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How terrible is the viciousness of adults?

A person's viciousness can turn a person into a withered skeleton in the wild and a lonely ghost.

Last month, something happened in the village next to us, which sounds very heart-breaking. The remains of a villager’s wife were found deep in the Dabie Mountains. The identity information has been found with us. It has been almost five months since she disappeared at the beginning of the year. Her funeral was held very simply. There were no firecrackers, no drums, and no Taoist priests chanting sutras to send her to the funeral. The family of the deceased seemed to He is deliberately hiding something.

There is no airtight wall in the world. Soon I heard the truth about this tragedy from other villagers: the deceased’s surname was Li. I am particularly able to endure hardships. My husband and I have worked outside for many years and have saved hundreds of thousands of dollars through hard work. A relative in my family borrowed 200,000 yuan from them because they were in urgent need of cash, and they agreed to repay the principal and interest within three months.

When the Spring Festival was approaching, the couple wanted to ask this relative for money, but the relative neither showed up nor answered the phone. Li argued with the relative's family and was beaten severely on the spot. This was not over yet. After Li's father-in-law heard about this incident, he got angry and beat Li again when he returned home. Some villagers who witnessed it said they saw that the legs of their stools were broken. But Li's husband was indifferent and watched helplessly as his wife was beaten black and blue.

Afterwards, Li became more and more angry as she thought about it. Taking the remaining 7,000 yuan in her hand, she simply packed her luggage and ran away from home. However, the family never tried to find her from beginning to end. , her mother-in-law only found out what happened to her after receiving the news of her death from the police. On the day of the funeral, Li's sister knelt in the middle of the funeral road in white clothes. The scene was sad. She died the next day. Li's husband and father-in-law were notified in court, but the outcome is currently unknown.

It is natural to pay back debts. Even if you are really in difficulty, you should show up and leave a message to discuss with the creditor. What's more, if you are a relative of the same family, you will turn against the guest and hurt someone if you disagree. How is this? She was so despicable. She was bullied outside and was beaten by her unreasonable father-in-law when she came home. Whether it was physically or psychologically, it was not something a weak woman could bear, especially her husband's inaction. She became The last straw that broke her heart was what kind of despair and helplessness she felt. Why would someone be so vicious when facing their loved ones? I really can’t understand!

(The picture comes from the Internet and has been deleted)

Of all the people I have come into contact with, the most shameless and vicious people are my father-in-law and Mother-in-law. My father-in-law is the biological father-in-law, and my mother-in-law is the step-mother-in-law. My wife lost her mother when she was born.

When we first got along, I didn’t know about my lover’s background. I just thought it was strange that the twins had no resemblance in height and appearance with their younger brothers. Later I found out that they were more than a year apart. My lover is not tall, and has almost no clothes of his own. His jeans are rolled up around his ankles, and his shirt sleeves are too long and can only be tied into his waist. His brother retired and he is in his twenties. , I don’t care, and now I wear whatever I get, and I don’t pay attention to it at all, but I can’t stand it. At that time, almost all my salary was spent on clothes for him. Once we broke up, I asked him to give me all the things I bought. He gave it back to me, and when he saw the result, he would have to leave completely naked, and he laughed embarrassingly.

My family does not agree with our relationship, but my wife sticks to me except when she is at work. My relatives nicknamed him "Big Sticky", and he will follow me when I come home. Drink, although my parents didn't like him, they were polite to him for my sake. In fact, they were just polite, but he was quite satisfied. Once when I was angry and mentioned breaking up, he said seriously, "Don't I thought I couldn't bear to leave you, I just couldn't bear to leave your parents, they were so good to me! Alas, what a lack of love this is!

Every time I went to their house before marriage, I would never come back happy. He didn’t feel it himself, but I felt deeply sad for him. During a meal, everyone was sitting around the table, and his brother swept Looking at the table, he said he wanted to eat pig's trotters, and his father-in-law immediately said, "My love, go and buy it!" My wife was not happy, saying that there were so many dishes, and I had to eat that one. My father-in-law threw his chopsticks, and you didn’t eat it after buying it! Buy it quickly! I was shocked. I reacted and took his hand to leave. His brother ran into the yard again to vent the gas in his car. My mother-in-law remained silent from beginning to end, like an outsider, and she held me. When my lover walked out of the door, he was so angry that he almost cried, but he didn't care. Once again, the two brothers were playing around. My wife clasped his brother's hands behind his back, but they were still smiling. My mother-in-law suddenly rushed over and beat my lover. Why are you twisting his arm? What to do if it breaks! That ferocious and ferocious appearance still makes me feel chilly when I think of it.

