Want to "feng shui is good" at home, dad's pattern, mom's smile, most families have done it?
Empresses in the Palace, which was very popular then, revealed the influence of family on children. Zhen Xuan and Shen Meizhuang, who have a happy family relationship, show great demeanor in dealing with people and speaking spirit, but An Lingrong, whose family is unfortunate, can be said to have the meaning of pleasing and pleasing in every word and deed. This makes us have to feel: what kind of family can cultivate excellent and healthy children? Among them, there must be a father's pattern and a mother's mood.
Father's pattern and mother's smile, like guiding lights in the fog, always guide children's progress. We dare not say that such parents will cultivate excellent children, but it is very easy for such parents to cultivate excellent children. Therefore, the father's pattern and the mother's smile may endanger the child's road to success. So, on the whole, what influence does the father's pattern and mother's mood have?
1. Teach children how to look at the world. In recent years, the news of college students' suicide keeps on, which urges people to attach great importance to children's mental health problems. Life is like this. It is a mirror, reflecting all kinds of things in the world, as well as hope and pain. Just like the case of graduate students in colleges and universities a few days ago, he chose the most extreme one among too many solutions to the problem, and wrote in his will: "I wish the motherland prosperity."
The child probably experienced setbacks and difficulties, but he chose to escape. Work pressure can really push people to extremes, but open your eyes, maybe this time is the tortuous future.
2. Improving children's self-cultivation "don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself" can be regarded as a very broad realm of life. Many people will have all kinds of people in their lives. In fact, it is not difficult to find that children's self-cultivation is the best weapon to resist external injustice. Imagine if a child should respond to the humiliation of others with words instead of fighting back, but express himself with his own strength. Is this kind of child a "capable person" in other people's mouths?
It is actually very difficult to teach children kindness and never forget their original intention. When children face the stormy waves and temptations of life, people who stick to themselves are precious people. For a person who has just entered the society, there will be some contradictions in the cognition of individual behavior in the whole society. How to be kind and stick to one's sincerity is a problem worthy of consideration and serious study. However, Bian Xiao believes that those who have the courage to lend a helping hand when encountering difficulties also have a kind heart.
A happy family environment will also deeply determine people's behavior and imprint. We shouldn't stipulate that everyone is the same as ourselves, but parents can educate their children with their spacious patterns and excellent emotional culture, and let them go to the right path.