My mother-in-law's prose

Whenever I talk to my sisters of the same age about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I will sincerely sigh: "My mother-in-law is a good mother-in-law and is very kind to me. It is also a famous red man in the village. "

I remember that in the first year of marriage, my mother-in-law, who was nearly seventy years old, had a flower smile on her wrinkled face. My wife has five brothers and sisters. He is the third and his eldest brother is single. The second brother married and had children in Niuwangzhuang, and the elder sister married in our village. My sister-in-law and I were married to Gengjiamen in guo jia cun only four days later. It was the twelfth month of 1997. I am in the twelfth lunar month, and my sister-in-law is in the twelfth lunar month.

On New Year's Eve, excitement and warmth filled the quadrangles of farmers in mountain villages. After dinner, my husband started playing poker and upgrading the game. Three young couples are sitting around the coffee table.

My mother-in-law is wearing an apron and cleaning up pots and pans. She asked her father-in-law to pour us tea and get melon seeds. In the afternoon of the first day of junior high school, they left the quiet and peaceful yard and the elderly in-laws one by one because they were going back to their parents' home the next day. Lots of work. My mother-in-law does it alone.

1998 Early winter, the weather was not too cold. My mother-in-law heard that I was pregnant for a month or two. She made a new cotton-padded jacket and trousers, a pair of corduroy cotton shoes with holes. Coming out of the mountains, my brother-in-law's motorcycle bumped for 30 miles and was delivered to our residence in the bad weather of misty fog, drizzle and light snow.

I looked at rustic cotton-padded clothes and rustic cotton-padded shoes, and my feeling of being out of place was covered up by my mother-in-law's mud spots, messy gray hair and kind smile. I really don't want to wear it, or even like it. My mother-in-law insisted that I try it on to see if it fits. "A woman can't break her life" and her husband's persuasion, try it!

I put on a fancy "peasant woman's dress", that is, the waist is very loose and keeps falling. My mother-in-law took out a long and wide belt sewn with red cloth from her luggage. She said half enjoined and half gently, "Put it on and don't take it off." Women are most afraid of cold when they are pregnant, and they will not gain weight during the New Year. "I put on cotton shoes again, which are very suitable and comfortable. I feel that the shoes look very delicate.

My mother-in-law only stayed with us for three days and then hurried back to the mountains, because she was the backbone of the family. When she left, she told me not to do this or that, and said to my wife, "Do more housework during the New Year and send her home early to avoid being crowded by car at the end of the year."

I didn't feel cold at all that winter. Even in the heavy wind and snow, my mother-in-law's caring cotton trousers and meticulous consideration have resisted all the cold.

(2) Under the moon

After the twentieth day of the twelfth lunar month, I went back to my mother-in-law's house and stayed until the first month.

In that more than a month, my mother-in-law's thin body was busy and swayed back and forth. Her white hair, her wrinkles, the kindness of witnesses, her diligence and simplicity, and her maternal brilliance lit up the house, the front yard and the backyard, and the kitchen beside the pot.

I can't forget that it is my mother-in-law who cooks and wakes me up every morning. I can't forget that every time I wash clothes, my mother-in-law will draw water from the well in the backyard. When she mentioned the rice house, she poured it into the cauldron to heat it, and then scooped it into the basin. I can't forget it. Sometimes go out to play. Whether I come back at noon or in the afternoon, my mother-in-law will cook for me to eat together.

I think getting along with my mother-in-law is as happy, satisfied, warm and peaceful as getting along with my mother-in-law.

1999 In May, my daughter was born. After leaving the hospital, I went back to my mother-in-law's house for confinement. This time, I lived for more than three months. I respect my mother-in-law more. We are not only as harmonious as mother and daughter, but also as silent as friends sometimes.

Mother-in-law has no preference for boys. Her love for her granddaughter is sincere from the heart. She holds her daughter in her arms to coax her daughter into hurting her daughter. This is a kind of treasure, a kind of love and a kind of care. This is the happiness of family life on earth!

The next month, my mother-in-law cooked me three meals a day in different ways. She can't use gas, so she is busy using a small pot in the dining room. She knew that I was used to staying in the city and was afraid that I would get dirty, so she deliberately made the food clean.

When I first left the hospital, my mother followed me to my mother-in-law's house. My mother-in-law will wash my clothes and change my daughter's diaper. Mother-in-law said nothing to let my mother move. When they argued, I heard her say, "My daughter-in-law and granddaughter should be taken care of by me! You are a guest, and we are far away. It's not easy for you to come, how can you be affected! " Seeing them talking and laughing reminds me of the Henan opera Chaoyanggou. When their mother left, they shook hands and said goodbye. My mother-in-law said sincerely, "Sister-in-law, don't worry, your daughter is my daughter, too. I won't let her be wronged." Actually, my mother is ten years younger than her mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law is famous for being good at embroidery. She knows how to cut and sew. I can't put down the quilts, cotton-padded clothes, vests, Chinese-style chest covers and cat-head shoes I made for my daughter, and they are full of folk customs. She can also play all kinds of buttons, such as walnut buttons, pipa buttons, butterfly buttons and phoenix buttons, which are really vivid! Whoever marries a daughter-in-law or a daughter will ask her to help make quilts and clothes. ...

