As I got older, I realized that these truths are all true.
As I get older, I realize that these truths are all true. As I get older, I realize that these truths are true. 1
Many absurd things in the past have become nothing now. Food and drinks.
Thousands of rivers have water, thousands of rivers have moons, and there are thousands of miles of cloudless sky.
As Dazeng said, the past is a thing of the past. Life is a process full of vicissitudes and hardships. In spring, summer, autumn and winter, feng shui takes turns. Time that cannot be grasped, years that cannot be grasped.
And some things can only be understood after experiencing them. Some truths can only be discovered when you get older - they are all true.
When I got older, I discovered:
Friends are not far or near, only sincere.
Friends are like the stars and the moon in the night sky that illuminate each other, encourage each other, and look at each other.
Friends, that is, embedded in silent care, do not necessarily have to meet every day. What lasts forever is the connection between hearts. There is no need to be flattering in vain. You may understand by nodding, and sometimes you can see each other from afar. , very happy.
Writer Sanmao once said:
The most beautiful relationship between friends is the icing on the cake; the most valuable thing is to provide help when it is time for it; the best among friends is like good tea, light but not astringent. , fragrant but not overpowering, floating slowly, like water flowing in a long time.
Those who share common aspirations do not consider mountains and seas to be far away; those who are well-behaved do not consider close proximity to be near.
Friends are a kind of spiritual connection between each other, a tacit understanding.
Your every gesture, every frown, every word and every action, even a look, an action, a back view, or a look back, will be understood by your friends.
There is no need to explain each other, no need to talk too much, no need to talk nonsense, no need to show off, they will all be in tune with each other. It is the gentlest, most comfortable, most enjoyable and most beautiful artistic conception.
It’s better to miss thousands of people in your life than to miss them as friends;
It’s better to be with friends than to accompany you along the beautiful scenery.
When I got older, I discovered:
Leaving room for others also leaves a way out for yourself.
There is such a legend in ancient Greek mythology:
Phaethon, the son of the sun god Apollo, drove a luxuriously decorated sun chariot and went on a rampage. When he came to a cliff, he happened to meet the moon rover.
When the lunar rover was about to turn around and retreat, Phaethon relied on the strength of the sun chariot shaft to push him to the rear of the lunar rover, leaving no room for maneuver for the opponent.
While Phaethon was gloating over the misfortune of the lunar chariot, which was unable to protect itself, his own solar chariot also reached a dead end, and there was no room for him to even turn around.
One step forward is danger, one step back is disaster, and finally you are helplessly buried in the sea of fire.
When you do something, you must leave room for it, and don’t push people to a dead end; when you speak, you must leave room for it, and you can’t talk too much.
Because there are always surprises in everything, leaving room is to accommodate these surprises so as not to block your own way.
When I got older, I discovered:
Reading more is really useful.
The famous Argentinian writer Borges said:
God gave me a vast sea of books and a pair of invisible eyes. Even so, I still secretly imagined that heaven should be It's what a library looks like.
Regarding the usefulness of reading, I remembered a speech by Zhang Xuefeng, a postgraduate entrance examination teacher, in an issue of "The Speaker". The host Lu Yu asked him:
"Do you really believe that the postgraduate entrance examination can change people?" Fate, or is it because you started promoting the postgraduate entrance examination after doing this? "
And what he said next was clumsy, sincere, but very touching:
"What if? If you are interested, go to Qiqihar University in September or October this year to see what kind of companies recruit at Qiqihar University;
Go to a school in Beijing to see what kind of companies Recruit at the University of Science and Technology Beijing;
Take a look at what kind of companies recruit at Tsinghua University and Peking University.
What kind of company do they go to, how much money do they give this student, a month's salary. This is indeed the reality of the current recruitment market. "
I read a question on Zhihu: "What is the person you have ever seen who least strives for advancement? "
The answer with the most likes is:
"The most unmotivated people I have ever seen. They are anxious about the current situation and do not have the perseverance to practice their determination to change themselves. . Three minutes of heat, I often hate myself for not living up to expectations, and the thing I insist on the most is that I can't persist. They are buried in the crowd with the most ordinary identities, but they live the most painful days. "
Reading is never useless. Even if it cannot show its effect now, the scenery you yearn for in the book has become your real experience and the real wealth in your life. When you wait One day, it will play a huge role.
When I get older, I realize:
Good health is the greatest asset.
Wealth and glory are all things outside the body. Safety and health are fundamental.
