Do people really have destiny takes a hand?

My mother forget me all my life, saying I can't get married until I'm 32. I don't know if I should believe it, but my mother did it when I was a teenager. When I was still at school, my mother asked the fortune teller some questions about my study.

The fortune teller read my mother's palm and only told her that she didn't have to worry about my study at all, which means that my mother didn't have to worry about me at all in studying.

This is a fact. From elementary school, junior high school and senior high school, my mother really didn't take care of me. She only occasionally told me to study hard and didn't ask anything else.

As for me, I worked very hard until I went to high school and then went to college. Although I went to an unknown second-rate university after repeating my studies, I was really out of my mother's control. I am a particularly obedient child and have never had a rebellious period in my life.

I don't know if it was a coincidence, or a fortune teller told me from my mother, or to please my mother.

The seemingly smooth road to study, in which all kinds of tastes can only be understood by myself, and the personality of life changed at that time, from extroversion to introversion.

I believe in fate because it really happened to me. I believe my mother would never lie to me, but today I began to doubt destiny takes a hand.

Actually, I don't want to get married, not at all. No one can live well, let alone plan the future for another family.

So I was wondering if I would really get married at the age of 32, or if I compromised with my family at that time and stopped fighting.

I have always felt that fate is not for me to decide, but reality keeps slapping me in the face. As I grow older, I feel more and more destined.

But I'm still unwilling. I just want to fight. I want to take my destiny into my own hands, not go with the flow.