My lover has many old scars on his face, hands, and even his buttocks, which are hard and white and raised. His brother used a pencil sharpener to mark them and poked them with a pen on his buttocks. I went there and said that my pants were soaked with blood. When their parents go to work, the two brothers eat in the cafeteria at noon, but the meal ticket is always given to his brother. Not to mention it is his responsibility to fetch food. If he accidentally offends his brother, he will be hungry at noon. My wife said that there is a little advantage, no one urges him to study, and no one scolds him every time he counts down.

Their relatives and friends all know about my lover’s good temper, and they often praise him in front of me for his ability and good temper. I sneer secretly, I don’t know if I can grow up safely if I don’t do this!

After getting married, I don’t want to go back to eat often. When we go back, we both have to help cook, so we can’t just eat as much as we want. But my father-in-law called me and scolded me, saying that if I got married, I would have no parents, and my wife would have to go back often to work for them. My mother-in-law once said to me, xx, you should pay some living expenses. The money your father gave me is not even enough to buy groceries. I really don’t know what to say, why should we spend money to buy suffering?

My wife is not afraid of hardship and is capable. We bought our own car and house early. His brother is also married. He often makes sarcastic remarks when he sees us buying cars, saying that they can’t even afford food but we buy cars and so on. , the mother-in-law is also cold, but this does not prevent them from using the car at any time, just like they should. Once, my wife was late for something, and my father-in-law got very angry. My wife was also in a bad mood that day, and she talked a few words back. As a result, my father-in-law dragged a shovel and smashed the brand new car! My lover drove the car back in despair. I looked at the front glass that was cracked into a big spider web, and I really wanted to kill them all!

When I have a child, they have never seen them for a day, let alone give me a birthday gift. From giving birth in the hospital, to confinement, to taking care of the child, my parents are doing it, but every time Every Father's Day, Mother's Day, and their parents-in-law's birthdays never leave us behind. We have to buy gifts and pay bills. At the dinner table, the two parents-in-law held his brother's child and took turns doting on it. Our child didn't even want to look at it twice. My father-in-law still scolds my lover like he scolds a child. He is also submissive. He has been used to being oppressed since he was a child and has no sense of resistance at all.

I usually feel quite happy, but once it involves his family, I will get angry. I really want to have no contact with their family. My wife rolled his eyes and said, do you think this is possible? I'm speechless, it seems impossible, but what does it matter?

I think the viciousness of adults is actually envy, jealousy and hatred caused by too refined egoism, and then they do things that go against the principles of human nature things.

A lot of this is due to people's character, they only care about themselves and don't care about others.

You may encounter such people in your work and life.

There is an old man in his fifties living in our building. I heard that he is mean and suffers a lot.

There is a small garden downstairs, and there is an equipment building next to the small garden. Who knows who hammered two nails into the wall of the building, which can be used to hang a rope to dry the quilt.

The neighbors in the building often go there to dry quilts and sheets when the weather is nice. At first, anyone who wanted to show off his or her family would tie a rope to the nail themselves. Later, for everyone's convenience, a neighbor held the rope and didn't take it back. Anyone could go and dry things, which made it much more convenient for everyone.

Later one time, the old man cut off the rope that others had tied for everyone to use, and then tied his own. This scene was seen by people sunbathing in the small garden.

The next day, a neighbor went to dry the sheets. I didn't notice that the rope had been changed. I thought it was the rope that everyone used to share, so I exposed the sheets to the rope that the old man tied. When I went to collect the sheets in the afternoon, I found that my sheets were thrown on the ground.

The neighbor who was drying the sheets thought they had been blown off by the wind. He went back and washed the sheets and took them out to dry again on the third day. When I went downstairs, I found that the rope had been smeared with oil.

The people basking in the small garden quietly told her that it was the old man who did it. Later, this matter spread among the neighbors who knew each other, and no one could figure out what the meaning of that person was. Wouldn't he be able to use it even if he applied oil?

