How about a funeral for a happy event?
How about a funeral for a happy event? The happy event is something that everyone is very happy about, but everyone should be particularly afraid that their wedding day will meet with funeral. After all, the funeral is a matter of burying si people. It is particularly unlucky to meet a funeral when it is a happy event. Let's take a look at how happy events and funerals collide and related information.
How did the wedding meet with the funeral? 1 Everyone is still afraid to meet a wedding and a funeral. If you know there will be a funeral in advance, you must change the date to welcome the wedding. Sometimes you really meet an unprepared undertaker, and there is nothing you can do. Of course, there is a saying that "everything goes well when you go out for a funeral", and that is.
If unlucky things are robbed by others, they will be safe and auspicious, some will be red and some will be white. This is normal. Just like some people in the world are born today and some people die today. Getting married is a good day for yourself, and bad things have been robbed, which proves that that day is a real auspicious day. May you live happily together forever.
What should I pay attention to when I get married?
Birth, aging, illness and death are the laws of the universe, and everyone has such a day. Go around if you can, go around if you can't, and go on if you can't. Don't care too much about the scenery outside, don't take it to heart, don't think about it, and it will naturally disappear.
The way to deal with funeral in ancient marriage.
1. Generally, at a wedding, the funeral party will beat gongs and drums, so you will hear the procession when you are far away. At this time, the wedding team will choose to change the route and leave. After all, all roads lead to Rome. As long as it can arrive more comfortably and smoothly, it doesn't matter much even if it is far away.
2. If the coffin is unfortunately seen, then the wedding team can't escape and can't go back. In ancient times, it was also a taboo for wedding teams to turn around. In everyone's mind, it's bad luck to see a coffin, so we have to stop at the side of the road first, let the funeral procession pass through the middle of the road and spread a piece of red cloth.
It means that the two sides are irrelevant. When the coffin passes by the sedan chair, the bride will cry loudly, which can drive away bad luck. Some places will think that seeing a coffin will also bring good luck and wealth. After the coffin passes through the sedan chair, it will leave some money and get rid of bad luck.
What about the collision between a happy event and a funeral? Wedding, funeral and marriage means that the old people in the family don't get old until they are over 80 years old. What if their wedding day meets the wedding funeral of the old people? If the old people in the family leave, the grandchildren should be filial for three years. Soon after the old man leaves, if the younger generation holds a wedding, there will be a feeling of disrespect for the deceased. Usually you get married in 100 days, that is, 3 months later. If you don't get married for three months, it will be three years later.
When the old man died, he paid attention to marriage.
1, no couplets, blessings, happy words.
Don't post couplets, blessings, happy words, etc. So that the family can maintain a sad and solemn scene. But now, in order to add some festive atmosphere, people don't paste red couplets, blessings, happy words and so on. But they put them on yellow paper. One is to show Chinese New Year, and the other is to show that family members are being filial and solemn.
2. Reject everything related to red.
For example, don't hang red lanterns, wear red clothes and light red candles.
3. Ancestor sticker
Ancestor paste, Oracle Bone Inscriptions code should be written in black on yellow paper, not red paper, let alone gold paper.
4. Standing board position
If only one parent dies, in addition to writing ancestor worship stickers, ancestor worship stickers should also set up memorial tablets for the elderly who go to the company. Parents are dead, just stick the ancestral stickers.
Don't go out to pay New Year greetings for three years.
After the death of the old man, children are not allowed to go out to pay New Year greetings for three years. It is unlucky to pay special attention to filial piety when paying New Year greetings to others.
Step 6 go to the grave
Every year on the third day of the lunar new year, I will go to the grave and burn three pieces of paper for the elderly. Some people pay attention to three or four years. In other words, burn it for three years, burn it for another year, and then you don't have to burn three papers a year.
What are the taboos after the death of the old man's grandson?
There are no taboos about the death of the elderly, but the first seven items are the most important in the death of the elderly. "The first seven days" refers to the seventh day after death. Different places have different "first seven" customs. It is generally believed that the four-soul woman will go home on the seventh day, and the family should prepare a meal for her before she comes back, and then she must avoid it. The best way is to sleep.
Hide in bed when you can't sleep; If the soul-thinking woman sees her family, it will make him miss and affect his reincarnation. It is also said that the soul Po will wander around with the front of the "first seven". When he comes home on the day of the "first seven", his family will burn a ladder-like thing at home and let the soul Po follow this "ladder" to heaven.
How did the wedding meet with the funeral? 3. The consequences of the collision of red and white events.
1, the result of the collision between the red incident and the white incident is very unlucky, because we in China have always liked perfection, because perfection is a happy thing. If there is something white when there is a happy event, it is very unlucky for everyone. On the contrary, if there is a happy event when doing white things, it will be considered as disrespect for the deceased.
2. Of course, as for the consequences of the conflict between the Red Incident and the White Incident, generally speaking, there is nothing particularly unfavorable. Just because China people's taboos since ancient times have a bad meaning, it has caused a kind of pressure in people's hearts. After all, the contrast between the red incident and the white incident is very obvious and has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
One is a happy event and the other is a funeral. Whether the happy event is disturbed by the funeral or the funeral is disturbed by the happy event, it is a hurdle that people can't get through and a worry in their hearts.
Of course, in China, since ancient times, the dead have always been the most important. As we all know, if someone in your family dies, you can't get married for three years, which is disrespectful to the deceased. Therefore, when a happy event collides with a funeral, the happy event should make way. The above is the introduction of the consequences of the red and white incident, hoping to help everyone.
Second, what should I do if I have a wedding at home and a funeral for my neighbor?
1. Generally speaking, many people are still afraid of happy events and funerals. If you know in advance that this kind of thing will happen, you can go to see the bride for an hour or a day instead. If you encounter it without preparation, then you can make some explanations, such as your own fortune or official luck, to comfort yourself.
There is also a folk saying that everything can go smoothly when going out for a funeral, which means that if these unlucky things are occupied by others, then you will be safe.
3, because no matter what you do, you pay attention to auspicious days. People are born and people die every day. Getting married is your own good day, and then the bad things belong to others, then this day is the real good day.