Adult greetings in classical Chinese
2. Ancient Adult Message Classical Chinese Ancient Classical Chinese Inspirational Classic Quotations Collection.
It is human nature to make mistakes. It is not good to change what you have done. (Zuo Zhuan)
2) The auxiliary cars are dependent on each other, and the lips are dead and the teeth are cold. ("Zuo Zhuan Xi Gong Five Years")
3) Beowulf was forced to stay where she was, and the woman was temporarily exempted from other countries. ("Zuo Zhuan Xi Gong 32-33 years")
4) Don't forget the past and learn from the future. (Zhao Ce's Warring States Policy)
It is never too late to mend.
6) Know yourself and know yourself. (Sun Tzu's Art of War, Tactics and Raiders)
7) A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. ("Lao Zi" Chapter 64)
8) Misfortune depends on happiness, and happiness depends on misfortune. ("Lao Zi" Chapter 58)
9) Skynet is long, but it is sparse and not leaking. ("Lao Zi" Chapter 73))
10) He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise. ("Lao Zi")
People are divided into groups (Yijing)
12) if a worker wants to do a good job, he must sharpen his tools first. ("The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong")
13) Don't remonstrate with the past, but you can still pursue the future. (The Analects of Confucius)
14) Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. ("The Analects of Confucius Yan Yuan")
15) the three armed forces can win the handsome position, but the ordinary man can't win the ambition. ("The Analects of Confucius Zi Han")
16) learning without thinking is useless, and thinking without learning is dangerous. ("The Analects of Confucius for Politics")
17) Never tire of learning or teaching. (The Analects of Confucius)
An upright man is open and poised (18), a little person who is often sad. (The Analects of Confucius)
19) If people have no foresight, they will have immediate worries. ("The Analects of Confucius Wei Linggong")
20) Keep your word and do what you want. (The Analects of Confucius Lutz)
3. Gifts from women or ancient gifts used to bless women who just grew up.
This is a rite of passage for Han women. Commonly known as "superior" and "superior ceremony".
This is a hairpin. Since the Zhou dynasty, it has been stipulated that noble women should pay tribute before marriage after engagement.
Usually held at the age of fifteen. If you have been waiting to marry an unmarried person, you can also give gifts at the age of twenty. To receive a gift is to change the hairstyle when I was a child, put my hair in a bun, then wrap the bun with a black cloth, and then insert the bun with a hairpin.
The hostess is the matriarch, and the invited female guests are gifts from girls, which means that women can get married when they grow up. Noble women usually receive adult education in the palace or imperial clan, and are endowed with "women's virtue, women's appearance, women's merits and women's words", which is a skill that a daughter-in-law must have to treat people, serve her aunts and uncles and do needlework.
Later, the teenage mother applied for precepts to teach them by ethics, which was called "teaching tea". When a woman is fifteen, she is called "peace".
"The Wedding of Rites and Scholars": "When a woman promises to marry, she must take the ceremony as her word." The Book of Rites "Women.
Five years out of ten years. "
First, the age and ancient custom of "Zhou Li" saluting are about fifteen, and the latest is twenty. Second, the date of the salute is March 3 of the lunar calendar-Daughter's Day (Shangsi Festival).
Third, pay attention to the problem 1) Guests, ministers, Zan and other attendees are all women. The place to salute is suitable for the classroom.
2) Gifts: Like the crown ceremony of men, the gifts of ancient women also include three or two gifts. The crown was put on a plate, covered with a handkerchief and held by a department.
Men's three plus are towels, hats and hoes, while women are also crowned countless times. Fourth, the concise operation of the preparation activities for the gift ceremony 1 day: that is, the date is determined.
2. Invite guests to refuse guests: that is, determine the participants and invite them by invitation or various communication methods. For distinguished guests, their parents will invite them to their homes three days in advance (one day at the latest).
