We must always optimize our psychological feng shui

? February 18, 2021 has entered the "rain" solar term. We must cultivate our ability to love. In addition, we must often optimize our psychological Feng Shui. Feng shui is the environment in which we live. Whether the sunshine in our psychological environment is sufficient, whether the trees are shady, and whether the breeze is blowing, all determine the comfort and harmony of our psychological space. Otherwise, if we become psychologically deserted, we will become people living in a glass house. If we do not communicate with others, it will be impossible to talk about a happy life.

? The social environment needs harmony, the ecological environment needs harmony, and the psychological environment also needs harmony. To adjust our psychological Feng Shui, we must adjust it from the following aspects:

First, adjust the Feng Shui of the sun. In our psychological Feng Shui, the sun is our father. "Father and son are related", as the first of the five ethics, emphasizes the relationship between parents and children. As the backbone of every family, the father plays an important role in the growth of his children. A father's self-confidence, optimism, strength to support the family, and sense of responsibility and mission for the entire society have the most direct and effective role in teaching his children through words and deeds. There is another important role, that is, teachers, "teachers, preaching, imparting knowledge and solving doubts." Especially the teachers you meet who are beneficial to you are more important to your growth.

The second is to adjust the feng shui of the wind. Wind is a symbol of change. If a person is unhappy in one place, he may be happy in a different place, or a different environment or a different group of people. It is equivalent to opening a window in our inner world, letting the fog dissipate, and we can slowly see the direction clearly.

The third is to adjust the feng shui of the tree. Humans are social animals and have the need for social attachment. If social attachment cannot be effectively satisfied, happiness will be difficult to achieve. To green your own psychological ecological environment, you must step out of the "psychological glass room", plant trees, and make friends. This is the meaning of friends, "It's good to enjoy the shade under a big tree." When we encounter difficulties and need psychological comfort, talk, and support, friends are the big trees we can rely on, which is often referred to as the psychological support system.