Yu Juan, a female doctor from Fudan University, wrote in her autobiography "Cancer Diary":
"Health is really important at the critical point of life and death. When the time comes, you will find that any overtime work (staying up late for a long time is equal to chronic suicide), putting too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a house or a car are all just clouds.
If you have time, spend time with your children, use the money to buy a car to buy a pair of shoes for your parents, don't go all out to buy a big house, stay with the people you love, and live in a small house. "
As Yi Shu said: My destination is health and talent.
Many things only become more precious when we are about to lose them. This is true for feelings, and so is health. So, don’t let your future self hate you who only work hard but overdraft your health.
Forget what you shouldn’t remember, and cherish what you have around you.
Enjoy the time and savor it. Time, in humility, live a healthy and wonderful life.
Only when I get older do I realize:
Don’t always save the best for last.
Sometimes what you think is frugal is actually a waste.
Because food, clothing, money, etc. will slowly lose their original value as time goes by.
Because time will not wait for you, when you want to enjoy life, you may find that you can no longer climb to the top of the mountain in one breath.
Don’t save the best for last. Because beauty never stays, don’t wait until you take out your floral skirt and find that you are past the age to wear it.
Don’t look for the footsteps of the spring breeze in autumn, and don’t look for the autumn moon in winter. Shadow, we should enjoy the most beautiful life in the right season.
Whether we are 20 years old, 30 years old, 60 years old, or 70 years old, we must have fun in a high-profile manner and seize every moment. For a moment, do whatever you have to do, do whatever you want, don’t save the best for last!
Beauty never stops, it comes and goes like the spring breeze.
Come and go, there is no time. If you don’t enjoy it in time, the taste and appearance will have changed by the time you enjoy it.
Somerset Maugham once said in "The Moon and Sixpence", I tried my best. , live an ordinary life.
We are like fireworks, we have seen thousands of wonderful things, and when we get older, we may find that ordinary is the only answer. .
If a person has a clear mind, he will be clear in his actions and peaceful in his heart. He will have desires but not be attached to them, have desires but not be rigid about them, and live a free and easy life. . People who live peacefully have peace of mind, the sky becomes bluer when the clouds pass, and the water becomes quieter when the boat sails.
The past will eventually fade into smoke, and time will pass.
If it happens. It’s a struggle, there is no sunny day in life. Only when I got older did I realize that these truths are true. Beautiful articles 2
Many ridiculous things in the past are now just a side dish.
Thousands of rivers have water. Thousands of rivers and moons, thousands of miles of cloudless sky.
As Dazeng said, the past has become the past. Life is a process that has gone through many vicissitudes, and the wind and water have taken turns. The years that cannot be held.
And some things can only be understood after experiencing them. Some truths can only be discovered when you get older - they are all true.
As I get older, I realize: Friends are not about distance or distance, they are only about sincerity.
Friends are like the stars and the moon in the night sky that illuminate each other, encourage each other, and look at each other.
Friends, that is, embedded in silent care, do not necessarily have to meet every day. What lasts forever is the connection between hearts. There is no need to be flattering in vain. You may understand by nodding your head, and sometimes you can see each other from afar. , very happy.
Writer Sanmao once said:
The most beautiful relationship between friends is the icing on the cake; the most valuable thing is to provide help when it is time for it; the best among friends is like good tea, light but not astringent. , fragrant but not overpowering, floating slowly, like water.
Those who share the same ideals do not regard mountains and seas as far away; those who are well-behaved do not regard close proximity as near.
Friends are a kind of spiritual connection between each other, a tacit understanding.
Your every gesture, every frown, every word and every action, even a look, an action, a back view, or a look back, will be understood by your friends.
There is no need to explain each other, no need to talk too much, no need to talk nonsense, no need to show off, they will all be in tune with each other. It is the gentlest, most comfortable, most enjoyable and most beautiful artistic conception.
It’s better to miss thousands of people in your life than to miss them; it’s better to be with friends than to accompany you when you see beautiful scenery along the way.
As I get older, I realize that leaving room for others also leaves a way out for myself.
There is a legend in ancient Greek mythology: Phaethon, the son of Apollo, the sun god, drove a luxuriously decorated sun chariot and went on a rampage, galloping as he pleased. When he came to a cliff, he happened to meet the moon rover.
When the lunar rover was about to turn around and retreat, Phaethon relied on the strength of the sun chariot shaft to push him to the rear of the lunar rover, leaving no room for maneuver for the opponent.
