What do you think of eccentric parents-in-law?
1. As an old man, it is normal to be biased.
Don't say in-laws, even at home, their parents are biased towards their children. Talk about yourself first, don't talk about your parents. If we have two children, the eldest and the second, we may also pay more attention to and love the younger one. This is because of the influence of traditional ideas, and we think that younger children may need more care. As an old man, everyone has a steelyard in his heart, and it is normal to treat his children in a partial way. There are three brothers in my husband's family, and my in-laws favor them. I feel that I am the most ungrateful person, but this is the real situation at home. What can you do with the old man? So accept this reality, they are not towards me, and I will not lack anything, as long as I have such a normal heart.
Don't compare your in-laws with your parents.
Many times, the contradictions in the family are caused by an unsatisfied mentality, and I often compare my in-laws with my parents. The result of doing so will often hurt us, because there are always many things that make us dissatisfied in reality. In fact, the starting point of this is wrong. Parents and in-laws are always two people with different relationships. Don't expect to treat your in-laws as our own parents, just think that we should do our daughter-in-law's duty, and they should do their in-laws' duty, that's all. In real life, I always think that my parents-in-law are our elders, and I don't think much about others, as long as I respect them and get by on the face, that's all.
In-laws are partial, that's their problem. What we have to do is our own problem. As long as you can live up to your conscience and do your duty, you should be filial to the elderly, that's all. Don't care too much, life will be happier.