Attendees: attendees; Master-usually the singer's parents; Zheng Bin-a capable and upright female elder: the company has 1 person-a person who acts as a tray for the people; 1 person-assisting guests to salute, usually friends and sisters of the guests; There are many audiences. 3 furnishings: venues, costumes, ritual vessels, music, etc.
Venue: In ancient times, the ceremony was held in the "Family Temple", and facilities needed to be built in the east of the main hall, which was called the "East Room". Clothing 1) Pick clothes: Pick clothes is the clothes that boys wear before saluting.
According to the data of the crown ceremony, the style is short jacket and shorts, clothes (black) cloth and scarlet brocade edge. 2) The first addition: hair ruffles and ropa, plain skirt, like Hanfu.
There is no decoration on the skirt, and the belt is ordinary fine cloth. 3) Supplement: hair clips, curly clothes.
4) Top three: hairpin crown. Long-sleeved formal suit, with coat and skirt.
Ornaments such as ribbons. Clothes placement: stacked in order, with the collar facing east, placed on the mat in turn from north to south, and placed on the east side of the venue; The hair accessories to be added are held by the company on the plate, standing in the west of the venue, facing south, and arranged in turn from east to west: hairpin, hairpin, hairpin.
Description: The clothes added three times have different meanings, symbolizing the girl's growth process-the color of the clothes is pure and beautiful, symbolizing the girl's innocence; The light and elegant skirt symbolizes the innocence of cardamom girls; Dignified and deep clothes (especially curvy clothes) are recognized as the clothes that can best reflect the beauty of women in China and symbolize the light of girls in the flower season; Finally, the grand big sleeve dress embodies the aesthetic orientation of Han women-elegance and elegance. Ceremony ① 1 glass of wine ② 1 serving of rice ③ Several smaller ④ three floor mats: 1 block was placed on the east side of the venue for three sets of clothes.
The other two are placed side by side on the west side of the center of the venue, with cushions (for kneeling). ⑤ Wash 1 incense burner, incense ⑤ Wall chart 1 seat for audience.
Music ceremony, the order of heaven and earth; Musicians are the sum of heaven and earth. China's ritual and music civilization is a whole, and ritual and music are inseparable.
Etiquette 1) welcome: the host stands on the east steps waiting for the guests; There is a tray under the western steps; The guests stood outside the venue waiting; After taking a shower, change clothes and shoes, sit in the east room (locker room) and wait; The music began to play. 2) in place: there is a strict order.
When the distinguished guests arrive, their parents greet them, and after formal mutual respect, they enter the venue and the distinguished guests are seated. Guests sit in the viewing position; After all the guests are seated, the host will sit in the host's seat. 3) Opening Ceremony: The host (father) got up and made a simple speech.
4) in place: praise first, wash your hands, and the west stage is in place; The guests walked to the meeting place, facing south, and saluted the guests. Then sit facing west (that is, kneel down) on the chair.
The complier combed their hair and put the comb on the south side of the mat. 5) Guest washing: that is, guests are ready to wash their hands.
Zheng Binxian got up, and then the host got up to accompany him. Zheng Bin washed his hands and dried them under the Dongtai steps.
After giving in to each other, the guest of honor and the host took their seats. 6) First addition: those who face east sit; A secretary presented Ropa and her hair, and the guests came to the stage. Recite the congratulatory message loudly and say, "If you make the moon auspicious, you can get Canadian dollars.
Abandoning young ambitions becomes a virtue. Life is just a test and a blessing. "
Then sit down on your knees (knees on the mat), comb your hair and add clothes, and then get up and return to your original position. The person who praises is symbolically correct.
The man stood up and the guests bowed to congratulate him. When he returned to the East Room, Zan took clothes from the company and went to the room to change into a plain dress that matched the portrait on his head.
7) Worship: After leaving the room, the wearer will show it to the guests. Then face the parents and formally pay homage.
This is the first time to worship. This time, it is to express gratitude to parents.
