Classic poem describing the difficulty of finding a close friend

Classic poems describing the hard-to-find confidant (Part 1)

1. You found me with a weathered shawl on the top of the snow-capped peaks, you found me with a dusty face in the vast desert, you found me in the long Milky Way When she found me who was faintly shining, she said goodbye to me: It’s better to raise glasses and drink with each other than colleagues.

2. When we mistake friends for confidants, Only then did I realize that we didn’t know each other, we just mistook the time of acquaintance as the beginning of becoming close friends.

3. Yao Yin can't wait until the fifth summer night is not cloudy, and the six or seven stars are difficult to welcome. The man who has finished his thousand bottles of wine only wants to give up, and sings hundreds of songs in vain.

4. If you want to have a close friend or confidante, it is neither a husband, nor a wife, nor a lover, but the person who lives in your spiritual realm.

5. [Look at my collection of sentences and get acquainted with me] Find a confidant and talk about Biye wine shop. Those who seek this way will not regret it, and they will learn from time to time by escaping to other places. I always learn to say goodbye to you/you come/come

6. A confidant is a friend of friends with whom you will never get drunk and talks about everything; a confidant is the mirror image of your soul, which makes you A person who clearly understands himself; a confidant is a person who can always smile at the same time even though he is thousands of miles apart; a confidant is a person who can understand your thoughts without using any words; a confidant is someone who mirrors your heart and allows you to understand life The true meaning of a person; a confidant is the person who will make you have no regrets in this life and look for it in all your life. Good friends in life are of the same heart and mind.

7. He is your most loyal listener and your truest friend when you are troubled. He will not stay away from you because of your nagging, nor will he despise you because of your nonsense. He will tell you the best solution to the problem, and then accompany you out of your gloomy sky. When you are happy, he will fade out of your sight and quietly rejoice in your joy. He is the person in your life. A true friend.

8. I am like a friend, a confidant, and a lover.

9. Women who are close friends are beautiful, men who are close friends are poor.

10. Having a close friend of the opposite sex is a very unreliable thing. This kind of ambiguity actually has dirty thoughts!

11. There is someone around me who often says that she will take care of me all my life, but she is neither my boyfriend nor my Lanyan, he is my best friend.

12. The difference between people is that their accumulation is a little bit different every day. In the end, one day you will find that there is such a big difference between him and me.

13. A confidante is just your friend of the opposite sex. She knows you understand you, appreciates you, tolerates you, and is a stop for your soul and spirit.

14. Perhaps, you will not have a love story of "holding hands and growing old together" in your lifetime, but you will love yourself even more because you have such a friend. Live and cherish your life.

15. I would rather have a Lan Yan who stays with me for a long time than an uncertain boyfriend. A classic poem describing the difficulty of finding a confidant (Part 2)

16. To understand you is to understand the hardship behind your success, and to understand the unyielding behind your strength. The person who understands you may not be around you, but he must be in your heart and life; he may be silent, but he must be paying attention to you and waiting for you.

17. Once you know each other, you will be a lifelong friend.

18. A friend is someone you can talk to when you are sad, a friend is a companion who wants to share joy, a friend is a punching bag when you are angry, a friend is someone you never want to get rid of, a friend is a mirror, you can always Show the truest version of you. Friends are life-saving straws that will always appear when you need them most. Friends are stations on the journey of life for you to rest. Friends are harbors where you can anchor. Friends are what you have and what I have for everyone. At the same time, in a sense, friends are non-renewable resources. Cherish your friends and your friendship will last forever.

20. Everyone has this complex in their bones: they want to have a close friend or confidante who is neither a husband, nor a wife, nor a lover, but one who lives in your spiritual realm. A person who can speak his mind, but only warms his soul and not his body. When you are hurt, you will think of him or her first. They are your spiritual diary and the longest secret in your life.

21. If you want to give a definition of perfect life, it is satisfaction. If you want to give a definition of satisfaction, it would be three or five close friends, talking and laughing happily.

22. A confidante is something you can meet but cannot seek. She is not your harbor, because your harbor is your home, a place that shelters you from wind and rain and keeps you full.

23. At that time, I followed him like a shadow, and I felt that he was another close friend of mine. Even if he was not a close friend, he was also a close friend.

