Solutions to husband and wife's mutual restraint

1, put yourself in the other person's shoes when a quarrel is about to happen. You should think about why the other person is unhappy. When the war is about to burn, you might as well stay away and wait for the other party to calm down, then find out the reason and exchange views to avoid quarreling. 2. When the quarrel between husband and wife is inevitable, don't expose each other, talk about the matter, don't prove that you are right by exposing each other's old stories, or in order to make each other yield. Otherwise, it will intensify contradictions, deepen differences and hurt feelings. Don't compare other people's husband and wife quarrels, and don't compare other people's husbands or wives with each other. In that way, it won't solve any problems, but it will hurt each other's self-esteem. 4, don't involve relatives. The quarrel between husband and wife is purely their own housework, and don't involve other relatives. This is not only useless, but also makes the other person's good feelings for your loved ones disappear completely. 5. Husband and wife should not be judged by outsiders when quarreling. Don't criticize each other's faults in front of outsiders, and don't let outsiders judge who is right or wrong. This will make the other party feel humiliated and expand the contradiction. 6. Solve the quarrel between husband and wife as soon as possible. After a quarrel, whoever makes sense should take the initiative to apologize to the other party. Solution to the mutual restraint between husband and wife 2 How to solve a husband or wife: 1. Before deciding to get married, unmarried people first choose a combination that can analyze your spouse by analyzing the birth dates of both parties. 2. Unmarried couples who are in love fight with each other and want to get married. You can consider not getting a marriage certificate, not worshiping heaven and earth, and not hosting a banquet to alleviate the anger of the other party. After the period of mutual anger, it is not too late to do the relevant ceremonies and procedures. This is the so-called solution. If the husband and wife are married, try to keep their distance. If husband and wife share fewer rooms, they can weaken their mutual resistance. In the serious period of husband and wife, for example, one party chooses to travel abroad, or the woman goes back to her family for a period of time. 4. Husband and wife bedroom choose a place that is more conducive to the star of the husband or wife in the eight characters as the bedroom. For example, if your husband's star or wife's star belongs to wood, you should choose the bedroom near the east at home; Husband star or wife star belongs to fire, choose the south; Husband star or wife star is soil, choose south or southwest; Husband star or wife star is gold, choose to rely on the west; Husband star or wife star is water, choose near the north. (This method is also suitable for bed placement) 5. Choose an area that is beneficial to the husband or wife. For example, if the five elements of your constellation are fire, you should choose to live or work in the south or a warmer city instead of in the north. Husband or wife belongs to the five elements and chooses to live or work in the south or central region; The husband's star or wife's star belongs to gold and chooses the western regions; The husband's star or wife's star belongs to the water and chooses the northern region; The husband star or wife star belongs to the five elements of wood, and the eastern region is selected. 6. Try to marry later. Especially avoid the worst relationship between husband and wife, or get married after a certain period of time. For example, the eight-character information shows that 202 1 has a serious situation, so try to choose 202 1 and then consider getting married. 7, female Foucault is serious, try not to have children during Foucault's period. Because in the eight characters, children are food gods and wounded officials, and these two stars directly bind the husband star. If the children were born in Foucault's time, then the food star would actually strengthen the banner and increase Foucault's power. 8. Use the mysterious power of religion, such as Taoist magic, to dissolve the gas field of wife or husband. 9. You should always keep a good attitude and use your positive energy to resolve the power of your husband or wife. On the contrary, if you are in a bad mood every day, those negative gas fields will aggravate your spouse's power and aggravate it. 10, using feng shui conditioning method. Through feng shui conditioning, improving and optimizing the home feng shui environment, and arranging Wang Fu Xing or Wang Qi Xing Feng Shui array, the negative atmosphere of having a husband or a wife in home feng shui can be resolved and weakened, which can greatly weaken the impact of attacking spouses.