We have an oral communication debate on honesty and white lies in the sixth grade Chinese Garden. I am an honest party, please give me seven examples.
There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.
Mark. Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will make opponents embarrassed and reassure friends. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
We think we should distinguish things from the definition and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi Dictionary. A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. It is an indisputable fact that white lies are often used by some "professional liars" because of their uncertainty. A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith.
Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen Moral Construction promulgated by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, which means seeking truth and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."
From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
In an environment where the whole society does not stress honesty, you are the only one who stresses honesty and trustworthiness, but honesty and trustworthiness are the foundation of being a man and should not be a condition for being on par with others. The society is progressing constantly, and internationalization is getting closer and closer to us. A villain who earns the interests of others by fraud will eventually be spurned. In this way, your honesty and faith will gain the trust of most people, and your road will be wider and wider.
Basis of the debate (for example):
We believe that people need honesty. I have a little example here. 1933, Lao She's friend went to ask him for an old man's painting of Qi Baishi. Twenty years later, Mr. Lao She saw that friend again and gave it to him. This does not mean that Mr. Lao She kept his promise. Didn't he forget the promise he made to his friends twenty years ago? Therefore, we still support people to be honest and not to lie.
A white lie is a lie in itself. He just changed his robe into a stone robe, or a lie. A false lie is cheating, and cheating is an obstacle to honesty. Therefore, we believe that people should be honest and not lie.
White lies are often used by some professional liars, although their motives are good. A professional liar may, I lied, but it may be a white lie. There are so many lies, and he still thinks he is noble, so I think people should be honest, otherwise once you lie, whether good or bad, your intentions may be good, but someone may use your lies to make things worse.
Moreover, there are more and more white lies in life, and people's discrimination against lies will become more and more serious. Once life is full of lies, there is no way to tell which ones are good and which ones are malicious.
If you live in a world full of lies, will you feel at ease?
White lies are also lies. It's like a disease. Even if it is not malignant, it is benign. Even if it is only a minor illness, can you say that it is not a lie? Can you say that he is not ill?
You said he painted beautifully, and he would be laughed at when he went out. If you tell him directly that your painting is not good and teach him where to correct it, then he will avoid some unnecessary embarrassment.
A lie is a kind of deception. Does the other debater want to add a beautiful aura to the lie? From an objective point of view, isn't lying also a kind of deception? Since it is well-intentioned, why does the other debater lie? In fact, there are two kinds of lies, one is acute and the other is chronic. Acute refers to a child who doesn't listen carefully in class. When he got home, his mother asked him that you didn't listen carefully in class. The child said, I listened carefully. This is because he doesn't want to be scolded by his mother. He also wanted to appease his mother and not make her sad, so he passed two points. A chronic lie means that you have met a mentally retarded child. Can you tell him that you are mentally retarded? Can you call him stupid? You can only say that you are smart, but when you say that he is smart, you are slowly disintegrating your credit system.
May I ask the other debater, can you say that honesty is not a person's moral capital? A philosopher once said that two things can deeply shock our hearts, one is the bright starry sky, and the other is our moral principle-honesty. It can be seen that honesty is a person's moral standard, a person's spiritual beauty, and honesty is the major premise. You can say that we are honest in holding this debate. ...
Debate skills:
In order to correctly use the method of "winning by slowness" in argumentation, we should at least pay attention to the following three points: First, as the saying goes, "haste makes waste". Immature haste often fails to achieve the goal. The same is true of argumentation, and "slowness" is also necessary under certain conditions. The method of "winning by slowness" is actually a delaying tactic in argument. Or when the time is not ripe, avoid the direct confrontation between the needle tip and the Maimang style, but delay the time to wait for the arrival of the fighter. Once the time is right, we can pre-empt and beat our opponents. For example, in the first case, when the time was not ripe, Churchill did not rush for success, but waited slowly. At the critical moment of discussing the candidate for prime minister, he expressed his opposition by silence and finally won. Second, the method of "winning by slowness" is applicable to the situation of using inferior to control superior and weak to control strong. It is a strategic means adopted by the weak to defeat the seemingly powerful side. There are strategies in slowness, and the slowness should be clever. The word "slow" here is not synonymous with slow response and inarticulate, but a magic weapon for an eloquent speaker to plan and plan. Playing dumb and stalling is actually a delaying tactic. In this difficult stalemate, Chamberlain finally lost his temper and Churchill finally won by slow tactics. Thirdly, it is a good technology to control heat with cold. In an argument, people with poor self-control get excited easily. It should be handled in slow motion and slow tone. Only when the other person is calm can he "calm down and decompress". For example, in the second case, the salesperson calmed the other party's anger and resolved the contradiction with a calm attitude and gentle tone. In short, "fast" and "slow" in the debate are also integrated. Sometimes "slow" has its beauty. Slow can stand by, make plans and control anger. Slow is a tough tactic, a protracted war and a delaying tactic in the war of words. Although it takes a long time to walk slowly and make a big circle, but
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