24. I really want to have a close friend or confidante, who is neither a husband, nor a wife, nor a lover, but the person who lives in your spiritual realm. He is a person who can speak his mind, but can only warm his soul but not his body. When you are hurt and wronged, the first person you think of is your spiritual diary, which is also the longest secret in your life.

25. Every male and female friend has a friend who has more friends than ordinary friends, but is not as good as a lover. I call this kind of friend a confidant.

26. Find a confidant and talk about other restaurants. Those who seek this Tao will not regret it, and they will learn from time to time by escaping to other places. I always learn to say goodbye to you, you come here

27. At that time, it was just ordinary: "A sentence is as empty as a word, and close friends sit in pairs chatting, light but profound. People will grow old, and their hearts will be desolate. This is no longer the innocent and shameful vow at the beginning, but the purple spirit formed after love has been reincarnated many times. Seeing it, it will make people calm and silent.

28. I am not a clear person. The flowing water, you are a perfect fallen flower, everything is over, three years, thank you for accompanying me

29. The perishability of close friends also makes us feel cherished. After Zhuge Liang died, the news spread. When he arrived in Chengdu, Li Yan burst into tears and was injured. How could Li Yan be so sad about his death when he was demoted to a commoner by Zhuge Liang? The reason was that Li Yan cited Wu Hou as his only confidant in his life and often hoped that Wu Hou would re-employ him. After Wu Hou's death, no one can recognize his talent. We never cherish this thing when we have it, and we no longer have it when we cherish it. The same is true for friends, who are fragile if not careful. It will break, but a confidant is a solid diamond that lasts forever.

30. You should develop a healthy mentality, don't be greedy for personal gain, don't be vain, and know your enemy and your friend.

Everyone values ​​​​different things. The so-called confidant is hard to find. It is hard to be like-minded and have the same interests. So why should you care about others scorning your own persistence?

Sentences to describe a confidant that is hard to find

1. It’s been another year, and the memory is still fresh in my mind.

2. Although the world is big, it is hard to find a confidant. The same souls can always communicate with each other. It is too rare and too precious to get a sense of sympathy and recognition from each other. Once you see it, you can't look away. .

3. I always want to talk about something, but there seems to be a generation gap between people of the same age. Trying to deliberately communicate always makes the atmosphere awkward and very uncomfortable. I think of a certain winter in the past and a certain guard room. The scene where the old man is roasting peanuts and sausages on the stove and drinking wine, it’s hard to find a good friend.

4. Tea is waiting for someone who understands it. What people are waiting for is a cup of tea that makes you feel happy! I hope the fragrance of tea will live up to you. At a time when everyone is saying that it’s hard to find a close friend and find a close friend, tea is the most sincere friend.

5. Someone who understands your sadness and grievances. I can see through the disguise behind your smile and know that you are trying your best to be strong; I can understand the strangeness in your words and understand that you hide all your thoughts.

This kind of person is a confidant that is hard to find!

6. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find. How expensive it is to provide emotional value to the other party.

7. In addition to parents, sisters, brothers and relatives. Who will discover your emotions and care about you at the first time, and will show up, even if it is a heartwarming word, it is hard to find a confidant, and what a blessing it is to be cared for and cared for! No brain searching required! Because it is blank!

8. It's really painful to get along with people who are not on the same frequency!!! It's hard to find a confidant, it\'s true! Women don't have to be beautiful, but they must not be too superficial and ignorant.

9. Life is like a fleeting moment. Don’t turn a blind eye to those who care about you, and don’t ignore those who are good to you! Because money can’t buy someone who cares about you! It’s hard to find in life, a heart that misses you! In this world, you cannot buy the truest friendship or a true confidant! If there is someone around you who is kind to you from the bottom of his heart, please cherish it. Once it is lost, it cannot be found. Once it is hurt, it will leave! Although this world is very unkind, I believe there is always a true friend who will care about you wholeheartedly!

10. The cold window of the lonely hall is windy and rainy, but I can’t speak anymore. Yesterday's spring was warm and today's autumn is. It's hard to find a close friend alone. My family is thousands of miles across the world, I am sailing in a lonely boat at the end of the world, yesterday’s spring tide is closing in today, who will accompany me in ups and downs? The wind blows and rains all night long, and the sweet dreams come to an end early. By mistake, love is wasted, leaving only hatred and shame. Why do flowers suffer when wind and rain destroy them? It's hard to stay when the fallen red leaves go, the late spring is as sad as the dying autumn, and there are countless sorrows.

11. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find! Life is not easy, so cherish every relationship.

12. Some people are good-natured, but their mouths are not forgiving, and they are often not welcomed by others. Some people are sinister in their hearts, but their mouths are good at talking, so it is difficult to truly understand and find a confidant. .

13. Soul mate This is a form of love that is spiritually superior to the wife, a kind of ideological lover who cannot live together, a kind of spiritual partner whose soul communication is better than physical communication. It is also a kind of emotion, but it is a little less than love and a little more than friendship, because beauty is the most beautiful, and a confidant is hard to find, because we can understand and tolerate each other and there will be no harm. Where can I find him?

14. My husband immediately answered: If you don’t know me, what do you want from me? I looked at him in surprise and sighed: It is really hard to find a confidant in this world. It turns out that the person who understands you best is the person next to you.

15. It is easy to find a close friend in the mountains and rivers. It is easy to get a thousand taels of gold, but a close friend is the most difficult to find in life. Many people know our preferences, but few understand our thoughts. If you meet someone who understands you, please don't miss it. Xilao

16. Not everyone can have mutual support, and not everyone can have love. Not all encounters can lead to beautiful scenery, and not all frankness can be exchanged for equal tolerance. In the vast sea of ​​​​people, there are only a few people who can enter your heart; there are thousands of duckweeds, but only a few people can understand you. When fate gathers and fate breaks up, there is always a sense of wandering; between joys and sorrows, separation and reunion, there is always a feeling of reluctance. Good deals are gained, but good friends are hard to find. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to come by, but a confidant is hard to find. In fact, what is missing between people is sincerity and understanding; what is missing is sincerity and understanding.

17. In life, it is hard to find a confidant. Many people search for their whole life and never find them. I have only waited for more than ten years, so why should I be too persistent?

18. Having friends in life is a blessing, having a confidant is rare, and having a confidant is hard to find.

19. Almost everyone has heard that only by never forgetting the original intention can you always succeed, but few people know the next sentence: the original intention is easy to get, but always hard to keep. Human reality comes from desire. However, the more you have, the farther you go and the harder it is to control yourself. A thousand pieces of gold are easy to come by, but a confidant is hard to find. Just be happy. Everyone has nothing to be proud of, because you think your own good is not necessarily rare for others. The Book of Changes says: One fate, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulations of yin virtues and five Reading, the first three cannot be changed by yourself, so virtue is the foundation of life. Don't underestimate everyone, treat others better.

20. I have always been thinking about what a friend is. I think it should be someone who laughs with you when you are happy, comforts you when you are sad, and stays with you when you want to be willful. Let’s go crazy together and encourage you to find the direction towards the future when you are confused. It’s hard to find a good friend, cherish the friends you meet on the road of life.

21. Sometimes, what people need is not material wealth, but spiritual comfort, which is about love, because it touches the heart and moves the heart. A paragraph of words enters the heart, just because it touches the soul, a line of tears falls, just because it is disintegrated and fragile. As the saying goes, a confidant is hard to find and a lover is hard to find. True love can only be seen in stormy times. Only in the ordinary can you see the true heart, you can already understand without telling it, sincerity can see the true heart, and the true heart can see the true love. Cherish those who come and let them go. Life is a journey and we cannot stay together forever. The encounters on the road are always beautiful, and the parting station is always desolate. No matter whether joy or sorrow should go, what should come will eventually come. Most of the journey of life is lonely, know how to cherish the nature that comes. It is beautiful. If you are willing to let go, it will be easy to walk away.

22. Although there are many friends, it is difficult to find a confidant! The former must be in greater quantity than the latter, and the latter must be of better quality than the former!

Twenty-three, a thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find! On a certain day of a certain year and a certain month, we will meet again!

24. The person who understands you is a confidant that is hard to find. When you are in trouble or down, you can help through thick and thin, and you are a friend in adversity and good times. People who take matters into your own hands are true and sincere friends. The person who cares about you is the person who loves you.

