All love will meet again, 7 years since the first non-parental organ donor | Organ donor’s song in Japanese

One act of kindness triggered a series of wonderful encounters. Her situation is like a domino. When her good deeds are passed on to benefit others, she also reaps worldly happiness and inner abundance. The Adventure of Love: Give you half of my liver. "Sister, can I call you mom from now on? You saved my mom, and you are in her body, so you are my mom!" the little girl Mengxue said sincerely. These words made the pale Luo Wei smile. She was pleased with her decision.

This is a decision that others cannot understand: Luo Wei, who was only 19 years old, chose to donate his liver to a strange woman. Moreover, as the first non-relative organ donor in China, she and the other person were completely matched! The surgery went very smoothly. In fact, there were fears and doubts before, but what supported young Luo Wei in making this decision?

In March 2005, Luo Wei, who graduated from a technical secondary school, was interning as an accountant in a company and received his first month's salary of 500 yuan. Unintentionally, she was attracted by the newspaper placed on the desk in her dormitory. There was a shocking news on it: Pujiang farmer Liao Hongxia was suffering from liver cancer, and her husband Zhang Yuanlin was willing to cut his liver to save his wife...

Luo Wei felt a surge in her heart. Touched, she decided to donate the 200 yuan she originally planned to buy gifts for her parents to Liao Hongxia, a news subject. Although the money is small, many people can help, Luo Wei comforted herself on the way to West China Hospital. Liao Hongxia was so skinny and skinny on the hospital bed that she couldn't bear to see it. In her deep and helpless eyes, Luo Wei felt her strong desire for life.

After donating the money, Luo Wei came out of the inpatient department and walked in the warm spring breeze, feeling that life is impermanent. Suddenly a little girl caught up and stopped Luo Wei, "Sister, thank you for coming to see my mother!" The little girl was quiet and beautiful. Luo Wei leaned over and kissed her forehead, "Little sister, let's cheer for your mother together!"

The girl cried, "Sister, I really want my mother to survive! But my father's liver is not worthy of hers, and I am young and don't know what to do..." Luo Wei was moved by this sensible child. Got to be a mess. Seeing her sister crying, the little girl quickly rubbed her eyes, "Sister, don't cry if you don't cry. By the way, my name is Mengxue. On the day I was born, my mother dreamed of heavy snow, so she gave me this name." Mengxue squeezed He smiled at the stranger in front of him, not wanting his bad mood to be transmitted to her.

Watching Mengxue’s thin back leave, Luo Wei still stood there. She thought of her childhood self, the little girl who was favored by many people. Her parents worked in other places when she was a child, and her grandfather passed away when she was 9 years old. She grew up relying on the help of her neighbors and eating from hundreds of families. Once, Luo Wei refused to eat because the food was not to her taste, so her aunt borrowed money and ran to the canteen at the entrance of the village to buy bread. It was dark, and her aunt accidentally fell into the pond. If she had found it later, she would have died. Another time, it was raining heavily, and Luo Wei stood under the eaves of the school, looking at the dark sky, crying in fear. At this time, several aunts sent umbrellas to her at the same time, and took her back in a lively manner...

Back then, those warm hands held up a clear sky for me. Nowadays, Mengxue, who is also young, is facing difficulties in life and needs someone to extend a pair of warm hands. That night, after tossing and turning, Luo Wei made a seemingly sudden decision, but it came from the love in her heart: donate her liver to Liao Hongxia, help her protect a complete family, and help Mengxue continue maternal love...

< p>This decision became the biggest news event in the spring of 2005. Luo Wei was afraid that her parents would disapprove, so she only told her brother. Her brother understood and supported her and signed the family wishes column for the surgery. He also felt uneasy about not letting his parents know about such a big thing, so he told his parents behind his sister's back. Luo Wei's parents, Hu Zhongshuang and Luo Jinlian, heard the news and rushed to Chengdu. But after hearing their daughter's reasons for donating her liver, the two elderly people were silent for a long time, and finally held their daughter's hands tightly and chose to support her decision.

