Digging bamboo shoots and geomantic omen
Then slide down this person's circle of friends, and basically you will see: "Boring, do you have an appointment?" "I have a weekend off, I don't know where to play, I want to bring it." "The places outside the bed are far away, and the places that the hands can't reach are all other places!" Unified map, selfie.
As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together.
I especially agree that there is a "magnetic field" between people. Whether sitting in the vast sea of people or facing each other, we can always easily identify who is close to our magnetic field.
Therefore, what kind of person you are will attract what kind of people.
To give a few simple examples, when an alcoholic meets an alcoholic, when a gambler meets a card friend, when a cheapskate meets a miser, when a foodie meets another foodie ..... everything is silent. This is called mutual attraction (attraction).
I boast that I am on an interesting road of no return.
Why do you say that?
Because I really feel that my daily experience seems to be "fun".
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Today, my uncle entered the new house and arranged for me to pick up my relatives in town for dinner at eight in the morning.
I received two old people and a young man. The old man was in his sixties and the young man was in his thirties. After getting on the bus for a while, they began to chat. I listened to them while driving. Chatting, they talked about the layout of toilets in the house. I will be interested in planting in summer.
I told them about my trip to go to dali a while ago and my experience of visiting minority quadrangles.
In geomantic omen, where is the most suitable house? The kitchen should be side by side with the bathroom, which position is the best in the house. The head of the family should live in the first room, the west wing is for children and grandchildren, and the servant girl should live in the side room. The reason is ...
The journey lasted more than forty minutes, and I spoke with relish, and they also enjoyed it. I laugh from time to time, because I think what I say is very funny.
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I went home after lunch.
Opposite my house is a continuous mountain, at the foot of which is a bamboo forest, about a few hundred meters away, separated by a crystal clear river.
As soon as I got home and saw the green bamboo forest, I had a whim to dig bamboo shoots. Act at once, put on water shoes and coats, shoulder hoes, and walk quickly to the bamboo forest in three steps and two steps.
As soon as I arrived in the bamboo forest, I received a small partner from a simple group of friends to talk to me about gregarious things. result ...
When I finished washing my hands, I found a few bubbles on my palm. Friends in the countryside may have had this experience, and the process of digging bamboo shoots is particularly interesting.
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Before dinner, my 4-year-old granddaughter stuck to me.
Long eyelashes, standard double eyelids. Under neat bangs, a pair of bright eyes. Wearing two rabbit ears on her head and a long witch hat on her back. I like to laugh. When I laugh, I can see two rows of teeth that the little guy hasn't grown up yet. The teeth are very wide, so I saw it when she smiled, and I wanted to laugh, too. A lovely little beauty, I wonder how many innocent teenagers she will hurt when she grows up.
When I was sitting in the chair, I noticed that as soon as she entered the door, she went straight to the candy tray and stuffed beautiful candy into two pockets. Then jump on my lap, first open a piece of chocolate and put it in my mouth to chew. Seeing that she has taken two pills in a row, I don't think she can eat so much polysaccharide before meals and then skip meals.
So I pointed to the candy in her hand and said, "This is for my uncle." She looked at me and nodded. After opening it carefully, you looked at me as if you were thinking about something, but you handed it to me in the direction of my mouth, and stopped in the middle of reading! I consciously put my mouth together, and when I was about to touch the candy ... she quickly put the chocolate in her mouth and chewed it! Then he looked at me and smiled.
Me!
Well, this little friend is very interesting.
The ancients said that the phase is born by the heart, and the environment turns with the heart.
Life is boring, and people who have experienced it are unkempt.
Life is colorful, because those who live in it are full of hearts.
People with dark and damp hearts can't hang a sunny smile on their faces. People who are full of fun find everything in the world interesting.
Sometimes it's not that you can't meet, but that you can't say it when you meet.
In other words, even if the other person is interesting, but the other person feels different from you, that hides the interesting characteristics. Because interesting people know that getting along with boring people is an energy consumption in itself!
How to be interesting?
My answer is: live in the present and feel with your heart.
How to understand a short sentence? Give a few negative cases:
In summer, I often ask some friends to go diving and fishing. When I got to the river, a friend of mine played with his mobile phone all day.
When I was a child, I was very energetic in learning bamboo flute. So he asked me to bring a guitar. About three or four months later, I played twenty or thirty songs on the bamboo flute. Ask him how the guitar lecture went. He told me: You think it's so easy to learn guitar, and then all kinds of reasons to be busy!
Another buddy came to my house for dinner and saw that I bought a lot of books. He also asked me to recommend some books to him with great interest. I sent him a link, about six or seven copies. He bought the book back in a few days, just like I bought it. However, after a while, I went to his house for dinner and saw those books, all unopened and brand-new!
There is also a small partner who sleeps and brushes his mobile phone when he has nothing to do, complaining that life is boring and work is boring! From his mouth, there are basically no new words, and those familiar online celebrity jokes are also endorsed in this way.
I saw in Wang Zengqi's book "Life is Fun" that the author turned trivial life, insects, fish, birds and animals all year round into poems. In his eyes, life is full of fun and he enjoys it.
In fact, many times, it is not that the thing itself is boring, but that we have lost the instinct to feel a thing with our heart. Chatting with others, cooking a delicious dinner, learning ink painting, reading, fitness … these things are fun in themselves, aren't they?
A person, only by making himself interesting first, will the world become interesting.
May you ride a whip and drift away on the road of pursuing inner pleasure.