(3) A reasonable person

My mother-in-law, with a good memory and good temper, is second to none in the village. She can remember exactly when the wedding is, the wedding and the child's birthday. Some people don't remember what happened at home, so they ask my mother-in-law. Neighbors, aunts, older girls, and young wives all love to come to talk to her or ask questions.

She also knows how to recite everything. No matter whether she buys or sells, she can mix tofu with shallots-obviously. She is also a good farmer. She works in the fields whether in spring ploughing or summer sowing.

I like the food cooked by my mother-in-law. Her steamed bread is white and strong, as well as noodles, leaves, jiaozi and various cakes. Everything tastes good and looks good. The soup and porridge she cooked are also delicious. I get fat every time I live in my mother-in-law's house.

What impressed me most was that in the spring of 2002, my husband and I had a conflict and lost our temper. I didn't run back to my parents' house with my daughter under three years old. It was my mother-in-law who took care of the children and trained her husband to pick me up. At that time, I couldn't resist the persuasion of my parents, brothers and sisters, so I had to follow my husband back to my mother-in-law's house to pick up the children.

I will never forget what my mother-in-law said to me: "Xiaoxiang, don't be angry. It was all his fault. You are educated and don't share his knowledge. " You don't look at me. For the sake of the child, leave him alone. A child without a mother is the most pitiful. No matter how good others are, they can't replace their own mothers. "My mother-in-law continued with a big smile:" If my son can't pick you up, I won't recognize him! Your father and I went to your mother's house just to feel your Jining and make amends to your parents, and also to take you back. "

I don't know if it's because I miss my children, tears are spinning in my eyes, and I want to endure and drip. I can't be angry with my husband in the face of my mother-in-law's heartfelt reasonable words.

(4) The poor bear the wind

Also in the autumn of 2002, my husband was laid off due to the bankruptcy of the factory, and I didn't have a formal job with my little daughter. My husband loves a job with a bad face. He doesn't want to do it, and he doesn't want me to show my face and start a career. We moved from the dormitory in the factory to rent a house elsewhere. I set up a stall at that time, and my husband switched to decoration.

Later, my mother-in-law knew about it. She wants to persuade us to go back to our hometown. Maybe she figured we didn't want to go back. She just said, "There is no flaming mountain that we can't cross." She sold part of the autumn harvest grain and collected part of the money to solve the current problem of eating for us first. Since then, our rice and noodles, as well as noodles, have been supplied by our mother-in-law.

The palm of your hand is covered with meat. It doesn't hurt if your finger is broken! In 2004, my uncle bought a house, in 2005, my sister built a house, and in 2006, my brother-in-law also built a house. In order to save money, or try to save money, twenty or thirty workers eat and drink, all of which are my 70-year-old mother-in-law cooking steamed bread in a big pot and my 70-year-old father-in-law cooking.

As the saying goes, no matter what happens in two lifetimes, hey! They are all her own children, and she hopes the children are all well. In my impression, my mother-in-law never stopped, because her children and grandchildren really broke her heart.

My mother-in-law has a slight illness, but she never wants to trouble her children. She can always bear not to let us know, for fear that we will spend money to care about her and can't work with peace of mind.

In the spring of 2008, my mother-in-law said that her leg hurt a little, but she didn't want to go to the hospital. But in winter, the mother-in-law was in great pain and could not help but ask her sons to go to the hospital for examination. The test result is hyperosteogeny. The doctor said, "This is caused by fatigue, cold and old age. It is not a big problem to strengthen nutrition and maintenance in the future. "

How lucky! I really wish my mother-in-law a long and healthy life in my heart!

(5) My mother-in-law is also a strong woman.

In fact, I respect my mother-in-law's strong outlook on life, and her calm attitude towards life difficulties has to be admired.

Before liberation, my mother-in-law used to be a good family who grew up in Jinan. She also went to a private school for several years and learned a lot of words. Later, due to the war, she returned to the rural areas of the Yellow River and Hebei Province with her parents. Unfortunately, when she was only 23 years old, her parents died one after another, and she had no brothers or sisters. It's hard to imagine how she survived the pain. Then she went through a failed marriage. She picked up a particularly overbearing mother-in-law, forcibly separated them, leaving my mother-in-law alone, and their mother and son went to Qiannan.

My mother-in-law 1962 came to guo jia cun, Ganggou Town, Licheng County, and married my father-in-law. Since then, I have a stable home, five children and started my life in the mountains.

It is conceivable that in the past, when she was short of clothes and food, her mother-in-law experienced many ups and downs, many hardships and hardships, and countless hardships and tiredness!

It is said that the daughter-in-law who has been a mother-in-law for many years is finally in the same boat. My mother-in-law has three daughters-in-law, but she is very modest and has never put on the airs of her mother-in-law. She never complained about gnashing her teeth and never showed her talent. She always has a happy face and a clean figure.

Neighbors, relatives and friends all envy my mother-in-law's family harmony, filial piety to her daughter-in-law, and lively and lovely grandchildren. I think this is all because my mother-in-law is open and kind to people.

I have been with my mother-in-law for more than ten years, enjoying her little love. I am impressed by her behavior, and I am willing to inherit her tough and open-minded character.

Now that I have learned how to make cotton-padded clothes and manage the family, I want to be filial. It's time for mother-in-law to enjoy her old age. I hope she will be happy in her later years, and I hope she will live a long life!