Are women serious? Can't words and deeds deceive people? What details can be seen?

In people's traditional ideas, it seems that men are always dominant in interpersonal relationships. For example, in ancient times, men had three wives and four concubines, so love could not be in love. Women must strive to win men's attention and recognition and please them. Men. But modern society is different. Some women who love to play, some women who are greedy for money, use their feelings to get what they want and hurt men, which is more cruel than anyone else. Therefore, many men with certain life experience are particularly afraid of meeting such unscrupulous women if they want to get married and have children and find a woman to live a stable life. It is said that women are the feng shui of a family, and good women thrive for three generations. It is important to marry a good wife and mother. So, how to judge whether a woman is serious in communication or love? In fact, there is no need to be tempted. If a woman is not serious, everything she says and does will tell you that these body languages can't deceive people. Pay attention.

There is such an idiom in the book: See Wei Zhi. It means that when you see the first sign of a thing, you can know its essence and development trend This is like seeing the big from the small and seeing the big from the small. In a relationship, it is actually easy to understand, and the most obvious thing is to see if a woman knows how to keep her distance when she is in contact with the opposite sex. As the saying goes, opposites attract. It is difficult for two people of different sexes to have pure friendship, especially when two people get along alone, and the ambiguous atmosphere prevails. At this time, if a woman likes to have physical contact with other members of the opposite sex, or another man touches her head or her arm, she doesn't care that she likes to hit the man in front of her with a stick. Then there is no doubt that this is a dishonest woman. In her eyes, as long as the other person is a man of the opposite sex, she has the desire to conquer the other person and want him to kneel under her pomegranate skirt. When a man looks for a woman, he must look for a woman who knows how to keep his distance when interacting with the opposite sex.

Only when you know how to keep your distance can you not meet the opposite sex casually, and you are a really serious and quiet woman. Whether accepting gifts from men or accepting red envelopes casually, Qiu, who lives in a TV series family, relied on his mother and suffered a lot from childhood, but his father suddenly appeared after graduation. Anyway, I will make it up to her, continue to talk about money, buy her a car and buy a house for 3 million. Although she is short of money, Qiu doesn't accept any of them. When she learned that her father was going to donate 3 million yuan to her half-sister with leukemia, she refused without thinking. Not greedy for money is the backbone of a person living in this world, just like Qiu later donated bone marrow for free, because not everything can be traded. The same is true of interpersonal relationships. Women have no backbone and will be despised by others. A serious girl with short hands and soft lips will not accept gifts and red envelopes from men because she knows there must be something else on her. If you don't take advantage of others.

You always have the right to refuse. Once you use others, it's hard to say when you can give yourself to another person. The world is very real, especially the reality of men. No one will be nice to you for no reason. What are you doing? This could be a trap. Smart and serious girls must have understood this very early. Do you admire money very much and like to show off your wealth in your circle of friends? There is a saying in the book: marriage that only considers money is absurd. Marriage considering money is foolish. If you don't talk about money before marriage, you will probably be embarrassed after marriage. Good feelings must be built on a certain material basis. Therefore, it is understandable to know each other's ability, knowledge, personality and family background before falling in love. But if a woman looks at money in everything, she can't wait to rush to the rich side immediately, and then show off her wealth in the circle of friends with her luxury car villa. It's hard to say how many such people there are. With a strong heart, it is hard to say how sincere she can be. See if a woman is decent.

It's simple. Go to her circle of friends to see if she is sharing more beautiful life in her circle of friends or showing off more wealth. Women who worship money should not use their true feelings, let alone marry an ordinary person casually. They may have fun and find a rich second generation or a rich old man. You may also be hurt by each other's self-esteem. Therefore, if you meet a woman who loves to show off her wealth in a circle of friends, don't think much, just stay away. Does he have his own career and independent financial spirit? An Jie in his father's love is fifty or sixty years old, and his eyes are still clear. She said it was her husband Jiang Defu. Her tolerant and stable life keeps her young. Actually, all the friends who have watched TV know that Anjie's life is enviable, because she is not only loved by Jiang Defu, but also keeps her dignity and career. Although she has five or six children, she never wants to be the happiness of a family. As soon as she settled down on a remote island, she asked her husband to arrange a job for herself, and then she did it on the island. Tenure teacher.