Another time, the old man went to throw away the garbage. He took out the empty soy sauce bottle from the garbage bag in the trash can and smashed the bottle. Pick it up! I'm not afraid of you!

Because the trash can was at the door, the neighbor’s aunt happened to come in through the door, saw it, and told her daughter, who then told us. After hearing this, I felt that I should stay away from this person.

Now that the old man has moved away, I really can’t imagine why this kind of person would do such a thing that he himself is not in good luck with.

I want to talk about a former colleague.

I used to work in a state-owned enterprise. Due to the special work content, the office is far away from the entire office building and close to the production area. It is relatively quiet and not strictly managed. One day in the middle of summer, there was only me and a eldest sister in her forties in the office. We received a call from our superiors to assist outside maintenance personnel. To put it bluntly, it means asking the maintenance workers to connect power strips from the office, water pipes, etc. Because the lines and pipelines in the production area are close to our office, this happens often. For safety reasons, we need to supervise it (as for why we don’t use in-house maintenance workers, I won’t go into it here). We are basically familiar with the external maintenance personnel.

After a while, there was a knock on the door, and a strange boy came in. He was about twenty or so. He was a little timid and said, ":x, let's use electricity here." The eldest sister stood up enthusiastically and asked: "Are you new here?" The answer was "yes". The eldest sister took out a knife from the drawer and said, "The handle of the knife is broken, please weld it first. I am familiar with your heads." It is indeed common for this gang to do private work. The little brother hesitated for a moment and said, "I have to weld the pipe first. I can't delay it. XX didn't ask me to weld this either." The eldest sister's expression suddenly dropped, she threw the knife on the table, sat down and became silent. I had no choice but to smooth things over and said, "You go ahead and weld the pipe first, and come back with the welding knife." I pointed out to him the location of the socket, and he installed the plug and dragged the long cable out of the window... I sat down and concentrated on doing the forms. I vaguely felt the eldest sister standing up and turning around, but she didn't say anything. I thought the matter was over.

After a while, the little brother knocked on the door and came in. I asked: "What's wrong?" He said: "There is no power." Look again, the plug falls to the ground. He pulled the wire outside the window and plugged it in again... I lowered my head to do something, and the elder sister stood up again...

The door rang again, and the younger brother ran in with his face red and sweaty, and went straight to the socket, and the plug fell off again.

The younger brother glanced at the elder sister suspiciously, and then whispered patiently: "Why did it fall off again?" He plugged it back in, pressed it hard, and ran out. I was a little confused, but I didn’t think too deeply about it and just immersed myself in my work. The eldest sister stood up again.

The door was pushed open with a gasp, and the little brother came in sweating and panting. When he saw that the plug was on the ground, he said angrily and loudly: "If you do this again, I will tell the boss!" I understood in my heart. , the eldest sister stood up and walked around again and again... But what was strange was that the eldest sister remained silent and acted like it had nothing to do with her.

Once again, I thought things should be over at this point. Unexpectedly, as soon as the younger brother went out, the elder sister stood up and walked to the socket. I immediately stood up and walked over, took her hand that wanted to pull out the plug, held back my anger and persuaded: "Forget it, I just came out and I don't know how to do things. I don't have a wink." , Just be patient. Look, on such a hot day, not only do you have to transport tools up and down, but you also have to climb more than ten meters to do things. It’s quite boring, and you have to climb back and forth several times. What if you get a heatstroke..."? The eldest sister said in dismay. Then he reached out and said reluctantly: "I didn't unplug it before plugging it in and electrocuting him to death." Oh my God! How terrible! How much hatred and resentment? As for being so vicious? !I am secretly glad that I have never offended her, and I always get along with her calmly, neither humble nor arrogant, neither far nor near. From then on, I became more wary of her.

Tell me a true story.

In the 1980s, there was a people's teacher in our local area, and he was considered highly respected in his teaching career. His wife was an out-and-out rural woman, and over time he began to dislike her.

Later, he hooked up with a female teacher in the same school and filed for divorce from his wife. At that time, rural women were very conservative and regarded divorce as a very serious matter. Moreover, she had devoted her youth to this man, so of course she did not agree to divorce. In order to force his wife to divorce, this man began to fully display his viciousness.