8) Two plus signs: people sitting facing east; It is the guest who washes his hands and then resets; A secretary presented a hairpin, and the guest took it and walked to the singer. He read a congratulatory message loudly and said, "Yue Ji gave the order and Er Shen served. To your majesty, schushenld.
Eyebrows will live forever, and they will be blessed by Khufu forever. "Praise for disorderly send disorderly.
Zheng Bin knelt down, put a hairpin on the singer, and then got up and reset. Praisers help those who symbolically make hair.
The guests bowed to the mourners. The singer went back to the east room, and the commender helped him with clothes, and went to the room to change into colorful deep clothes that matched the hairpins on his head.
9) Second Worship: Guests come out wearing deep clothes to show them. Then face the guest of honor and pay a formal tribute.
This is the second time to worship. This time it is to show respect for teachers and seniors.
10) Sanjia: sitting facing the east; It is the guest who washes his hands and then resets; A secretary presented a hairpin crown, and the guest took it and went to the restaurant.
4. The oath of adult ceremony: China's ancient version of adult ceremony exhorts children, for reference: "Showing Children's Long Words" [Qing] Pan Deyu ○ Writing a poem for the people, seven chapters will be decided first, and the ambition will be based.
People don't have great ambitions, but stick to mud. If you obey God's command, you will never get lost.
Read good thoughts and be obedient. Why not learn from others instead of others? Why do immoral people have such bodies when they think for themselves? Follow your face, but be sincere.
External obedience and internal disobedience, animals wear clothes. Introspection comes from the dream of the soul. If you make a fake, you should hurry.
People who sincerely obey their loved ones will be ashamed of doing things. I'm afraid of insulting my loved ones. Beating is my enemy.
Bandits pull goods and never make friends with them. Be brave after knowing shame, and learn to be cautious step by step.
Keep your body clean, protect your morality and your life. Dare not say a word, dare to do evil? Seriously and diligently, reading is the real reading.
Read carefully, think carefully, there is no ambiguity. Will seek the hearts of the ancients and stand with them.
What I said is already salty. Who doesn't smell the old adage? It is a mistake to trip over desire.
If you want to be the initiator, you will regret it. The right poem consists of seven chapters, the chapters are connected, the first chapter is the key link, and the last chapter is the purport.
The fifth chapter-shun Qin, benevolence also; Sincerity, faith; Shame, righteousness; Cautious and polite; Reading makes you wise. The five permanent members have the principle of everything, and nothing else.
Therefore, if you don't talk about the names of the five permanent members, if you don't follow their natural order, you can make sense. Moreover, the principle of the five permanent members is very big and precise, and the old saying is shallow and urgent, and it has its own order.
Obedience is sincere and not shallow, but the boy is willing to listen to his parents' lessons and be obedient; Willing to do things, never lying and cheating, but also being honest, this is the most urgent. Knowing shame before being cautious is practical, so it is second.
Reading, when doing things for people, is one end of wisdom, so it is put behind; However, it's not that this is unreasonable and sincere, as long as it meets the above four requirements. In short, if you don't make up your mind first, it's good to have no foundation; Don't want to cut, is evil, is unclean.
So the first two chapters and the last two chapters are particularly tight. It can lead to the meaning of the first two chapters and the last two chapters, and the fifth chapter is a context.
With the proposition of "being a man", you will be a man from now on; If you don't do this, you will be an animal. Want to be human? Want to be an animal? Why not think about it? Mencius said: "I am inherent, I am cutting."
"If you don't love your body, you can't love it. Very thoughtful. " "The officer of the heart thinks, and thinking is obtained; If you don't think about it, you can't. "
"Everyone is more expensive than himself 62616964757A 68696416fe78988E69D833133396637, cut." Therefore, the word "think" is the most important.
Familiarity with thinking is the ability to determine. Cheng Zi also said: I never know and think about evil people; Thinking is good.
Do good with your heart, don't make up your mind. Knowing shame can bear hardships and be practical and conscious.
