I have social phobia and my life is a mess. Is this fate?

People are born with their own four pillars and eight characters, which is innate. After the journey the day after tomorrow. Joy, joy, worry and sadness produced by the coordination of the two. It's fate. Doesn't mean that if you don't believe in fate, the event won't happen! Otherwise, China's metaphysics can last forever! But you should believe in yourself.

This year is not your birth year, as long as there is a glimmer of hope and a glimmer of dawn, you can always get through it! It's like a small mud pit on the road of life. As long as you pass, you can pass. You still have a long way to go, and there is still a glimmer of light, depending on whether you have seen it or not.

I hope my words can help you.