Twenty-five, in just these two days, I understood a lot of things. When I see the rain, I will be reminded of your lack of responsibility, so I should remember it forever. Are the moon you see and the moon I see the same? Therefore, it is difficult to find a confidant.

26. When I dream back at midnight, we are still in love with each other the most at that moment, and we still treat love with caution and infinite joy. It's just human beings who get tired of it over time. You and I are the same. At first there may still be hatred, but as time goes by, I just want each other to live well, maybe I am getting old. I just want to find someone with whom I can no longer be lonely and with whom I can share everything, no matter pain or happiness. But it’s hard to find a friend and find a confidant. Life is always lonely. You should cherish everyone you meet.

27. The older I get, the more I realize that it is hard to find a confidant and a like-minded person~

28. No matter whether you are optimistic or reserved, whether you are noble or humble, everyone can meet you. The feeling of loneliness often lingers deeply in the unknown lonely feelings. In fact, it is difficult to find a close friend. Poems describing the difficulty of finding good friends and confidants (30 selected sentences)

Poems describing the difficulty of finding good friends and confidants (Part 1)

1. Although, he will not be with you forever. By your side; although you have never asked him to do anything for you, you expect him to live a good life, have a happy family, and have a successful career. At the same time, you also know that he also hopes that you will live a good life. He hopes that you can be as happy as a jumping rabbit every day. You both regard each other's happiness as your own happiness.

2. If you have few close friends, who will listen when your string is broken; if you have few close friends, who will ask when your heart is broken.

3. After all, we are not one family of ten. It is strange how difficult it is to find a close friend in life

4. Close friends look at each other in the world, so far away that it is difficult to drink the water of a river, but And the right tacit understanding flows silently in the moment of missing each other. Time and space are like a transparent film for close friends. How can we block the communication between each other?

5. "To be true confidants, you must trust each other." This famous saying was said by the former Soviet writer Leo Tolstoy. It always reminds us that friends must trust each other, treat others sincerely, and must not lie or cheat. Helping each other and trusting each other is a kind of friendship between friends. Therefore, I took Leo Tolstoy’s famous saying “To be a true confidant, you must trust each other” as my lifelong motto.

6. No matter how beautiful the country is, it is better to travel around the world with a close friend as your companion.

7. Men may long to have a confidante. If good friends are fine wine, female friends are undoubtedly a very intoxicating one. They are more attentive because of their different status and can help men better than their lovers. ; If you are a beauty full of masculine temperament, you will even be more capable than men in doing things. What a wonderful thing this is.

8. No matter how beautiful the country is, it is better to be separated by the world and have close friends.

9. At that time, it was just an ordinary saying: "A clear sentence, two friends sitting in pairs chatting, light but profound. People will grow old, and their hearts will become lonely. This is no longer the original innocent and shameful oath, but It is the purple spirit formed after love has been reincarnated many times. Seeing it, it will make people calm and peaceful.

10. Negotiators should know themselves and their enemies, so that they will not be confused by the other party during the negotiation. Arbitrary manipulation.

11. In order to know ourselves and the enemy and win every battle, we must find ways to fully understand the network security status of the system itself so that we can resolve security threats in a targeted manner.

12. Yu lamented, "Since you are my confidant, naturally I can also be your confidant. Since you and I are confidants, then there must be gold and jade; since there is gold and jade, it is also up to you and me to have it." Another precious hairpin is bound to come! ”

13. My friend, thank you! The most rare thing in life is a confidant who trusts me and opens his heart to me.

14. Time flies, the years are bleak, and the years meet. At the corner of the world, we met each other, got to know each other, fell in love, and finally said goodbye. The love was deep, but in the end, we were alone with the broken shadows, and we shed tears. The years are clear, and the time is clear. After several years, our The stories will turn into dust and disappear with the wind, no longer nostalgic, no longer sad, maybe after a few autumn flowers fall behind, we meet each other, just like meeting each other for the first time, and regard Mo as a confidant.

15. Be a confidant of destiny. , don’t think of life as a lonely or even a lonely one. When the tears fall, the first thing to moisten is the eyes, just like being with friends. A poem describing good friends and close friends (Part 2)

16. Accompanied by the breeze, thinking about but not coming with fine wine

17. A confidante is just your friend of the opposite sex. She knows that you understand you, appreciates you and tolerates you, and is your heart and spirit.

