Is there any particularity in visiting graves on the Hungry Ghost Festival (What should I use to visit the graves on the Hungry Ghost Festival)?
1. Time is important: From the perspective of cemetery Feng Shui, the best time to sweep the tomb is when the yang energy is relatively strong. It is recommended to sweep the tomb at noon, that is, between 11 and 13 o'clock, because this time period is when the yang energy is at its strongest. It is best to complete the tomb sweeping and worship service before 3 p.m., and it is most taboo to sweep the tomb after 17:00.
2. Flower bouquet preparation: From ancient times to the present, white flowers are the most common for offering sacrifices and sweeping tombs. In ancient times, chrysanthemums were regarded as flowers of sustenance, with the meaning of longing and remembrance. Therefore, white chrysanthemums are the most suitable flowers for visiting graves. If there are no special circumstances, it is best not to use brightly colored flowers with strong fragrance, so as not to give people the impression of disrespecting the deceased.
3. Clothing for tomb-sweeping: When sweeping tombs, it is recommended not to choose black clothes to avoid attracting yin energy. However, do not choose to wear brightly colored clothes such as red or yellow, otherwise it will give people a feeling of disrespect for the deceased. Therefore, it is best to wear plain-colored clothes. In addition, it is recommended not to buy shoes, because "shoes" and "evil" have the same pronunciation. Buying shoes will attract evil spirits and affect your fortune.
4. Tomb-sweeping steps: Before sweeping the tomb, you must first cut off all the weeds on the tomb, repair the surroundings of the tomb, then add some new soil to the tomb to accompany it, and finally start burning incense paper, pouring wine and offering sacrifices. . The steps of offering sacrifices: amending the cemetery - offering incense - serving meat - toasting - paying homage - saying goodbye. The order of sacrifice: father, mother, eldest son, eldest daughter, second son, second daughter...
5. Grave-sweeping suggestions: avoid the peak hours of tomb-sweeping; pay attention to the items you carry with you; parents with children should especially Take good care of your children to prevent them from getting lost while playing; pay attention to fire prevention, ensure safety, and perform civilized sacrifices. Use flowers instead of burning paper money, incense candles, and setting off firecrackers in memorial. This is not only the best memorial to your loved ones, but also reduces fire hazards.