He often insulted his wife with dirty words and frequently punched and kicked her. Although his wife suffered physical and mental torture every day, she refused to divorce. After a while, the man became so angry that he simply tied his wife's hands and feet with wires, and then left her in a dark and damp corner to fend for herself. He said to his wife viciously: "If you don't agree to the divorce, I won't let you go."

His wife is also a stubborn person, and she plans to fight her husband to the death. Although she was tied up with wires and huddled in a corner, suffering tremendous pain every moment, and was suffering from hunger and thirst without having to eat or drink, she was determined not to divorce him as he wished even if she died. After two days like this, the man became completely angry when he saw his wife going against him like this. He frantically picked up the kitchen knife and slashed hard at his wife, ignoring her screams and slashing hard one after another. He slashed 68 times in a row before finally stopping. By this time, his wife was already bloody and bloody, and her body, floor and walls were covered with her blood.

Later, after the incident, the court sentenced him to death immediately in accordance with the law. It is said that he was executed on our local coffin mountain. Most of the locals had never seen a prisoner executed, so they all went to the execution site to watch. According to people who went to see it at the time, there was a sea of ​​people there, and people from the whole village, men, women, old and young, were there to watch. The man was tied to a tree, and two executioners shot him several times in the head and heart, beating him to pieces.

Later, there was an endless stream of people visiting the site, until a few years later the place where the execution was carried out was trampled until there was no grass.

Adults are vicious, envy, jealousy, and not wanting others to live better than themselves, making people laugh at others.

I am eight months pregnant and my weight has soared 40 pounds. However, for the sake of the child, my husband and I feel that we are not celebrities, as long as the adults and children are healthy.

My husband and I went to take maternity photos, which were in the style of the Republic of China. We were very happy when we got the photos. They were very beautiful. My husband didn’t wait for the photos to be edited, mainly because he felt there was no need to do so. The real state was Very good, I passed it to the circle of friends.

Most people congratulated me. After all, there were still a lot of people coming to the wedding. Some people joked that I had changed a lot. They were all kind jokes and we thought it was good. Only my husband, a friend from his hometown, suddenly commented below: Your wife must weigh two hundred pounds. My husband got really angry and said how could he say that to a pregnant woman. As a result, the classmate went on to say that no wonder you were able to marry someone from Beijing because your wife is so fat and cannot get married, which made my husband so angry that he became anxious. He choked a few words. In the end, people even asked helpers to tell me that my husband was really good at life and looked down upon me. He thought he was great. .

We were really speechless and finally blocked these two people. Out of sight, out of mind.

But I guess my husband won’t be able to hang out in the university circles because they deleted his excessive remarks and took screenshots to promote my husband within the community. Why. . . .

There is no conflict of interest and no intersection, but it is really annoying to be treated like this. But then I thought about it, it’s good, at least it eliminates such people from the circle of friends. Otherwise, if there is a conflict of interest, I don’t know what such people will do.

When I was a child, my grandfather and I depended on each other. He is highly educated and has a good character. Even though he was a member of the defeated Kuomintang, because he did a lot of good things for the people in his hometown, people still respect my grandfather very much in private. But another person in the village was a teacher, and he was particularly unconvinced by my grandfather.

One day, I was playing alone in my own vegetable patch. My grandfather was far away from me. In the next vegetable patch, maybe my grandfather went to fetch water, but he was nowhere to be seen. At this moment, the teacher came. With a smile on his face, he waved me over, pointed to a bungara snake beside the ditch in the vegetable field, and asked me how many kinds of snakes there were. I knew there were two kinds. One is silver, and the other is gold, which is more beautiful. He asked you to catch the snake and use it as a necklace. He gestured. I was still young, so it might be just right for me to use the Bungara snake as a necklace, but the ditch was a bit deep. I looked at the teacher sideways, and the expression on his face was completely different from the smiling face just now. I immediately decided not to go on. He said flatteringly, "This snake is not poisonous. If you don't believe me, you can ask your grandfather when he comes back." Although I was still young, I was still very clever. I said: "I won't catch it. I don't care if it is poisonous or not. If it bites me, I will suffer in vain." He was stunned for a moment, not expecting that a little kid like me would react so quickly. He gestured with his hand on his neck, saying that it could be used as a beautiful necklace. I rolled my eyes at him and ran away. When my grandfather came, the teacher was gone.

