Is my home’s feng shui bad?
Feng Shui is only an auxiliary tool in life and cannot replace everything in life. Just like the story of the zodiac, we can believe that it is magical, but we cannot use it as a basis to control life. Some people say that looking at the sky is superstitious, but we can’t help but ask ourselves, how can people living on earth have nothing to do with it?
Since you have not received family affection since childhood, this kind of family love will naturally disappear, and you will gradually no longer trust it in the future. When you grow up, it will disappear and you will no longer need it. So where did this innate emotion go? The answer lies in the three emotions of life when you grow up: family, love, and friendship. This is something we understand with age. When we were young, we longed for the embrace and care of our parents. When we grow up and become independent, do we no longer need family affection? No, it’s just that our demand has decreased. With the arrival of adolescence, we gradually get to know ignorant love, gradually fantasize about it, and long for a person of the opposite sex who loves us. At this time, love has almost completely replaced family affection, and then we need to build a family, which can be considered a contribution to society. But love is a parasite, it cannot survive independently, so we need to work as its mother body to give it nutrition. Friendship is important at this time. We all have friends when we are children and grow up, but we can only realize the importance of friends when we are working, whether borrowing money or spending money.
Having said so much, we can see that these three emotions must be balanced in order to live. Without one, life will be boring or even impossible to survive. Now that you and your girlfriend are in love with each other, this is a typical Oedipus complex. Like a child, you will want to nestle in her arms and feel the blank affection of childhood. Life in childhood, especially before the age of ten, has a huge impact on a person's future, that is, emotional retardation is at work. Of course, this does not mean that there is a problem with intelligence, but it means that one is a little numb or overwhelmed emotionally, and always feels lost. At this time we need another person to comfort or rely on. Because you have been lonely for a long time, you no longer have a shadow. I can only say that you are used to loneliness and are afraid of it. It does not mean that the feng shui of your home is bad. If you grow up in an environment shrouded in shadow for a long time, you will naturally be deeply affected. A change of environment, especially with someone of the opposite sex, will give you confidence in life. I feel you will be very happy.
What is scientific Feng Shui? Feng Shui is not a science, and it cannot be used as a scientific basis to act. It is just an art that combines Yixue, ethics, Yin and Yang, miscellaneous studies, etc. - Feng Shui. Of course, if your house belongs to Qinglong Tower or Zhuque Tower, that would be great. If you are unlucky enough to memorize characters, it may be because your house belongs to Baihu Tower or Xuanwu Tower. Generally, these buildings will be surrounded by other buildings next to them. Shading, due to environmental restrictions, may cause conditioned reflexes on the owner. For example, when you go to someone else's house, you will feel refreshed, but as soon as you return to your own road, you will feel extremely depressed and out of breath. When you return home, you will feel even more depressed. I can’t bear to be bothered anymore, so there is nothing new and happy to mention.
What the poster needs is to live in a new environment, with the people he loves and a group of good friends, not in the original place with "memories". I hope the original poster will be happy and healthy.