Draw lots to exchange gift recommendations

Described as follows:

Near the New Year, a WeChat from the kindergarten teacher made Ms. Wang feel very embarrassed. It turned out that the kindergarten was going to hold a New Year's party. The teacher asked the children to prepare gifts and exchanged lottery tickets at the party.

"The teacher specially reminded that the ceremony is light and affectionate, and don't buy expensive gifts." Ms. Wang is considering asking her children to draw a card as a New Year present.

A few days later, the teacher's other WeChat made her a little confused. There are pictures of the class gift exchange corner on WeChat. "Many gifts are beautifully packaged. You can tell by the size that they are not cheap. Our children's greeting cards will definitely not be available. "

Ms. Wang quickly changed her plan and rushed to the mall to buy a Lego dinosaur with a price of 100 yuan.

I think the purpose of the activity is to cultivate children's communication skills, draw closer to each other, and more importantly, to show the gift's mind through hand-making, cultivate partnership, and let both sides feel the happiness of receiving goods.

However, the reality has turned into a reluctant comparison, and parents should take some time out of their busy daily lives to buy "decent" gifts.

Situation 1: As soon as the child traded a cheap second-hand doll for a second limited edition Transformers, he shouted "It's worth it", but the child who got the second-hand doll looked depressed.

Situation 2: The two sides exchanged new toys, which also brought imbalance in their hearts because of the unequal value.

There is nothing wrong with reciprocity, but it can't go against the original intention. I hope the school can promote the gift exchange and improve the hands-on ability, so that the so-called Taobao explosive gifts will no longer become the mainstream.