As if to fulfill her kindness, the two strangers matched up very successfully. This has to be said to be a miracle.

On March 30, 2005, after 10 hours, the liver transplant operation was successfully completed.

A few days later, Luo Wei was transferred from the intensive care unit to the general ward. Mengxue slipped in like an elf and whispered in her ear: "Mom Luo, my parents said you are a great benefactor to my family. Thank you and wish you a speedy recovery!" Then, Xiao Mengxue took the hands of Hu Zhongshuang and Luo Jinlian and called them "Grandpa" and "Grandma" affectionately.

On April 20, 2005, Luo Wei was discharged from the hospital. She asked the hospital staff not to inform Liao Hongxia and her family. But Mengxue still found out the news and saw Luo Wei off: "Mother Luo, my mother said that a person must repay kindness. Please leave your address and phone number so that I can repay kindness when I grow up!"

Luo Wei hugged the well-behaved and sensible Mengxue and said, "Don't call me mom, it doesn't sound nice. Just call me aunt!" She liked Mengxue very much and recognized this little relative from the bottom of her heart. As an organ donor, if you contact the recipient and their families, it will inevitably put a certain amount of psychological pressure on them. The best state is no contact and no interruption. Therefore, Luo Wei declined Mengxue's request. Mengxue burst into tears, "Auntie, if you don't tell me, I will find you!" The little girl vowed.

After the separation, Mengxue, who grew up, also began to pay attention to public welfare undertakings, and she was also willing to use her love to give back to more people. Out of love, two years later, they really met again.

Continuation of Love: Reunion in Good Destiny

Luo Wei was named the 2005 Touching China Person of the Year and received a total of 80,000 yuan in love donations from all over the country. Unexpected rumors also followed one after another. Some said that Luo Wei donated his liver to become famous and ignored his parents; some said that Luo Wei was scheming and only wanted money... Luo Wei did not complain or get angry and remained silent.

Mengxue’s smile often appears in her dreams, and Luo Wei will also wake up with a smile. Helping others is a happy thing. Luo Wei once again made a major decision: to establish a charity organization to help more people.

In early 2006, after he fully recovered, Luo Wei established a private charity organization, the Guangyuan Elderly and Child Care Center, near Xuefeng Temple in Lizhou District, Guangyuan, Sichuan. All donations of 80,000 yuan were invested. In order to support her daughter, her mother, Luo Jinlian, also invested 90,000 yuan of the demolition money of her own house. From then on, the Luo family began to rent a house.

One morning, Luo Wei arrived at the door of the daycare center on his bicycle and saw an old man lying on the ground, with a pale face and ragged clothes. Luo Wei rushed him to the hospital. When he woke up, the old man cried and said that his two sons were unfilial. Not only did they not provide food and clothing for the old man, but they also kicked the old man out after building a new house. The old man had no choice but to give it a try and walked from Chaotian to Lizhou. Hungry and cold, he fainted at the door of the day care center. Luo Wei bought new clothes for the old man, so that he could receive good care and companionship in the day care center.

At its peak, the daycare center admitted more than 50 elderly people and more than 200 children. Seeing them living happily and decently in the home they built, Luo Wei felt that doing these things was extremely worthwhile.

In the spring of 2007, Luo Wei established three homes for left-behind children in his hometown of Cangxi County, Sichuan. During the summer vacation, she took turns with teachers from Guangyuan to tutor the children and play interactive games. One day in June, when she came to the Cangxi Wuba teaching site, the breeze brought a loud sound of reading.

The reading voice was beautiful and sweet. Luo Wei felt familiar, but he couldn't tell where he had heard it before. Out of curiosity, she rushed to the playground and saw a girl wearing a peaked cap, who looked like a little teacher, leading the children to recite "The Analects of Confucius". The girl in front of me is Mengxue. Luo Wei rubbed his eyes, a little unbelievable that this was true.