My greatest achievement in HR is to find myself a husband.
Text/Li Muzi Yuesheng? 2017.10.10
I am a girl from the countryside. Like most ordinary girls, I have experienced a hard-working high school life, which is beautiful and fulfilling. During my college days, I was busy at work...but luckily, I met the man during my work, and then got married and started a life for two people. What I want to share with you now is the love story between Mr. Li and I...
My major in university is human resource management. After graduation, I worked as HR in a small company, mainly responsible for the company's daily recruitment, Handling personnel entry and exit procedures, etc., and Mr. Li was one of the people I recruited...
I still remember the first time I met Mr. Li. That day was also very interesting. It happened to be 5 On March 20th (actually, the first time I met Mr. Li was at the job recruitment market, but that day my aunt came with a stomachache and always went to the bathroom. The recruitment that day basically asked the interviewers to leave a copy. I didn't know whether the person was round or flat. After the recruitment was over, I carefully screened each resume and then called to inform them to come to the company for an interview. Maybe God thought I was in a bad state that day. Such a special day has been arranged for me). I just arrived at the company that morning, and before I could sit down and take a sip of water, a person came over and said that he was a new employee from the technical department and that he was here to go through the on-boarding procedures. At that time, I remember Mr. Li was tall and thin, with dark skin, but he had a nice and sunny smile... At that time, I just helped him go through the entry procedures according to the company's procedures. During the period, we had a brief chat, and I knew that we were very good. Coincidentally, we are from the same county, and then we added WeChat to each other to facilitate work communication, and then we basically had nothing to do with each other. I am still the little HR who is painfully and happily busy at work...
The story The turning point came on the Mid-Autumn Festival... I finished college in Hangzhou, and my family all worked in Hangzhou, so I was reunited with my family during the Mid-Autumn Festival, while Mr. Li was alone in Hangzhou, maybe because The atmosphere of the Mid-Autumn Festival was infected, or maybe it was because I felt that we were from the same county. Mr. Li sent me WeChat that afternoon (this was the first time we chatted after adding WeChat), greeted each other, and then there was nothing. After chatting for a while, Mr. Li suddenly asked, "Are you single now?" He replied "Yes" without thinking much at the time... It took a long time before he replied to the message. It was a long text. After reading it, I was a little confused afterwards, and Mr. Li actually confessed to me! ! My first reaction at the time was to reply "Are you drunk?" Haha, I feel funny even thinking about it. Although I didn't agree immediately, I didn't reject it immediately. I just said that we should get in touch and understand each other first, and then confirm...
Ever since Mr. Li confessed, I have an indescribable feeling when we meet in the company. Usually careless, I would unconsciously restrain myself, and then pay attention to my words, deeds, and clothes... Every morning when he went to work, Mr. Li would come up to me and scratch his head, smile and ask me if I wanted to have dinner with him at noon, and then I would shake my head and refuse. (because I bring my own meals to the company every day). When I get home from get off work, Mr. Li's message will always be sent on time "You're home safely"... Then we start chatting like this. We talk about many topics, such as each other's high school life, interesting things about college life, trivial matters at work, etc. Wait... On weekends, Mr. Li will ask me to go out for a walk and ask me to be his guide (I have lived in Hangzhou for a long time, so I am familiar with where to find fun and delicious food). I remember when I went out to play with Mr. Li for the first time, I took him for a long time because I misremembered the route. The weather was still very hot at that time, and Mr. Li sweated a lot. I felt very embarrassed at the time. I'm very sorry, Mr. Li kept comforting me and said it was okay... I feel a little embarrassed now thinking about it!
If I only had some good impressions of Mr. Li at that time, what prompted me to truly accept him was when I was transferred and adapted to the new position. I was transferred from my original HR position to the Finance Department as a financial assistant because I had no experience in related positions before, and the previous financial assistant left in a hurry, and there was basically no work handover. Therefore, in that month, in order to familiarize myself with the work content as soon as possible, To complete the work assigned by the leader, I worked overtime until very late almost every day. At that time, no matter it was windy or rainy, Mr. Li would deliver dinner on time every day, and then wait for me to get off work... At that time, I felt warm in my heart, someone is accompanying me and thinking about you. It felt so good... and then we naturally got together.
After being together, the two people will talk about more topics, and sometimes they will imagine their future life. My mother knew that I was in love and asked a lot about Mr. Li. I told her everything in detail and told her that Mr. Li might be my marriage partner. My mother said she would consider it. One day later, my mother suddenly told me that she disagreed (my mother had always wanted me to find a local partner in Hangzhou). The main reason was that she was worried that I would not live well in the future.
I retorted at the time, "There is still a probation period for new employees. You didn't even meet them in person. You just gave them a pass based on some information. It's a bit too arbitrary! When there is a suitable time one day, I will bring you a pass." He comes to meet you, and then you make a decision..." Because of this matter, my mother and I had a bit of a quarrel. Although I knew she was doing it for my own good, I didn't want my marriage to be decided by my parents... …
The right time always appears so inadvertently. Mr. Li said that his sister-in-law, who lives in Jiangsu, has a one-month-old baby. He went to visit her on the weekend and asked me if I wanted to go. She just pretended to be visiting Suzhou. I felt embarrassed, so I refused...but Mr. Li kept saying, "Go, go, just go and have fun." Finally, because of my soft ears, I agreed. When I arrived in Suzhou, I realized that I had been deceived. I wanted to meet not only his sister-in-law, but also his family. It was so embarrassing at the time! Fortunately, I am usually calm enough and used my friendly smile to greet everyone one by one... In this way, I met Mr. Li's family in a daze. Of course, for an outstanding person like me, my parents-in-law, grandmother, and aunt will be very satisfied with me in the future. After returning from Suzhou, I began to look for a suitable day to introduce Mr. Li to my family. It happened to be that weekend, and my brother, sister-in-law, younger brother, and sister-in-law were all at home, so we decided on that day. After all, ugly daughters-in-law always have to meet their parents-in-law. Mr. Li bought a lot of things and came to my house. He smiled and greeted my family one by one. During the meal, my mother kept asking questions, wanting to know everything about Mr. Li’s eighteen generations of ancestors. After that, my family had a good impression of Mr. Li, so they acquiesced in our affairs...
The most romantic thing Mr. Li ever did was to propose. On the night of the company's annual meeting, Mr. Li and I were the hosts. When the annual meeting was about to end, Mr. Li suddenly got down on one knee and proposed to me in front of all his colleagues and leaders. At that moment, I gained the envy of all the female colleagues in the room; at that moment, I became the happiest person...
On this May Day, we walked into the marriage hall hand in hand, and *** Architecture belongs to our happy life. Sometimes when chatting with my best friends, I would make fun of these things and always say, "My greatest achievement as an HR person is that I got myself a husband." Now, we are sweetly looking forward to the arrival of a little life together...
This is the love story between Mr. Li and me. There is no fanfare, no eternal vows, just plain firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea... Although we Like many lovers, there are disputes and cold wars, but we still believe that the other is the right person.
Therefore, when you meet the right person at the right time, you must hold the other person's hand firmly and don't miss your destiny easily!