woman, I will congratulate you and put in a good word. As soon as I heard it was my son, I passed.

In fact, if you don't care, why emphasize the benefits of a daughter when you hear about it? It is because of my heart that I will use various reasons to make both sides feel good!

Perhaps as people's living standards get higher and higher, they will have a good impression on their daughters in the city, as shown below.

In short, everyone's choice has its own reason, so just choose which one. As long as you choose, you will be a good parent. And those parents who only care about their children are really chilling!

I will choose two daughters, and it is always our regret not to have a daughter. Now that I am old, I don't expect anything anymore.

It's not that my son is bad, but that my daughter is really sweet. People who have daughters around now say so. Most sons are careless. When they have wings, they will stay away from their parents and will not be spoiled. They are also very kind to their parents, but they just feel far away.

Daughters are different, but cautious, especially caring for parents far exceeds sons. Now many people are willing to live with their daughters. It is for this reason that it is easier to get along with a son-in-law than with a daughter-in-law.

Most mothers with daughters are younger, because daughters will urge their mothers to dress up beautifully, and they can change clothes together, go shopping together and take a shower together. Such an infection makes people feel young.

My son can't. It's torture to let him go shopping with me. The topics I tell you every day seem to come from Mars. Daughter and mother talk a lot and are similar, so mother and daughter are sometimes more like sisters.

Two sons.

There is no mine at home, but I still want a son.

When children are young, boys and girls are very cute and naive. There is no difference between boys and girls.

Don't worry about other people's preference for boys, and you won't be poked in the spine and stepped on a sore spot.

Naughty children, girls do not lose boys.

In terms of consumption, it depends entirely on its own economic strength. There is no money at home, and it is equally humbled to raise two girls. And I'm sorry I wronged the child.

When children grow up, girls with high academic qualifications are not as responsible as boys with low academic qualifications. It is a common phenomenon, and individual girls are also heroes, only a few.

Marriage and high bride price are getting worse and worse, and most male families have no burden. So what? No matter how much money you spend, people still have it. Is there anything more valuable than people?

Don't say I don't like girls. I am a woman, too. I have to arrange a wife for my son.

Whose life has a choice? Why do you distort the consciousness of others and say how good it is to have a daughter when you know that it is helpless to have a daughter? Since it's so good, do you still need a worldwide appeal?

I am a woman, what will I suffer, and I don't care?

There is no if in life, there is live broadcast every day!

I have a son and a daughter. The daughter is two years old and the son is four years old. . . Because they are all around me, my son is easier to raise. Beat up if you don't listen, and continue all kinds of hippies . It's okay to wear formal clothes for dinner. I'll dress him and he can go out. My daughter is only two years old. This one is ugly and doesn't wear, and that one is wrong. She cried again, louder, thinking she was shouting at her and crying. . Anyway, it's all kinds of sitcoms, making

Daughter's mouth can talk and express her feelings very well, such as: mom, don't be angry! All kinds of questions, let her eat, she doesn't eat, her father asked her why she didn't eat, and she said, I did! Anyway, all kinds of bickering

Crying often makes my temper worse. . dislike

If I have a choice, I want two sons. .

I have a child! A daughter and a child are six years old! We never wanted a second child! I don't think I have raised my daughter enough!

If I had to choose selfishness, it would definitely be a man and a woman!

But if I had to choose, I would choose two daughters! I think the happiness index in my later years is high! The sons are so tired! My mother-in-law is two sons! My daughter will never marry two brothers again! Absolutely not, I can marry her car and house! But you can't marry two brothers! Don't ask why. Only people who really marry two brothers can understand! I don't care what others say! I stand firm!

I like children! My husband never wanted it. Intuitively, having a daughter is enough! Their family is basically a child (uncles and aunts are daughters), so they don't want it all these years! I didn't want to at first, but this year, I was a little moved when I saw that my friends around me had several children and three children!

I finally communicated with him. He said let nature take its course! One month I went to check ovulation and found two follicles! It's all mature! This means there may be twins! My first worry is "What if I have two sons? If my daughter doesn't dislike me, I will have two sons. " I didn't want them that month after careful consideration! I am against my two sons from the bottom of my heart! Because in old age, I can't think of simplicity. Watch the children buy food and cook! You divide the property fairly and feel unfair! All kinds of heart tired! I don't have such a good character to serve them! So I definitely won't have two boys!

There are two boys who can't help it! Worry about your life! Of course, you have good and bad! The mother-in-law of two sons cares whether it is tired or not. A daughter-in-law is waiting for you. Can you live comfortably.

I won't bury my life in their hands! In that case, I will choose to have children! Take good care of her and send her to study abroad. I'm going with my husband! Why not? My husband always thinks so! I'm going to the first grade now. Find the best private school for your daughter! Middle school will give her to study abroad! Leave our family affairs to others! Let's go to accompany you! Stay with the children!

If it is two daughters, I can accept it! But I can't accept two sons! I have a long life. I don't want to be so busy alone!

No matter how good others say, they can't change me! My daughter is very good! Very gentleman. The child is still educating! Our educational philosophy, she is your child and an indispensable part of your friends and family!

Can't you have a son and a daughter?

Wouldn't it be better to have both children?

You don't have everything you want.

Why bother yourself in imagination?

A good daughter can provide for the aged. With the changes of the times and the constant reform, the son is a burden, and the house and car should be ready at least, as if he had a son all his life and could never pay the bill. Having a daughter is different. Most men in this city are model husbands. The work at home is done quickly, neatly and cleanly. My wife was flattered by my good cooking. In a word, wife is the slogan. The minister of logistics and finance will not talk about it. It must be a woman. Her parents have to take care of it. They always go home, carrying bags. But taking care of the family and providing for the aged is not a problem. It's best not to live together, which is also a bit troublesome. To tell the truth, we all have parents. . . . . ?