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Emotional intelligence is low, I can't talk, what should I do if I meet a girl I like?

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First of all, boldly go forward and ask for the mobile phone number, which is to lay the foundation for the follow-up. The place to pay attention to is to speak at a distance of 1.5 meters opposite her. This is a safe social distance and makes people feel less depressed. You can go up to her and ask her for her mobile phone number directly. "You look good, temperament is good also, want to know you. Can you give me your mobile phone number? My friend is waiting for me there. I'll go right away? " This is a direct opening remark, suitable for conditions such as appearance.

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You can gradually get in touch with your mobile phone number. Pay attention to brain teasers and jokes. These things can improve the atmosphere and show humor and arrogance. Arrogance here is not boasting, but maliciously belittling or exaggerating, or saying something that is simply impossible. For example, I wear a mask and sunglasses when I go out during the day. She asked you why, and you replied: Because if I don't do this, someone else will have an accident because of my handsomeness.

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If she is beautiful, don't show a sense of need too early, so that she can see at a glance that you are hitting on her. In this way, first of all, she will be wary of you. Then you can specify that you are finished, and then you can suppress it appropriately: Pig Bajie was rated as one of the four ugliness, so she went to ask Tang Priest: Am I really that ugly? Tang Priest couldn't bear to hurt Pig, so he asked the magic mirror. After asking the magic mirror, Pig Bajie came back and said: Who is XXX (her name)? This is a kind of repression. Let her not condescend in front of you, but let her prove it to you.

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Pay attention to the mystery. For example, if she asks what you are doing today, you can answer that it's a secret: I'll tell you next time we meet. Or: You know what? You have a problem. She won't tell her if she asks. Tell her it's nothing. She will definitely ask again. As the saying goes, curiosity kills the cat also applies to women. Then, under her constant questioning, I will tell you next time we meet. Remember not to say anything to pave the way for the next date. She'll look forward to it.

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In conversation, women are more likely to say unconsciously that some tests are subconscious. If you don't answer well, you will get less points, for example, you are really narcissistic. You can answer: narcissism is a kind of faith, and people like you who have no faith don't understand it.

Be sure not to answer too many questions. The best answer is humor without being too low-level.

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During the conversation, girls show interest in you and respond.

For example, you are really smart. You can answer: of course, you are not bad. Who is the master?

Pay attention to responding to her interest. At this time, start to show your interest in her.

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Then it's time to ask her out. Pay attention to whether her conversation implies that you can ask her out, such as calling you: nothing to do tomorrow, boring.