Keep your stepson as a girl.

Never raise your son as a daughter, or you may become a sissy in the future. You must pay attention.

Some parents have strange ideas, that is, they like to raise their daughters as sons or their sons as daughters. For example, a mother wants a daughter very much, but she gave birth to a son, so she dresses her son like a little girl all day, wears a skirt, wears two braids, paints nail polish and so on. I feel as if I have accomplished a great thing. In fact, if parents often dress their sons in girls' clothes, it will do a lot of harm to their children.

1. Distort children's gender consciousness

There are many differences between boys and girls, each with its own characteristics. Relatively speaking, girls are gentle and beautiful, while boys are brave and bloody. But when parents dress a boy in a skirt worn by a girl, it will cover up the boy's masculinity. After a long time, boys will gradually have the illusion that they are girls, and at the same time think that only the temperament of girls can make him feel a sense of belonging, which will make children have distorted gender consciousness and may seriously become sissy in the future.

2. Easy to be laughed at by others

If parents always match clothes for their children according to their own preferences, regardless of their gender and age, children will be easily laughed at by others and their self-esteem will be strong. When they are always laughed at by other children, they will gradually become timid and have no self-confidence, so parents should not let their children wear skirts that only girls wear at will.

3. Let the child have a shadow in his heart

Do you think boys will be happy to be laughed at by other friends in skirts? Even if children are not allowed to wear skirts afterwards, there will still be shadows in their hearts and they will think that they have been laughed at by other children. Every time I think of such an unbearable thing, it is estimated that it is difficult for him to raise his head in front of other children, so parents must pay attention.

Note: Parents should pay attention to matching clothes for boys. It is best not to let boys wear skirts and other clothes, so as not to leave a bad shadow on their children's hearts, so don't raise their sons as daughters, which is really good for children.