I am a rabbit boyfriend, a dragon, and everyone around me says I am a dragon. What should I do?
If you want to love him, go after her. This girl is emotionally fragile. As long as you show true love to her, she will definitely accept you and establish a relationship with you.
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"White horse is never afraid of green cattle. When the sheep meets the mouse, everything will stop. When a snake meets a tiger, it will break like a knife. When a pig meets an ape, it won't end. When a dragon meets a rabbit, it must go to the clouds, and a golden rooster sees a dog. "
In some places, especially in remote mountainous areas and rural areas, there is a saying called "genus compatibility" What "once a sheep meets a mouse, a white horse is not afraid of a green cow", "a snake sees a tiger like a knife file, and a pig sees an ape like frying oil", and so on. If a loving couple dies of an accident or sudden illness, some superstitious people in the village will accuse each other of being miserable and kill the soft-hearted "Ke".
Is the "Zodiac" really "compatible"? To explain this problem, we have to start with the origin of the zodiac and the coexistence of the five elements.
You have heard the myths and legends of "Goddess mending Heaven" and "Fuxi creating gossip". As representatives of ancient China culture, what kind of characters are Nu Wa and Fuxi? It turns out that in the concept of ancient humans, they were all huge animals-dragons and snakes. This can be proved in many ancient books: "Nu Wa, the ancient goddess and emperor, has a snake face." (Shan Hai Jing, Wild West Jing) The embarrassing world ... was born in Fuxi ... People are snakeheads. "(Imperial century) From the early matriarchal clan commune, ancient people used an animal or plant as the name or code name of their clan, which is called" totem ". Memorizing people's dates and birth years with animals probably began in the "totem" era.
China's traditional chronology method is different from other countries in the world. Not in Arabic numerals, but in Chinese characters, commonly known as "combination of cadres and branches" Ganzhi is short for heavenly stems and earthly branches. There are ten kinds of heavenly stems, namely, A, B, C, D, E, Ji, Geng, Xin, Ren and Gui, also known as ten stems. There are twelve earthly branches, namely, Zi, Chou, Yin, Mao, Chen, Si, Wu, Wei, Shen, You, Xu and Hai, also known as the Twelve Earthly Branches. The annual code name consists of heavenly stems and earthly branches, such as Jia Zi and Night Ugliness. From Jiazi to Guihai in turn, * * * got 60 times. Sixty years later, it started from the Jiazi calendar again. In this way, within 60 years, * * * will be used six times in the sky (ten times and six times equals 60 years) and five times underground (twelve times and five times equals 60 years). Therefore, the method of recording people's year and birth year with animals is naturally combined with the chronology of the main branch and branch. The ancients matched twelve kinds of animals with twelve earthly branches, and it became: the son was a mouse, the ugliness was a cow, the yin was a tiger, the Mao was a rabbit, the Chen was a dragon, the snake was an afternoon horse, not a sheep, Shen was a monkey, You was a chicken, and Hai was a pig. So the person born the following year is a mouse; People born in ugly years belong to cattle. In this way, the combination of the zodiac and the year is vivid and easy to remember. Therefore, for thousands of years, China's Ganzhi Chronology and Zodiac have been used by people. This is scientific, without any superstition.
However, how did the zodiac, which was used by superstition, give birth to the "pilgrims" to edit and preach? This has to talk about the "five elements". Now even primary school students know that everything in the world is made up of more than one hundred elements. However, in ancient times, people could not have today's understanding of the origin and composition of everything in the world. Ancient thinkers in China used wood, fire, earth, gold and water to describe the origin and composition of everything in the world. As a reasoning tool, the relationship between five elements is used to explain the relationship between things and the law of their movement and change. The order of the five elements is: wood fires, fire produces soil, soil produces gold, gold produces water, and aquatic wood. Here, "fate" contains the meaning of endowment and encouragement. In the relationship between the five elements, each line has two aspects: giving birth to me and giving birth to me. Take "water" for example. Those who give birth to me are gold, and those who give birth to me are wood. The order of the five elements is: Mutuke, Tukeshui, Shuihuoke, Huojinke and Jin Kemu. Here, "gram" contains the meaning of restriction and inhibition. In the relationship between the five elements, each line has two links: "I" and "I" Take "wood" for example. It is gold that resists me, and it is soil that resists me.
In the coexistence of the five elements, there is mutual restraint; In the process of mutual restriction, at the same time, there is mutual growth. Life and gram support each other, restrict each other and keep a balance. This kind of understanding was originally the embodiment of simple dialectical thought, but idealism used it to attach the fate of human life and death, and believed that the replacement of social system and the rise and fall of personnel destiny were the results of the coexistence or mutual resistance of the five elements. As a result, the unrelated zodiac signs have mutually developed and restricted contents. When men and women get married, superstitious activities about the "Zodiac" are very popular. The zodiac not only has the content of mutual understanding, but also the sayings of "widowed year", "single year" and "childless year", which make many lovers unable to get married because of "mutual restraint" and regret it for life! There are many innocent people like Xianglinsao in Lu Xun's works, who are regarded as "hard luck", "white tiger star" and "nemesis" and have been ravaged.
Today, when science and culture are relatively developed, the younger generation who grew up in our socialist China must use science to break the feudal superstition that has existed for thousands of years, and never believe in the harmful fallacy of "mutual respect"!