In those days, Yang Suo, the "Henan Giant Baby", starved to death at home after his parents died. What caused it?
Remember that "Henan Giant Baby" Yang Suo? After the death of his parents, he starved to death at home at the age of 23, and the ending was lamentable. < P > Zhu Xi in Southern Song Dynasty: the doter is unknown, and the greedy is insatiable.
Even the ancient emperors had to help themselves to eat, but now many parents dote on their children, and the emperors who didn't go there even exaggerated, as if the children were the emperor in the family, and everything depended on them and they were used to them. As the saying goes, it is not an exaggeration to spoil children too much, which is not a good thing for them. It is a crime, and it is also an instigation to children.
a young man, with no limbs broken and normal mind, can find a job, not to mention how much, at least he can earn money by buying steamed bread. But some people are lazy enough to starve themselves to death, which is really incredible in the eyes of normal people. In Xinyang, Henan Province, there was a tragic incident of being starved to death by himself, but it made people unable to sympathize with each other, only hating iron and not turning into steel. His name is Yang Suo. Listening to this name, we can know that parents want to keep this child, so they named it "Lock" and locked him, but not only locked his people, but also locked his life. Yang Suo's family is not rich, but he finally gave birth to a son. His parents took him as a treasure. Before he was ten years old, Yang Suo didn't walk by himself. If he went out, his father put him in a basket to carry him, or his mother carried him. It's no exaggeration to say that clothes reach out for food. If parents don't feed him, Yang Suo won't eat because he is too lazy to eat.
It seems incredible to us. Why don't you move when you have hands and feet? Because parents are reluctant and their sons are precious, how can they work? In fact, when he was a child, Yang Suo would take the initiative to help his parents with their work, but as soon as his father saw it, he let him do it and hurried to rest. Spoiled in this way, it's time to go to school, Yang Suo can't stay at school at all, he can't be wronged, he won't use his head, and he can't carry a pen. The teacher thinks that his brain is smart, and if he is a little stricter, his parents will go to school to make a scene, and all the teachers are afraid to take care of his affairs. Yang Suo has been so wasted, but his father died of liver disease.
At that time, he was only 13 years old. If he could wake up in time and know his father's hard work, or if his mother could wake up and know that his parents could not accompany him for life, it wouldn't be so miserable in the end. Mother continued to spoil her, but how can she take care of herself? She was so tired that Yang Suo helped her. Yang Suo would beat her, and her mother apologized to her. This value is simply distorted. Until Yang Suo was 18, his mother left, and he didn't know how to live. Cousin took him to the construction site, and he ran away because he was too tired; Send him to a hotel as a waiter, but he let others wait on him and was driven away. The villagers sent him meat and vegetables, but he was too lazy to do it, which made everything rot. When it's cold outside in winter, he goes to the toilet directly in the house and then digs a hole to bury it. This is no longer lazy, but has become sick. In order to keep warm, he burned all the furniture at home, and he sold all the valuable things at home. In the winter of 23, he was found dead in his bed at home.
"When I was at school, you wouldn't let me fall in love, but when I graduated, I would get married." When I saw Yang Suo, I would think of this sentence. Many parents have been forcing their love on their children with the phrase "it's all for your own good", but they don't know or don't care to listen to other people's opinions. Is this right? I want my children to be successful, but I also guide them in the wrong direction. If the final effect is not achieved, I either blame others or wish them children, but the mistakes are caused by parents. Many parents feel that they are hardworking and their children are ungrateful. They feel that their children have no conscience. In fact, they should be thankful for their children, because they wake up in time. Parents' wrong values are like a blunt knife, killing their children bit by bit in life. Sometimes parents are terrible but don't know it. They hope to listen to the opinions of others and learn more education and guidance for themselves, which is good for themselves and their children.