Are there standards for maturity and childishness? What are the standards? How about being mature? Is it better to be childish?
A person with rich life experience is usually a person with mature personality. Such people are confident in themselves in everything they do, believe in their own abilities and ideas, and are good at using their own knowledge and learning. At work, he can face everything calmly, and he will not give up on himself no matter how big a setback he encounters; he values his relationships with his colleagues. He has his own unique insights and pursues a rational, permanent, and practical life principle, rather than a life principle formed by imagination, prejudice, and superstition. This test has 10 questions. There are options after the questions. Please choose the answer that best suits you. Test starts 1 The degree to which others like me is: A Some people like me very much, others don’t like me at all B Most people like me a little, but don’t consider me their confidant C No one likes me D Most people They all like me to a certain extent E I don’t understand other people’s opinions 2 When interacting with others, I usually: A like to deliberately draw other people’s attention to me B want others to pay attention to me, but don’t want to show it obviously C I like people to pay attention to me, but I don’t deliberately pursue it D I don’t like people to pay attention to me E I never care about attracting attention 3 I think the correct attitude towards the social living environment is: A Adapt yourself to the social life around you Environment B. Try to make use of the favorable factors in the living environment to develop yourself. C. Transform the bad factors in the living environment to make the living environment better. D. When encountering a bad social living environment, you must make up your mind to get out of this environment and try to transfer to another place. Go to E No matter what the living environment is, I will work hard and be worthy of my life. 4 When I encounter difficulties at work or study, I often: A Ask anyone who knows more than me B Ask only my close friends Ask for helpC I always try my best to solve the problem independently, but if it doesn't work, I ask for help from others. D I bite the bullet and don't ask for help from others. E I don't find anyone who can ask for help. 5 If I lose in the game , my usual approach is: A. Find out the reasons for losing, improve skills, and try to win next time. B. Express admiration for the winning party. C. Think that the other party is nothing special. I am better than the other party in other aspects. D. Think that winning or losing is very important. It's a normal thing, and I forget it soon. E thinks that the other party won this time because of good luck. If I were lucky, I would beat the other party. 6 Under normal circumstances, people who have different opinions from me are: A. Weird ideas, A person who is difficult to understand B A person who has little cultural knowledge C A person who has considerable reasons to insist on his own opinion D A person whose life experience is different from mine E A person who has more literacy than me. 7 My opinion on fortune telling through palm reading and horoscope reading is: A I find that fortune telling can understand the past and future and is very accurate B Most fortune tellers are liars C I don’t know whether fortune telling is nonsense or does it have truth D I don’t I believe that fortune telling can predict a person's past and future. E Although I know fortune telling is superstitious, I still give it a try from time to time. 8 When I encounter major setbacks in life, I will feel: A. I am done with fortune telling in this life. B. Maybe I can succeed in other areas. , compensate for it C Not willing to fail, determined to realize my wishes at any cost D It’s not a big deal, I can adjust my plans or goals E I shouldn’t have such high expectations or ambitions 9 I treat The attitude towards arguing is: A. Always ready for fierce arguments. B. Only arguing about issues that interest me. C. I rarely argue with others. I like to independently think about the pros and cons of various opinions. D. I don’t like arguments and try to avoid them. E. It doesn’t matter 10 When I am accused by others, my usual reaction is: A. Analyze why others accuse me and where I am wrong. B. Remain silent, don't care, put all the accusations behind me. C. Accuse him too. D. Try to follow the example of others. Meaning to do E If I think I am right, I will defend myself. Scoring criteria 10. Choice score question number A B C D E +2-3＋8-22-20 +8＋3＋430＋4+8 -4＋64＋80＋4-2 -45＋80-3＋4-46 -3-2＋8＋407-5 +3 -2+1008-4+100 +5-39-4+80-2+318-3-44 Add up the scores for each question and compare them with the subsequent test results. Test results below 0: You are still very naive and immature in dealing with social life issues. You like to act solely on personal intuition and temporary emotions, and are impulsive and ignorant of the general situation, or you may go to the other extreme, that is, shrinking from things, not daring to show up, being lonely and having low self-esteem. You can easily offend others and be deceived by others. You will encounter obstacles in social life and cannot realize your ideals and goals. This is very incompatible with the requirements of modern social life. You must try to mature yourself as soon as possible. 0~30 points: Your personality is not mature enough. You are not good at dealing with various problems and contradictions in social life, you are not good at observing various factors that affect problems, you are not able to accurately foresee the results of your actions, and you are not able to adapt well to complex social life. 31-60 points: Your personality maturity is at a medium level.
You have a better grasp of some things in life and handle them more appropriately, but you are not sure about other things, so you are at a loss or handle them improperly. Your personality is dual in nature: one half is mature, the other half is naive, and you still need to slowly experience it in social life. 60 points or above: You are a very mature and experienced person. Generally speaking, people with mature personalities are comfortable in society and deal with things calmly. They know how to properly handle various personal problems. They can accurately judge which way to deal with a problem is effective and which way will cause adverse consequences, so as to choose the best solution. Such people often become the objects of advice and imitation by others. Psychological Analysis Most people with mature personalities have rich experiences and a lot of failed and successful experiences for reference.
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