18. Wherever the autumn wind comes, the wild geese come to the garden, and the lonely guest is the first to hear it.

19. What a man is looking for in his life is not one. A wife is not a lover, but an even better confidante.

20. In the past, a thousand cups of wine were enough to meet a good friend, but now, a thousand cups of wine are too few to have a good friend.

21. . Even if you can't find a confidant, you can't leave others alone. In the vast sea of ​​​​people, it's hard to find a confidant, and it's hard to keep yourself.

22. Acquaintance is fate, knowing each other is rare, and knowing a friend is hard to find. Lin Yu, why don't you let me be your confidante?

23. Among good friends, you must cultivate a confidant. Don't think that you are so versatile and have friends everywhere. In the end, only those who are sincere to you will There is one, believe me.

24. If I meet the same person who is so good to him, I will not treat him as such a bad self. Comfort - your soul, which you can't help but be with me

25. A gentleman is ignorant of himself, but trusts his close friends. Sima Qian

26. The invisible face, But the love that cannot be touched is deep in both hearts. Because we understand each other, we are grateful; because we are attached to each other, we cherish it very much.

27. People live this life. , you will always meet a few abnormal people. This kind of person may be your pure spiritual sustenance, but he cannot be simply classified as a friend, because the love you pour into him goes beyond the boundaries and ideas of ordinary friends. You and he have never had any thoughts or specific behaviors that would sublimate it into love. The relationship between you is so pure that you have never even held hands.

28. Lan Yan treats you as a buddy. I treat you as my daughter and love you as my girlfriend.

When you are happy, he goes crazy with you, when you are sad, he lends you his shoulder. If you let him indulge you, he will accompany you; if you fool around, he will support you.

29. In this world, what a man needs most, besides a wife, seems to be a confidante.

30. No matter how beautiful the country is, it is better to travel in the country with a beautiful woman and a close friend. A short poem about how hard it is to find a close friend

A short poem about how hard it is to find a close friend

1. After all, we are not the same family of ten. How difficult it is to find a close friend in life.

2. Because of friends; I put away my stubborn temper, because of friends; I transferred your advantages to myself, and your interests became my interests. There is no reason to love friends. All my efforts are worth it, as long as I have friends by my side. Maybe you haven't realized that I am always by your side to understand you, protect you, and listen to you with all my heart; I don't say too many caring words, but I always do something to care about you. I am often touched by your small thoughtfulness, but you cannot go beyond the boundaries of friends. There are some things that cannot be said, and you will be sad if you fail.

3. Under normal circumstances, the wife is the confidant, while the confidante is the listener. In front of a beauty, a man can be a tired bird or a prodigal; he can be tired, he can be lonely, he can be helpless, he can escape, he can be indifferent. And she is the night that can accept you, give you silence, and be a space for you to restore your energy.

4. To seize the opportunity, you must first grasp the accurate and latest information, and whether you can seize the opportunity depends on whether you can exert force at the appropriate time and stay ahead of your competitors. The most important factor behind timing is knowing yourself and your enemy.

5. People say that beauty brings disaster to water. Later, Tang Xiaowei deeply realized from Kong Di that beauty brings disaster to water, and beauty is out of reach.

6. No matter how beautiful the country is, it is not like spending a hundred years with a close friend and pity.

7. But a woman will die for a confidant, and a woman will tolerate a man who pleases her. —— Yu Daxiang's "Home Thoughts on National Policy"

8. In the past, at the dinner table, a thousand cups of wine were given to a close friend, but now, a thousand cups of wine are given to a close friend.

9. In the second year of high school, previous difficult questions and common questions in the college entrance examination. Let students achieve a targeted goal and know themselves and their enemies.

10. If you are looking for a husband, look for someone like Big Big Wolf; if you are looking for a confidant, look for someone like Lai Weifeng; if you are looking for a best friend, look for someone like SpongeBob SquarePants.

11. In the pavilion, there are nine cups of tea instead of wine. There is wind coming from all directions to send off six or seven close friends.

12. Walking into this field of sunflowers, dragonflies called my name, and butterflies danced with me. Every sunflower is my confidant. They send boundless brilliance to my face. Every sunflower is looking at me. I walked to a sunflower, quietly, as if I was also a sunflower.

