The contrast between Yu Chengqing's wife Zhang Jiaxin and his ex-wife Yi Nengjing is too great. No wonder Ma Yu only accepts her. what do you think?
Yu Chengqing's mother doesn't like Yi Nengjing, which hinders her. After Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing got married, life was not very good. In order to marry Yu Chengqing, Yi Nengjing suffered a lot, and it was difficult for Yu Chengqing to be caught between his mother and his daughter-in-law. But Yu Chengqing has no good experience in dealing with this kind of relationship. The key point is that Yu Chengqing's mother always despises Yi Nengjing, the daughter-in-law, so Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing finally have to divorce.
In fact, people who know Yi Nengjing will find that she is a very resilient person. According to Yi Nengjing's emotional intelligence and ability to deal with people, it is not particularly difficult to please her mother-in-law. But because Yu Chengqing's mother's traditional thought is too serious, and she has preconceived prejudice against Yi Nengjing. Yu Chengqing's mother thinks that Yi Nengjing has stayed in the entertainment circle for too long, and it is inevitable that there will be a dusty atmosphere. Such a girl is not worthy to marry her son.
Perhaps it is because Yu Chengqing's mother has excellent conditions, so she is strict with her daughter-in-law. In fact, this is the inconsistency between the two generations. Therefore, Yu Chengqing's mother has always disliked Yi Nengjing, so she will give her opinion on the matter between her and Yu Chengqing. After a long time, there will naturally be great contradictions. Therefore, the failure of marriage between Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing is inevitable.
Yi Nengjing Yu Chengqing is divorced, and they are both fine. According to many online reports, Yu Chengqing really loved Yi Nengjing at that time. I am willing to compete with my family for Yi Nengjing. However, Yi Nengjing cheated her in the marriage, which was the last straw to crush Yu Chengqing. In fact, from an objective point of view, Yu Chengqing should particularly love Yi Nengjing. Because if you didn't love her, you wouldn't insist on marrying Yi Nengjing against your mother's wishes.
From Yi Nengjing's point of view, she needs the warmth of her family. However, the relationship between herself and her mother-in-law has not eased, which is a particularly painful thing for her. Let's not say whether Yi Nengjing really cheated in marriage, but after the divorce, they feel that their lives are improving. Maybe this is the difference between a good marriage and a bad marriage.
Yi Nengjing married Qin Hao after divorcing Yu Chengqing, and now she lives a happier and sweeter life. Moreover, I have also made a good improvement in my career, and I also performed very well in the variety show "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", which was hit hard last year. After divorcing Yi Nengjing, Yu Chengqing also married his current wife, Zhang Jiaxin.
Zhang Jiaxin meets Yu Chengqing's mother-in-law standard, while Zhang Jiaxin meets Yu Chengqing's mother-in-law standard, regardless of birth or ability. Zhang Jiaxin's own family conditions are very good, all of them are in business, and he graduated from a foreign university, and he has a high degree and cultural level. And some people say that Zhang Jiaxin is proficient in four languages, so excellent people can naturally please Yu Chengqing's mother.
Perhaps this is why Zhang Jiaxin can enter Yu Chengqing's mother's eyes, while Yi Nengjing is not accepted. Many people will accuse Yu Chengqing's mother of meddling, but in fact, this is a collision of two generations' views. Yu Chengqing's mother was only imprisoned by traditional ideas and could not get rid of the so-called family background.
To sum up, I think Yu Chengqing's mother doesn't accept Yi Nengjing because she thinks Yi Nengjing's family background is not good enough for her son. But I like Zhang Jiaxin because I like the family behind her. Anyway, now that Yu Chengqing and Yi Nengjing have their own families, this past event should not have much impact on their lives. As an official, Yu Chengqing's mother should realize that her descendants have their own happiness and should not interfere too much with the feelings and life of the next generation. It's not good to be so rich, enjoy your own rich life and mind other people's business.