I always set a lot of rules for myself to abide by, and then I feel very painful. Could it be that I have obsessive-compulsive disorder?

I don’t know when it started. Did it start in elementary school? I always feel that I am restricted by my own rules. No matter what choice I make, I seem to have to think about it for a long time, and then simulate various scenarios and results. Then I have formed a set of my own rules. I do everything according to these rules, including buying things. I don’t think about it first. I think about whether I like it or not, but whether it conforms to my own rules. For example, when I bought an electric water heater before, I thought about whether it would become obsolete. I wanted to buy something more advanced so that it would be easier to replace it in the future. There was a time when I was retro and I was afraid of this. After something develops, I don’t buy much, so I buy it quickly first. But I finally found a problem. If this thing is no longer available in the future, if I buy it now and find it useful, wouldn’t it be more sad if it disappears in the future? As a result, when buying something, I think about whether it will be available in the future or whether it is a mass product. What if I buy something from a niche product and it breaks and is repaired? I also thought that if I was the only one to buy it, this thing would be very good, but if it was no longer available in the future, wouldn’t I be even more tired? If you can't bear to throw it away, it will become obsolete after use, and it may break, then it is better to forget about it and give it to others, even if you sell it to others, you may as well give it to others. What has led to the evolution is that in the future, I will choose the popular ones. For example, if there are more white cars, I like white (in fact, this color was not my favorite before). Even if it is not good, I am afraid that it will not be available in the future, so even if it is not good, I I don’t want to throw it away. I give it to others when I can. Sometimes I don’t dare to buy good ones for fear that I won’t have them anymore. Isn’t this a pity? But now that I think about it, isn’t this an escape? I think about giving it to others and give this burden to others, out of sight but out of mind. But think about it, if others use it out, they will throw it away as garbage. If I use it up or others, I will throw it away as garbage. What is the difference? Do you still want to let others collect it? (It reminds me that I loved buying anti-virus software when I was a kid, but recently I thought it was a waste of energy to keep it, and it would be a pity to throw it away. But in the end I threw it away. When I saw someone selling Xianyu or giving it away directly, maybe I was reluctant to part with it, right?) I threw it away. I also think it’s a pity. I bought a CPU and threw it away because I couldn’t return it (I think I have obsessive-compulsive disorder. If I had kept it till now, I would still be able to use Xianyu and sell it for 300 yuan, but I was upset when I saw it and threw it away). I also regretted it. long time. I always feel that if I throw it away, there will be less. I suddenly feel that this is really tiring. No matter what I choose to do, I always ask myself to analyze it first, and use my own rules to apply it, instead of starting from whether I like it or not. Isn't it uncomfortable? Now think about it, so what if I throw it away, so what if it is missing. What’s more, the thing I bought is not expensive or a collector’s item. Why do I have that kind of trouble? Obsessive-compulsive disorder? Even if the worst is expected and I throw away something very important, so what? So what, so what if one is missing? And I don’t have anything important, I just feel important (this feeling is also the feeling of obsessive-compulsive disorder), and it’s nothing in the eyes of others, just like a computer. I liked the previous win7 computer, but now the new computer I couldn't install it anymore, so I was very reluctant to let go of my previous computer, but I felt really tired. At that time, I was also afraid that if the computer broke down, what should I do if I couldn't use win7? Later, in order to change myself, I pursued new things in everything, so I felt that these were limitations for me. When I bought something, I didn’t first consider whether I liked it, but made all kinds of messy considerations. What should I do if the computer I buy now will be obsolete in the future? What will I do if the router I buy now has a different shape in the future? What will I do if I don’t need network cables in the future? It’s too tiring, so now I think that I should make what I like, and if it is eliminated in the future, I will eliminate it. If I like it, I will eliminate it. If it is eliminated, just keep buying it and use it. If it is not, just see if there are alternatives. If you don’t like it, don’t use it. Use whatever you like.

There is no need to worry about whether there will be any in the future. What if you throw it away? Anyway, if you don’t throw it away, you will sell it to others. If others use it in the end, they will throw it away. The ending is the same. Others will collect it? Maybe, but maybe there are more books and other electronic products? Probably not (there is no need to escape, as escaping will make you more tired. Do you want to give the things you like that you are reluctant to throw away to others, thinking that others will collect them? Or do you have an out-of-sight, out-of-sight mentality, thinking that there will never be one less person in the world? Isn't this more tiring? Sometimes products need to be discarded when their life cycle is over. Why don't you want to let go of them? Isn't it normal for people to keep having them and violate the rules? Right? If the old is not gone, the new will not come. This is a continuation of the new. Why resist? Of course, there is no need to pursue the new for this reason. You have to like it. The new here does not mean the new of technology, but the new of elimination. )? So if you find it troublesome, the worst thing you can do is throw it away yourself. You have to think about it: the computer has been with you for so long, and it will be willing to throw it away, but it may not want you to sell it to others for others to use, right? Maybe it's comfort? Of course, very expensive things can be sold to others to get some blood, but I generally don’t buy too expensive things. So now I just do what I like and want what I like. Of course, the premise is that it is not illegal and it is within the scope of my ability. You can be comfortable however you want, but if your comfort is based on breaking the law, that won't work, because that's not comfortable. Are you still comfortable if you break the law and are caught? Of course, the premise is good. Stop limiting yourself, eliminate it, throw it away, use it less, it’s none of my business, be more relaxed and selfish.