13. A friend is someone you can talk to when you are sad, a friend is a companion who wants to share joy, a friend is a punching bag when you are angry, a friend is someone you never want to get rid of, a friend is a mirror, you can always Show the truest version of you. Friends are life-saving straws that will always appear when you need them most. Friends are stations on the journey of life for you to rest. Friends are harbors where you can anchor. Friends are what you have and what I have for everyone. At the same time, in a sense, friends are non-renewable resources. Cherish your friends and your friendship will last forever.

14. Everyone has this complex in their bones: they want to have a close friend or confidante, who is neither a husband, nor a wife, nor a lover, but one who lives in your spiritual realm. A person who can speak his mind, but only warms his soul and not his body.

15. Some women are born to be friends. They like simple relationships and hate restraint just like men. This is undoubtedly the type of friend that more men appreciate. So even if they are not so "confidant", men still like to be friends with such women.

Part 2 of short poems lamenting the difficulty of finding a close friend

16. Lan Yan is a boyfriend who is a little farther away, or better said, a brother and a close friend. At least he knows how to cherish you;

17. Accompanied by the cool breeze, think about it but don’t compare yourself with fine wine.

19. The greatest luck in life is to meet someone who is as funny as you are. It is relatively easy to know what you are thinking about him. An action does not know what it is thinking about it.

20. Let time go by in a hurry, I only care about you, and I am willing to infect your breath. How often can you find a confidant in life, and it is not a pity to lose the power of life

21. I also I have been wandering for a long time. In the past ten years, I have lost all my deep gratitude and become my teacher and friend. It's not a shame to have the same name in the past. Let's see Du Ling lose weight. It has not diminished, and the night is quiet. I have to say farewell to my close friends for a long time, and I ask myself, is life desolate at this point? I hate you so much, I will cut it open for you.

22. Find a confidant and talk about other restaurants. Those who seek this way will not regret it, and they will learn from time to time by escaping to other places. We always learn to say goodbye to you and you come and go

23. Flowers bloom untiringly only for butterflies to love their fragrance. When a person meets a close friend, he has no extravagant hopes for the rest of his life. Time is like water, carrying things with different weights. Chasing the waves and the Let's go boating together. How many feelings are floating in the wind and rain, but I can't let go of my attached face. The world is impermanent and life is like a dream. Only you can make the world calm. The fate of heaven and earth gathers and disperses in a hurry, but I am willing to cling to the incomprehensible reunion. I will be moved by you for eternity.

24. A friend is someone you can talk to when you are sad, a friend is a companion who wants to share happiness, a friend is a punching bag when you are angry, a friend is someone you never want to get rid of, a friend is a mirror, you can always Show the truest version of you. Friends are life-saving straws that always appear when you need them most. Friends are stations on the journey of life for you to rest. Friends are harbors where you can anchor. Friends are what you have and what I have for everyone. At the same time, in a sense, friends are non-renewable resources. Cherish your friends and your friendship will last forever.

25. No matter how beautiful the country is, it is not as good as playing chess, calligraphy and painting.

26. Only by knowing your own shortcomings can you eliminate the shortcomings of others; only by not relying on your own strengths can you take advantage of others' strengths.

27. Thousands of mountains and rivers cannot stop the meeting of the heart, and the passage of time cannot change the eternal belief. The body is at the end of the world, but the heart is close at hand; the love is in the ink, and the love is in the heart. In your life, having someone who understands you is the greatest happiness.

28. People who love you may not understand you, but people who understand you will definitely feel sorry for you. A word that understands you warms a period of time; a word that loves you touches a life. I understand you, why do I need thousands of words, silent giving, and deep love;

29. No matter how beautiful the country is, it is better to travel around the world with a close friend as your companion.

30. It is often said that life only lasts a hundred years. In the vast sea of ​​​​people, how can we only rely on fate? It's easy to get everything, but it's hard to find a friend. There are countless people in ancient and modern times who have lamented their wisdom, but there are only a few people who can fulfill their lifelong wishes? Everyone is eager to find a close friend. If the world looks forward to a hero in troubled times, it is like a person trapped in the sand longing for a source of water. When you are in trouble and difficulty, it is really touching to know that you have comforted you; when you are down and out, it is also a pleasure to know that you have understood your ambitions; how many times in the world can you talk freely about the same fun? ?