How to prevent my husband from cheating?

Usually men will have a corresponding expression before cheating. If you master the key characteristics of these men's infidelity, women don't have to be afraid of their husbands' infidelity. You can kill your husband's infidelity in the cradle. Its characteristics are as follows:

1. A good friend who had an affair will add fuel to the fire.

Among men who cheat, 77% have a good friend who has an affair. Hanging out with friends who steal vegetables will make men feel that this kind of derailment is normal and logical. Newman said, it's hard to forbid your husband to associate with Mr. Gourmet, but you can advise them to spend their time in places with less temptation, such as exercising and eating in restaurants, instead of going to bars or dance halls.

Another strategy: make friends with happy families who share your values and establish social circles-this will create an environment that protects marriage.

2. Emotional dissatisfaction is the first inducement.

It's time to stop talking about men stealing sex. Only 8% of men said that dissatisfaction was the main reason for their cheating, while 48% of men thought that emotional dissatisfaction was the primary reason for their cheating.

The problem is that men, unlike women, seldom talk about these feelings, so when your husband needs a little affirmation, you may not feel it. Newman said, "But you can form the habit of appreciating and caring for each other in marriage-once you do, he will usually cooperate."

Most men feel guilty when they cheat.

So, even if your husband swears that he will always be loyal, don't expect that to come true. It is very important for you two to work together to get the ideal marriage.

4. Beyond the ambiguous period

The characteristics of the crisis: we have a good impression on each other, or one or even both of us have feelings, but we just maintain the relationship of ordinary colleagues or friends. An accidental opportunity created conditions for both sides: they suddenly entered the state inadvertently and broke through the boundary in a daze. ...

Guide the maze: when the opportunity comes, women always seem hesitant, while men often seize the opportunity to take the initiative. Opportunistic men sometimes do surprise women, but more often they don't want to take any responsibility for their impulses.

A woman who appreciates a man is most likely to be the object of his infidelity.

40% of men who cheat will meet another woman at work. "Usually, he steals food from women in the office who appreciate him, respect him and praise his efforts." Newman said. "This is another important reason for' making him feel valuable at home'." Fortunately, when your husband feels too comfortable at work, there will be obvious warning signs: if he praises or mentions a female colleague too much, far more than a male colleague, it is time to exercise your sensitive tentacles.

6. There are always some clues before men cheat.

Only 6% of cheating men had sex with another woman on the day or night they met her. In fact, 73% of men cheat after knowing another woman for more than a month. This means that you can see those warning messages before he betrays you. These common signs: he is away from home more and more, he no longer pays attention to you, he travels more frequently, and he will hang up on you.

7. Get rid of poverty and get rich

Critical period characteristics: this kind of person is often not a playboy or a natural lecherous, but at least money makes his male instinct swell instantly. Their early life is likely to be darker than the average person, and their frustration in love is also bitter. They keep making troubles with their own money, just out of a kind of psychological compensation, and the number of troubles is often regarded as the standard of their "sense of accomplishment".

8. marital burnout period

Guidance maze: In fact, more extramarital affairs happen to two new acquaintances. Only when at least one party's marriage is red, the old ashes of early lovers are more likely to rekindle. In fact, marriage is for life, and the greatest strength to maintain marriage is the sense of responsibility and mutual respect and needs in life. Marriage does need feelings, but when you are in love, there are two States, just like the difference between being a music fan and being a DJ.

9. A man's cheating partner is not better than his wife.

Only 12% of the cheating men think mistress's body is more attractive than his wife's. In other words, men are unlikely to cheat in order to get better sex from more beautiful women. "In most cases, he steals food to fill the emotional emptiness."

Newman said: "He has feelings for another woman, and sex follows." If you are worried about his infidelity, you should concentrate on making your relationship more sweet and intimate, instead of just caring about whether the other person is physically satisfied and whether his sex life is fresh enough.

10. Men's frustration period

Guide maze: A seemingly strong man is actually more like a child when he is weak, while a woman is born to be a good mother. A man's emotional sublimation is sometimes completed when he is most vulnerable.