I saw another person who was even more vicious. A little girl went to buy pesticides in order to weed the tea mountains or get rid of insects, because tea is imported. I guess the little girl’s parents are also confused. , and didn’t explain it clearly to the little girl. She told the store owner to buy something cheap and low-toxic. The owner of the pesticide store recommended paraquat first. The little girl asked the owner to take a bottle and open the lid to check the smell. At this time, an old man came and said: "This is not poisonous. It'll be fine if you drink it. If you don't believe me, just drink it and see." I said, "Why are you so bad? You let your children drink pesticides. Why don't you drink it yourself?" He laughed. I said to the owner of the pesticide store, "Don't sell it to her. If anything happens to the child, he will be the first to come to you." The little girl thought for a while and said, let her mother buy it!

The third and more vicious thing is that in the 1980s, a couple in one of our towns contracted a reservoir and the fish were raised very well. A bachelor in the village suddenly poisoned the fish with pesticides. He was found out by the police and asked why he did this. He rolled his eyes and said: "Why is he taking over all the feng shui in the village? If he makes money, I won't have any money.

A few years ago, not that long ago, I was particularly good at My brother got a good job in Beijing, but he was in charge of security work at a famous tourist attraction in Beijing. He called me to help, so I went.

Because it was for the purpose of helping. , and in order to avoid suspicion, I was sent to a remote position alone. There were no people around, so I could be lazy occasionally.

One morning when I was on guard duty, I met an American woman going for a morning jog, wearing headphones, and just wearing a pair of shorts and a tights for exercise. I admit that I am a leg person, but white people do have long legs, and she does have pretty good looks. I was single at the time, and what man doesn’t like beautiful women? I was fascinated and stared at her. She saw me looking at her and said hello as she passed by me.

This scene was seen by a colleague of mine. He came to pick up my shift and happened to bump into me.

And from then on, they started spreading gossip about me. It was also said by my colleague, and it was very outrageous. The first thing he said was that I was planning to find a foreign girlfriend again. Because I had a relationship with a Russian girlfriend before, but she wanted to return to China, and we couldn’t stand the long-distance relationship, so we broke up peacefully. This is a good thing, everyone comes over to joke and stuff. But he slowly fanned the flames, saying that the reason why I only wanted to find a foreign girlfriend was because I wanted to go abroad. He also said that I looked down on my own country and that I particularly admired foreign countries. I don’t even know where I offended him, but it spread to the top management of the company. The top executives of the security company are all police officers who wear flowers on their shoulders. This is a clear rule. When they heard this, they were fine, and they were still in Beijing. Together with me, my brother was kicked out directly.

Although my brother was finally re-hired because of his ability, it was still hard for me to forget about it. I didn’t know it until later. He did this out of jealousy. I was in two relationships at the time, and he was in his 40s and still single.

But as a side note, I did have a relationship with that American girl later on, and tried a long-distance relationship for a while, but I still couldn't make it to the end.

Let’s talk about something that happened in our county. It’s scary to think about it now! This incident also fully demonstrates the viciousness of adults, which makes people tremble and fear.

There is such a pair of siblings in our county. The elder sister is 2 years older than the younger brother. Both of them were children who suffered hardships when they were young. Their father got a serious illness when they were very young and unfortunately passed away. Their mother is still here. After his father left, he chose to leave!

Two hard-working children grew up with their grandfather. My sister has been more sensible since she was a child. Because my grandfather is old and busy with farm work, my sister has been responsible for the housework at home since she was a child.

As soon as I reached the age of studying, my elder sister dropped out of school after less than three years, because there was nothing else to do, just because the family couldn't live without her. Although my younger brother was not as good as other children, he still had a good relationship with his elder sister and other children. It can be considered a blessing to be under the care of grandpa!

In the blink of an eye, my sister is 18 years old and has become a big girl. However, long-term work makes her look like she is in her 20s. In order to improve the conditions at home, my sister later went to Wenzhou with a girl from their village to help others make shoes.

My younger brother is already in high school at this time and is in our local town. Since his sister left and his grandfather was too old to take care of him, his younger brother began to lose his temper and hung out with the gangsters in the town for a long time.

