My son-in-law drinks a bottle of beer every night. As a mother-in-law, I don't like it. Can you stop it?

Unlike drinking in the morning and drinking a bottle of beer at night. I don't understand why I don't like being a mother-in-law. Moreover, a son-in-law is different from a son. Even some small things in life that a mother-in-law doesn't like can't be stopped by herself. You can communicate with your daughter and solve it privately. If your daughter doesn't say anything, her mother-in-law had better leave these little things alone.

As an elder, as long as it is not a matter of right and wrong, wise choices usually do not intervene in the marriage life of children. After all, everyone's living habits, hobbies and other aspects are different, and personal preferences and dislikes cannot be imposed on others. If you are narrow-minded as an elder, you can't tolerate your son-in-law drinking a bottle of beer at night. Just saying this idea reveals that your mother-in-law is too lenient. Is there any reason not to like it?

If you really can't stand giving your son-in-law a bottle of beer every night, then out of sight, out of mind and living separately, so that everyone will feel relaxed and no one will be "wronged". After all, son-in-law and mother-in-law have their own living habits, and there is a "generation gap" between the two generations. As a mother-in-law, if even her son-in-law drinks a bottle of beer at night, he doesn't like it. Then, there may be many people who don't like the living habits of son-in-law. If you let your mother-in-law endure for a long time and feel uncomfortable in life, you will "wronged" yourself; If the mother-in-law wants to "mold" her son-in-law into someone she likes, there will be family conflicts.

Whether you are a mother-in-law or a mother-in-law, don't care too much about young people, especially some trivial things in life.

This is all your son-in-law's possessions. You have to take care of it. You said your son-in-law was exhausted from a day's work, and he didn't even have this freedom when he got home. What does this home mean to him?

In short, don't worry about the happiness of your daughter's life, don't worry about the happiness of your daughter's life.

The best way for home and everything to flourish is to choose mutual tolerance. If everyone has a different outlook on life and can't tolerate such a trivial matter, the best way is to live separately and don't impose your personal preferences on others, which is much better than freezing family relations in the future. What do you think of this?