Is it reasonable for psychology to think that forbearance will only stimulate the other person's primitive animal behavior?

Too much forbearance actually means that we give up our bottom line indefinitely. We invite others and tell others that you can violate my boundaries at will. You can do whatever you want in my world at will.

many times, we always treat others the way we expect them to treat us.

We are patient because we hope others will be like us. We always project what we can't stand, hoping to do as we expect. In fact, in the end, the information received by the other party is often contrary to our expectations.

too much tolerance also means that it seems that we are not very good at defending our rights and interests. And let others exploit it. There is always some inferiority in human nature, which has nothing to do with good and evil. Maybe the other person doesn't realize that it will hurt you and what effect it will have on you. It's just that one day it turned out like this.

many times, we will find that maybe we get along well with others at first. But slowly, we will find that the people we meet are all the same, which will hurt us and ignore us ... < P > Just like the so-called scum constitution, people who are always bullied and so on.

with awareness, there will be changes.

come on. We are all healing ourselves and others.

I believe that you will find more sense of boundary and strength of your own. [Rose] [Rose] [Rose] [Rose ]

I agree with this view. Although our Chinese nation has a long-standing cultural connotation and advocates peace. In the face of the epidemic, let go of enmity, regardless of their own safety, and do their best to help other countries. But our enemies didn't appreciate it at all. Instead, they treated our country as Bengaly did, repeatedly throwing pots and slapping black, and even shamelessly demanding reparations. In the face of these devils, I endured for a long time. What should we do? Should we take up arms? Slap them a few times and let them taste China's slap.

a mother is the soul of a family.

Father is the soul of society.

the instability of the family is due to the lack of female virtue.

Social instability is due to family instability.

shame is the foundation of the country. Men don't understand shame as a thief. Women are prostitutes if they don't talk about shame!

propriety, righteousness, honesty and shame are the four dimensions of the country, and if the four dimensions are not open, the country will perish.

courtesy is the way to get along with each other. A monarch, a monarch, a minister, a father, a son and a son, self-denial is the way to reciprocate. If you don't self-deny, the son will kill his father, and the mother will kill her son. Husband and wife kill each other, there is ...

Righteousness is the bottom line of behavior. Suddenly, I saw a boy fall into a well, and those who saw him were bound to feel pity. From the heart, from the practice, from the righteousness. If you don't believe in righteousness, the society is indifferent, the world is cold, and the public transport in Chongqing is terrible! The country is like a moving train. Everyone is responsible for the rise and fall of the world, that is, the righteousness!

honesty doesn't mean honesty! Lian is self-aware! Confucianism saves me three times a day! Introspection to maintain honesty! If you don't know honesty, a woman betrays her husband, a husband betrays his wife, an official betrays his position, and a country betrays his family, the way of family is absolutely gone!

shame is the heart of shame! The book says, "If you don't get a husband, it's the fault of Yu;" The people have had it, and the sin is in me. " Do as you would be done by. Shame is the last line of defense of human nature. I don't know myself, I don't know shame, what is a person!

it's not shameful to raise people, but to raise livestock! Animals have only edible value! It's a pity to die!

help copy, paste and forward. You have an obligation to revive China.

It is foolish to be too kind. Excessive tolerance is a kind of connivance. Everything has a degree, beyond which it is counterproductive. For example, if you are too forbearing, you will grow the arrogance of Ta, bully you with unbridled brutality, and you will lose even a little dignity and live a humble life.

Although everyone says "endure calm for a while and take a step back", it doesn't rule out that some people endure more and more for a while and take a step back, so look at the object! Look at the object! Look at the object! After reading the object and seeing the essence of things, you can handle it in your own way. If you can't handle it, you will ignore it. Remember, don't argue with fools. If you meet frequently, you will be torn. If he doesn't let you feel better, it means that you are not a good person. From now on, you are far apart, don't meet often, whatever, there are more important things to do. Come on!

that's right! If the crying child has milk to eat, then the crying child will keep crying because of conditioned reflex, while the children who won't cry will not be treated like this because they have never had such experience. To change their desire, they have to do the opposite, resolutely resist and wean decisively, and everything belongs to the workers! Resolutely eradicate parasites! Never leave any illusions to the imperialists!

I haven't heard of it. Psychology will discuss the significance of these unconscious behaviors. In other words, let these seemingly unprovoked things find their motivation. Make the visitors unconscious and conscious.

For example, if we endure this masochistic relationship for a long time and suffer from it, we will discuss what happened in it. How to teach others to treat themselves in such a relationship. A person's early trauma and experience can make a person more complete and calm.

That makes sense. I once worked in a small processing factory. When the goods were processed, I had to send them to a big factory. Sometimes the boss would send someone to repair those that could not be repaired. I went there several times. The first few times, because I was unfamiliar with them, I didn't do well. The people in the big factory always looked at me differently. Sometimes I lost my temper and ordered me to do this and that. It was always cold and sarcastic, because I was not familiar with everything, and others did everything. But they didn't leave you alone because of this. On the contrary, they went to the workshop to find fault with the eggs. The image I gave me was that I saw a lot of crabs, and later I became familiar with them. I only did what I had to do. When they asked me to do this and that, I would say that I came here to do this, not to help you with chores. It is my duty to help or not, not my duty to help without saying thank you. Blindly forbearance will really only make the other side push your luck.

A mature person should have his own psychological boundary, and learning to refuse is a respect for himself. It is a fact that tolerance will only attract others to push their luck. What others do to us is what we attract ourselves.

We should bravely say no to those who don't know how to be grateful.

the number of times of forbearance, once forbearance is education, twice forbearance is patience, and three times forbearance is love. If you don't give up three times after two times, it will really make people feel inch by inch.