The biggest scam in the world is to find a "soul mate"!

In this world, you may have seen many people and scenery, but have you ever found that every time you have something, you will still lose something important to you, and once you have something, you will soon lose it. Why on earth is this?

For example, many of us have not met the right love yet, but we begin to fantasize that we have met a super-suitable and perfect soul mate. Many people have this idea, and I am no exception, but many people still want to meet a soul mate when they already have a favorite.

However, let's see how many people around us have met their soul mates. Some people may meet their soul mates, but what is the final result? Some people may never meet them, because the conditions of soul mates are always changing, and there is no such thing as a divorced partner.

Sorry, no.

The reality is that we have been looking for it on the road, maybe we met, maybe we missed it, maybe we just chose to be with someone. Soul mates are destined to be just characters in the soul. If we didn't really meet, we never met by chance in the crowd.

However, some people may say, "I really met my soul mate. The first thing I said to her, I just thought we were really good together. I feel like my soul mate with her. I am very happy to meet my soul mate, but ... "

I can tell you a very realistic thing: there are really not so many people with the same three views in this world. Maybe we can quarrel over a trivial matter, but we can also stand together over a thorny matter.

EQ and IQ between us are completely different. If your IQ and EQ are above this person, you can easily understand her current situation and all her secrets, and she will soon feel like meeting your bosom friend, but she is still far from your soul mate.

But if you meet someone who knows you very well, and his IQ and EQ are above you, he can easily understand what you need and what you don't need, and he can easily identify with your feelings! It makes you feel that meeting this person is really suitable for you and satisfies all your fantasies about love. However, in practical sense, he just understands you and does not reach the level of loving you.

If you meet someone in the same realm as you, the probability is small, but we can't completely deny his existence. According to the sleepless principle, this may be the soul mate we mentioned earlier. Why? Because you are on the same frequency now!

I'm sorry, at this time, neither of you will be understood by the other party, nor will you understand yourself instantly, because you are in a state of equal strength. You and he are two sides of the same coin. He will not bow for you, nor will he agree with you easily. You are always asking him whether he loves himself more or more. Sometimes things are on your side, sometimes he is on his side. You often wonder whether you love someone or the person loves you.

In fact, you and he can be said to be soul mates, because you have made progress together, he has become better because of you and you have become better because of him. However, in real life, you find yourself lost in love.

We always like good things more than bad things, and each of us yearns for a life of eating and waiting for death. However, reality is always cruel. We would rather live a beautiful life than face everything in real life. This may be what we call human nature.

Our so-called love is different from before. The so-called love is deteriorating. Love is easily defeated by many things in life, but sometimes love really wants to escape.

True soul mates are often hard to meet, because one person is better than another, but the other person is also developing in a good place. Some people think they are already very strong, but they didn't expect the person they like to be better and more powerful than themselves.

In fact, for us, what is really terrible is not that one person works harder than the other, but that one person is planning the future, while the other person is thinking about letting go of each other.

Time is cruel, some people will really work hard for the future, while another person thinks he needs a better partner, and the one who loves more will get hurt in the end. Those who don't take the initiative to express their love will really have nothing in the end. They even cried all over the world in pain.

This world is terrible. If you really meet someone who loves you very much, please cherish her. If you really don't love her, remember to tell her not to delay. Don't think that you will be really happy in this life if you meet your soul mate. That's impossible. You should be kind to those who accompany you.