Reason and righteousness are the true self, and poetry and books are acquired. Smart and erratic, not successful.
I don't know that Lu is a honest and frank, and his heart is floating. The four words "filial piety, loyalty, courtesy, honesty and shame" are all known in our generation, but we don't know why.
Therefore, what binds people is also regarded as pain. It is not painful to know why.
This must be thought of. What you say and hear is, of course; Learning, learning without thinking is useless, and wasting is bitter.
Tell a diary story, a dutiful son takes care of his younger brother, you will have the heart of Si Qi, you will be talented, you will be talented. People who are willing to study are too far away to believe in the truth and will not be stupid.
As long as it is sincere, "sincere" people are ashamed. Seek sincerity first, and then talk about the rest.
Nothing in the world can be false, and no one in the world can be deceived. I can't pretend it, but it's ridiculous.
If you can't bully it, you can deceive yourself-this is sad. Simple as a child, fine as a bird, but not deceitful as a word, what is the situation? Filial piety, human vitality; Shameless is the backbone of people; Faithful people, the will of the people, think about this, is there an unnecessary moment? Classics, history and diet, the so-called "acquired", can not be abandoned.
5. The rite of passage 1, youth must be early, how can you grow into a teenager.
-Meng Jiao's "Encouraging Learning" in the Tang Dynasty hit a stone with fire, and there is no smoke without fire to hit Yuan. It is unnatural to learn without learning.
Everything has to be his own luck. He has to be my sage. Youth must be early, how can we grow into teenagers?
Only when you hit a stone will there be sparks; If you don't fight, not even a little smoke will come out. So do people. Only by studying can we master knowledge. Without learning, knowledge will not fall from the sky.
Everything depends on your own practice, and the knowledge gained by others can't replace your own talent. You should work hard as soon as possible while you are young. Can a person be a teenager forever? 2. It is difficult for a teenager to learn, but an inch of time is not light.
-Song Zhu's "Accidental Success" It is difficult for a teenager to learn old age, and an inch of time is an inch of light. Before the sweet spring grass grows in the pond, the plane leaves in front of the steps have rustled in the autumn wind.
The days of youth are easy to pass away, but learning is difficult to succeed, so cherish every inch of time and don't let it go easily. Before I woke up from the bright spring, the leaves of plane trees rustled in the autumn wind in front of the steps.
When you are young, the yellow bird will not rest. -Li Bai's "Jiangnan Chunhuai" in the Tang Dynasty When he was young, the yellow bird sang.
People in the world, I don't know where to go home, wandering, white-haired. The shadow lingers in Chu month, but the heart flies to Qin Yun.
This body is particularly brilliant, and the countryside has long been deserted. It's the end of the year. Where should we go? Sing Long song se bekin's song.
How long can youth last? In spring, the yellow birds keep singing. People are in the end of the world, I don't know where the hometown road is, wandering in the rivers and lakes, white-haired.
Under the moon of Chu Guan, the figure is dull, but the heart flies to the cloud of Qin plug. The world is particularly brilliant, and the countryside has long been deserted.
It's the end of the year again. Where should we go? Singing Long song. Extended data:
Ancient coronation ceremony: the ancient adoption ceremony was intended to prohibit intermarriage with minors of the opposite sex.
Crown ceremony is an advanced and representative form of adult ceremony, and it can also be said to be a moral test of adult marriage qualification. The coronation ceremony is a coronation ceremony for a man to enter the adult ranks.
The Book of Rites says: "A husband's ceremony begins with a crown", and "When a man is twenty, the crown means what he says". For the crown ceremony, the explanation in the Book of Rites is: "The reason why mortals are human is a ceremony.
The beginning of propriety and righteousness lies in being upright, being harmonious in color and speaking ... so the crown follows the clothes, the clothes are straight with you, and being harmonious in color and speaking ... this is the way to grow up. "In this way, people who don't understand etiquette are not people. If they don't accept gifts, it will be difficult to be an' adult' for a lifetime.