What is the experience of buying a house without parents in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen?
Of course, timing is also very important. I bought it when the house price fell in 2008 (yes, you read it correctly, the house price in Beijing fell. ), five-ring side 6800. At that time, I just made a sum of money and bought it as soon as I patted my thigh.
It is too difficult to get rich and buy a house now, so I think there is nothing wrong with young people buying a house with the help of their parents. It is best to pay back the money of the old people just after paying off the loan, and they often come to live and pay interest. It is meaningless to say more about people who have experienced it. First of all, parents are willing to do anything for their children. Just ask, most parents in China are really good at selling blood to help their children. Secondly, parents are human beings. When you are old, you need to provide for the elderly, need companionship and have your own life. Why do you say that? During this time, I contacted a large number of young parents to do an early education project. This early education institution is quite expensive. Swimming, games and various courses cost about 30,000 yuan a year. Even if you buy a four-year membership at one time, it will cost 20,000 yuan a year. I am not young myself, and my income is ok. I heard that my son needs more than 80 thousand to do this job at a time, so I can't help thinking more.
To tell the truth, the high-income class is not very concerned about whether their children should attend these classes, but about many young middle-class parents with average income. I have seen too many such scenes: a large family holding their children to watch, and finally the old man pays the bill. Later, in order to be more valuable, the old man brought a doll every day and came back when he was tired.
Trying to chat with the old people, I found that many people in Beijing sold their houses in order to pay the down payment for their children. I asked them what to do in the future. Most of them are silent ... I'm afraid the children have gone to the nursery, but they still want to live in their hometown. Where do they live? Who will take care of it? You will only get one sentence: children are difficult, don't give them trouble.
Sometimes I hear old people chanting to each other. Most young people don't want to live with the old, and there are many contradictions. Old people don't want to, the house is small, tired, no one to talk to, no life of their own. Then there are high housing prices and hard work for children.
Looking at these old people who have given everything for their children, I really want to say to them:
As a family, help is mutual. Even parents should repay them and be grateful. It is no problem to rely on parents to buy a house and bring up children. They also think it's their job and are willing to. But as a child, taking care of the elderly and trying to make the elderly live better is also a child's job, not a trouble.