When he was in his third year of high school, his younger brother was already 18 years old. Not only did he not show any enthusiasm, he actually dropped out of school without telling his family. After dropping out of school, his younger brother spent all day hanging out in entertainment venues. Later, people in the village accidentally discovered him in an entertainment venue in the county, so they told his grandfather about it.

After my grandfather learned about it, he searched for him for a day and a night before he found him in an Internet cafe in the county. He was so angry that he slapped him twice, but what made people not only believe that he Since he fought back, he pushed the 70-year-old grandfather to the ground and ran away without looking back.

After my sister learned from Wenzhou that her brother had dropped out of school, she quit her job in the factory and hurried back.

When I got home, my grandfather was lying on the bed unable to move. He had a broken bone. If kind-hearted people hadn’t discovered that his grandfather was lying on the ground and couldn’t get up, the consequences would have been even more disastrous.

After her sister settled her grandfather, she also went to the county to look for her younger brother. Finally, she found him in a dilapidated rental house. She couldn’t believe that the person in front of her was actually her younger brother, the once well-behaved and sensible boy. My younger brother actually smokes cigarettes and has tattoos now.

The elder sister asked her younger brother to go home with her, but the younger brother said nothing. The elder sister even knelt down with her, but the younger brother remained indifferent!

The elder sister finally went back alone. Before leaving, she gave her younger brother 1,000 yuan, fearing that he would not be able to eat well or wear warm clothes.

Not long after, grandpa contracted pneumonia and went to the hospital for a check-up. It was already very serious. Grandpa refused to treat him at all, saying that he would keep the money for the children.

In less than a month, grandpa left. On the day before he left, grandpa did not wait for his brother to come back.

During the funeral, the younger brother came back, and the elder sister said to him with tears in her eyes: "Brother, can we be good? Sister, please."

The younger brother agreed verbally, but within a few days, he disappeared again!

The elder sister had no choice but to find a job as a supermarket salesperson in the local town. The younger brother came back from time to time, and every time he asked his elder sister for money!

It was a few hundred at first, and then it gradually became 1,000 or 2,000. The elder sister couldn’t afford it, and the younger brother complained. Later, my sister learned from others that her brother was addicted to gambling.

That day was the day when my sister paid her wages at the supermarket. The boss gave her 2,300 yuan. That night, my brother came back and asked my sister for it. She gave me 1,000 yuan, but my brother said it was not enough. Finally, my sister gave me 1,000 yuan. After taking 200, the younger brother still said it was not enough. In the end, he grabbed his sister's wallet and ran away. The older sister desperately held his brother's hand and said to him: "Stop gambling, don't leave, and live a good life at home with me."

No matter what my sister said or cried, my brother insisted on leaving, but my sister refused to let go. In the end, the cruel brother actually broke my sister’s finger...

Fortunately, , the village was engaged in water and electricity projects, and the uncle saw it and discovered it. He scolded his younger brother and sent his older sister to the hospital.

Later, not long after, my younger brother was imprisoned for extorting money with gangsters from the county!

The elder sister also came out of her brother’s affair and finally found a good husband in a neighboring village!

"At the beginning of human beings, nature is good", but some people's evil thoughts make people tremble!

I won’t judge my brother as a person, but based on what he did, I think she failed her grandfather’s expectations, and I feel even more sorry for my sister!

At that time, almost no one in our county knew about this incident, just because my brother had done too many evil things! Cruel and ruthless is his best portrayal!

The viciousness of adults is to be unfilial to the elderly.

My family is in a rural area, and there are many unfilial old people everywhere. Because of the high financial pressure, they do not have the energy and financial resources to take care of the elderly.

The story happened next door to my house. The old man suffered from Alzheimer's disease. At first, this family even let the old man go out for a walk, but the old man often picked up garbage and ate it without paying any attention.

Later, people in the village were talking about it, and the family locked the old man in a pig house. My mother passed by once and was shocked.

It was winter at that time, and there was no ventilation on all sides. There was no bed inside, only a quilt, and it was very dirty. The old man ate, drank, and defecated inside. The family just put down their food and left every day, without bathing or changing clothes for the old man.

In this case, the old man died soon after.

My mother said it was better to leave early, it was too painful.

What is even more shameful is that soon the son of this family got married.

The old man happily held the wedding less than a month after his death.