My husband scolds me every day when he comes home and scolds my family every time. The curse is extremely ugly. What should I do?

For this problem, first of all, you need to know what the reason is, so as to solve this problem better, otherwise it will be like a headless fly. If your husband used to scold you like that, you can't marry him, can you? The question must be what happened between you. He will do this to you only after there are some contradictions.

Sometimes a man is busy working outside and socializing, or because he is dissatisfied with his boss's work, he has no place to vent. He will call a spade a spade when you quarrel again. He thinks you make a mountain out of a molehill and make trouble without reason. That's because he is too arrogant and thinks he is great. When they quarrel, they often speak without thinking. I've heard things that are more irritating than you, which will hurt you internally ... If so, you should enlighten yourself and comfort yourself by saying "It's okay, he just blurted it out on the spur of the moment" after the quarrel.

If this kind of thing happens frequently, I lose my temper with you inexplicably. I just take it out on you. Calm down and communicate well. To tell the truth, I can't stand this quarrel. If this continues, everyone will go crazy. If you feel unforgivable, say to yourself, "Ignore him. Ignore him. He's a psycho. What he said is not normal. How can I be serious about patients? ..... "or" He has no quality, he has no quality, he has no quality, (hypnotizing himself ...) There are more people without quality in the world, and there may be many others who say so. If they are always so uncomfortable, they will break down. " "Relax, ignore him ..."

In short, when encountering such problems, you must not hold back, and you must say what you should say, otherwise you will always suffer in the end. ? You have to figure it out for yourself. When quarreling, people's blood is surging and anything can be said. Don't you think it's a loss if you blurt it out because of these things? Do you think it's worth punishing yourself for the mistakes made by others?