While Phaethon was gloating over the misfortune of the lunar chariot, which was unable to protect itself, his own solar chariot also reached a dead end, and there was no room for him to even turn around.
One step forward is danger, one step back is disaster, and finally you are helplessly buried in the sea of fire.
When you do something, you must leave room for it, and don't push people to a dead end; when you speak, you must leave room for it, and you can't talk too much.
Because there are always surprises in everything, leaving room is to accommodate these surprises so as not to block your own way.
When I got older, I realized that reading more is really useful.
The famous Argentinian writer Borges once said: God gave me a vast sea of books and a pair of invisible eyes. Even so, I still secretly imagined that heaven should be like a library.
Regarding the usefulness of reading, Shicijun recalled a speech by Zhang Xuefeng, a postgraduate entrance examination teacher, in an issue of "The Speaker". The host Lu Yu asked him:
"Do you really believe that the postgraduate entrance examination can change things?" Is it human destiny, or is it because you started promoting the postgraduate entrance examination after doing this? "
And what he said next was clumsy and sincere, but it was very touching:
"If you are interested, go to Qiqihar University in September or October this year to see what kind of companies recruit at Qiqihar University;
Go to a school in Beijing to see what kind of Companies recruit at the University of Science and Technology Beijing;
Look at what kind of companies recruit at Tsinghua University and Peking University. What kind of companies they go to, how much money do they give the students, and what is their monthly salary? This is true. This is the reality of the current recruitment market. "
I read a question on Zhihu: "What is the most unmotivated person you have ever seen?"
Number of likes. The first answer is: "The most unmotivated people I have ever seen. They are anxious about the current situation and do not have the perseverance to practice their determination to change themselves. Three Minutes of Heat, often hating themselves for not living up to expectations, the thing that insists on the most is persistence Don't go on. They are buried in the crowd with the most ordinary identity, but they live the most painful life. "
Reading is never useless, even if it can't show its effect now, the scenery you yearn for is. It has become your real experience and the real wealth in your life. One day, it will play a huge role.
As I get older, I realize that good health is the greatest asset.
Wealth and glory are external things; peace and health are the foundation.
Yu Juan, a female doctor from Fudan University, wrote in her autobiography "Cancer Diary": "Health is really important. At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime (staying up late for a long time is equivalent to chronic Suicide), putting too much pressure on yourself, the need to buy a house and a car, these are all clouds.
If you have time, spend time with your children, and use the money to buy a car to buy a pair of shoes for your parents. , don’t try your best to buy a big house, stay in a small house with the people you love, and it will be warm.”
As Yi Shu said: My destination is health and talent.
Many things only become more precious when we are about to lose them. This is true for feelings, and so is health. So, don’t let the future you hate the current you who only works hard but overdrafts your health.
Forget what you shouldn’t remember and cherish what you have around you.
Spend time leisurely, savor the time carefully, and live a healthy and wonderful life in humility.
As I get older, I realize: Don’t always save the best for last.
Sometimes what you think is frugal is actually a waste.
Because food, clothing, money, etc., will slowly lose their original value as time goes by.
Because time will not wait for you, when you want to enjoy life, you may find that you can no longer climb to the top of the mountain in one breath.
Don’t save the best for last, because beauty will never stay. Don’t wait until you take out your floral skirt, only to find that you have passed the age to wear it.
Don’t look for the footsteps of the spring breeze in autumn, and don’t look for the shadow of the autumn moon in winter. We should enjoy the most beautiful life in the right season.
No matter you are 20 years old, 30 years old, 60 years old, or 70 years old, you must have fun in a high-profile way, seize every moment now, do whatever you need to do, and do whatever you want. Why, don’t save the best for last!
Beauty never stops, it comes and goes like the spring breeze.
Life comes and goes, but there is no future. If you don't enjoy it in time, the taste and appearance may have changed by the time you enjoy it.
Maugham once said in "The Moon and Sixpence", I tried my best to live an ordinary life.
We are like fireworks, we have seen thousands of wonderful things, and when we get older, we return to peace. Perhaps only in the end can you discover that being ordinary is the only answer.
If a person has a clear mind, he will be clear in his actions and peaceful in his heart. He will have desires but not be attached to them, have desires but not be rigid about them, and live a free and easy life. People who live peacefully have a peaceful and at ease heart, the sky becomes bluer when the clouds pass, and the water becomes quieter when a boat sails.
The past will eventually become smoke, and time has to turn over the pages.
If you are always entangled, there will be no sunny days in life.